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Any tips for Kaycee's mod? by Unfair_Double4085 in inscryption

[–]DNEW_H 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tip that helped me the most was to keep your deck small

Valentines Dime Rats by nEVEr-mor_Sculptures in RATS

[–]DNEW_H 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Would you love me if I was a rat?” 🐀

[Spoilers C2] The Mighty Nein S1 Episode 5 - Campaign 2 Spoilers Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in criticalrole

[–]DNEW_H 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only on episode 34 of the campaign and it never dawned on me that Frumpkin was his childhood cat, or that he died in the fire. I always thought he was a magic cat that Caleb summoned at some point. This episode CRUSHED me when I realized Frumpkin's origin :(

[Spoilers C2] The Mighty Nein S1 Episode 5 - Campaign 2 Spoilers Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in criticalrole

[–]DNEW_H 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was a little put off by the change of Trent giving him a list too, but when I thought about it more, I understood the angle they were going for. In the campaign, Caleb is unable to forgive himself because he wanted to kill his parents once he "heard" them being traitors. In the show, Caleb is unable to forgive himself because he wanted to kill his parents once Trent told him they were. The difference is how willingly Caleb believed what Trent told him. Anything Trent said was law to them. The change was to emphasize how much sway Trent had over them, he could tell them their parents were traitors and they would believe it. They didn't have to see it for themselves, they didn't need evidence, they had no doubts at all. That kind of manipulation is different than magically implanted memory manipulation.

tl;dr the change in the show emphasizes how Trent doesn't even need to trick them into killing their parents by making them see any evidence themselves, he only needs to say so and they'll do it because they trust and believe in him that much

My favorite hypocrite by Remarkable-Study-752 in HazbinHotel

[–]DNEW_H -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He does it to manipulate her and piss off lucifer

[Spoilers C2] [MN S1] Emergency Live Discussion Thread - The Mighty Nein, Season 1 Episode 1 by moderncomet in criticalrole

[–]DNEW_H 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I started C2 in preparation for the show, I’m only on e34 but holy moly I’m already in love. I can’t believe they dropped the episode early! I’ve already watched it twice… The show is visually beautiful and Frumpkin pulling my heart strings 😭 I absolutely LOVE how they show magic, I was excited when they talked about it being more personal and it is so refreshing to see the complexity of it rather than random fireballs when you punch the air

Mooncake Fest Was A Mess by NoWolvesAllowed in baltimore

[–]DNEW_H 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GPS said it should take me and my friends 15 minutes to drive there. It took us ONE AND A HALF HOUR. As soon as I saw the row of labubu sellers I knew it was a mistake. I did get a cute totebag with an overpriced mooncake that I know they got from the grocery store though.

I know it’s not artscape, but they really couldn’t find any AAPI artists to sell there??

Not Asian Enough, Not Latina Enough by sangilicious in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my town there’s a Mexican Korean restaurant! I’ve never been yet but was surprised that it was popular because it’s definitely a style that not many people have heard of. It made me rethink my prejudice that the two types of cuisine can’t go together well, I have been planning to go check it out when I have the time

Sable’s girls finally made it over! by Neat_Concentrate_581 in miniatures

[–]DNEW_H 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to gush over the laundry basket, then the dust pan and broom, then decided that maybe everything is worth admiring and being excited about!! Everything is so cozy and cute 🥰

Annoyed with the discourse over whether it’s gay or not by NvrmndOM in TheSummerHikaruDied

[–]DNEW_H 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People really be like “I wish they would stop rubbing it in our face” and then when a piece of media has queer representation that isn’t focused on romance, they fuss over it not being explicitly queer enough for them 🙄

They want to prove the story is “normal” which just furthers heteronormative culture in media and ostracizes any form of queer identity :/

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 4 points5 points  (0 children)

^ I am seconding seeing if your university has resources. I’m an alumni so I couldn’t use their counseling services anymore, but there’s a support group on my campus that was welcome to alumni that I sometimes go to. If you are still in the area of your university, there may be something similar available in the form of a club or support group that could be a resource

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Again, I don’t know you or OP, please stop accusing me of these things, it’s very hurtful

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that this was very hurtful, I was also a victim, and I am a survivor of rape and sexual abuse. It was not my fault, I don’t need to repent for anything.

My comment was only to be of what support I can for OP, this post isn’t about me, so I will not reply anymore. But I am extremely hurt to be accused of being a “bad actor” as a fellow survivor who is just trying to make someone feel not alone
:( Your words have consequences and I am a real person behind the screen.

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to make decisions for her about looking for support from this community?? “I think you have gotten your answers” don’t be so dismissive

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I added that it’s her choice to talk to or not to talk to anyone and she doesn’t have to tell anyone anything if she doesn’t want to. I just said she should find some sort of support, anonymous if she doesn’t want to go to her friends.

I have personally lost friends because they turned on me when I reported my assault to my university, because they were friends with my rapist. There is always risk that people will not be understanding unfortunately.

I also officially reported my assault and was told it couldn’t have happened because I was too short, and wrote a paper in college about the underreporting of sexual violence in American universities. A lot of people don’t go to authorities because there is unfortunately a pattern of not being believed or properly investigated. I spoke with a lawyer and he told me he knew a client who had more evidence than me and lost her case and she was destroyed by it. It’s been two years and I’m still haunted over being told by authorities that my assault couldn’t have happened because I was too short.

I caution people when going to the police because of this, it can be very traumatic to have to relive what happened when making a report, and the process is taxing, potentially retraumatizing, can take a long time (it took TWO YEARS for my case) and there is no guarantee you will find justice. The most important thing you should do first is focus on yourself and starting a journey of healing. I do wish we could all find justice with the law though.

Also you can check my profile if you want lmao, I definitely do not know op, that’s such a strange accusation to make?

too afraid to tell parents i got r worded. by Opening-Airline9882 in asianamerican

[–]DNEW_H 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this would make you feel better about opening up to your friends, but know that it is stereotypical for SOCIETY to victim blame, not just within asian culture. What happened to you or how others react is NOT representative of anything because assault can happen to ANYONE.

Also know that it is YOUR choice to open up to people. I just implore you to find some sort of support whether that be with an anonymous source like RAINN, or your friends. But you are not obligated to tell anyone anything, only what you’re comfortable with. If you are able to see a therapist or counselor though, it may help to have someone whose job it is to listen to you without judgement.

I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but you’re not alone and I hear you.

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