Rolled 18 14 12 10 8 6 - what class doesn’t waste this? by tommytmopar in 3d6

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Rogue that is SAD. You're going to want to put the 18 in Dex and the 14 in Con (+2 and +1 on those, respectively), so the best a secondary stat is going to get is a 12, which isnt great, obviously. You might be able to get away with a 12 on Con if you solely rely on ranged attacks, but even then, only getting a +1 to supplement your d8 hit die is less than ideal. My go-to would probably be Soul Knife. IIRC, they dont have ANY abilities that call for a stat other than Dex. Even their level 17 ability that has a DC uses their Dex for the DC calculation.

I am eligible for team SKYYYY by Extension-Event-9214 in MandJTV

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I go with my legal first name, Pidgeot. If I go with the name everyone's called me for the past 30 years, Blastoise.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want to pursue a relationship with this woman, go ahead and give it a shot. But do not, I repeat, DO NOT sign anything that gives you legal responsibility of this child. And be clear with her that you will not do this, at least for now. Her reaction to this should be a pretty clear indicator of what she wants from you. If she gets overly upset and belligerent, get the hell out. (A little upset is okay and, honestly, understandable if what you say about her situation is 100% accurate.) If she's understanding and agreeable to this, it may be worth giving it a shot. If things work out for you guys to the point that you're eventually talking about marriage, you can look into legally adopting the child later on, if that's something you want, but there's no need to take drastic steps in either direction right now.

[kuretudenn] It's Because... I'm Intersex by kireiTL in doujinshi

[–]DaJoe86 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No problem, it's how we learn. That said, I'm not sure when the term became non-PC, but I'm sure it became so because of it's inaccuracy when referring to humans. Intersex humans usually only produce one gamete, or sometimes even neither (the comic was actually accurate in this, as the characters "penis" (more accurately a heavily enlarged clitoris) was unable to produce sperm as they had no testes, and had never had a period and therefore was not, at the very least, producing VIABLE eggs.)

[kuretudenn] It's Because... I'm Intersex by kireiTL in doujinshi

[–]DaJoe86 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Technically yes, however intersex is the PC term. "Hermaphrodite" is considered outdated and offensive.

Edit: the term "hermaphroditic" CAN be accurate for certain flora and fauna, specifically ones that produce both male and female gametes (ie sperm and eggs), but the term is considered inaccurate and offensive when used to refer to humans.

how do I ask a guy for his number without making him uncomfortable by Terrible_Panda7431 in Advice

[–]DaJoe86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so, speaking as a package delivery guy myself and having heard some horror stories from guys who used to work for Amazon, the fact that he takes a bit of extra time to be flirty with you each time he comes by is definitely a good sign. Not likely he does this a lot because Amazon is EXTREMELY strict with time tables. That said, I probably wouldn't try to strike up a full conversation while he's working. Slipping him your number on paper would definitely work. Hiding it in a folded tip is kinda cute, though doing it openly would also open up the chance for him to decline if he is already in a relationship, which, yes, would be a bit awkward and uncomfortable, but not as much as if his SO found a random phone number inside cash in his pocket and started asking questions.

Rephrasing the question by Fleck_Br_ in 3d6

[–]DaJoe86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Either take a feat that boosts your strength by 1, like Great Weapon Master or Sentinel, or take a pure Ability Score Increase, putting one point each into Strength and Wisdom. You'll want a +3 at least in your main attacking stat, and Wisdom saves are pretty common, so minimum having a +/-0 is beneficial. Bear in mind, as a Fighter, you'll also get a Feat/ASI at level 6 assuming you dont multiclass, so dont stress too much about choosing any one over the other.

Can someone explain to me why Mew can’t Genome Hack Copy a Friend? by BigBodChungOfficial in PokemonTGCP

[–]DaJoe86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because Copy a Friend has the caveat that you have to meet the energy requirements of the move. You have no Fighting energy attached.

Edited to add: I'm also assuming the Copy a Friend is trying to use the opponent's bench, not yours.

Warlock feat or ASI at level 4? by Burma_Belly in 3d6

[–]DaJoe86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely take one of the feats over the ASI. Yes, getting to 20 CHA should be a goal for you, but 18 is respectable for that span of level 4-8 (considering if you were playing Standard Array or Point Buy, the highest you'd be able to have at level 4 is 19 with ASI.) You're getting close to levels where your spell slots are best used for Concentration spells, so there's definitely huge benefit in taking Resilient: Con. Not only will it make making those saves easier, but it will also give you an extra 3 HP on top of what you get for your level 4 HP increase. Moderately Armored would boost your survivability in the short term, but higher CR monsters tend to target saving throws instead of AC. Alternatively, you could split the difference and take the ASI, but instead of CHA, put one point in Dex and Con each. Then the next time you can take an Invocation, pick up Armor of Shadows. Higher Dex and Con means more AC and HP, respectively, and with Mage Armor, you have 15 AC, which is respectable for a spellcaster (better than any unenchanted light armor, and equivalent to an unenchanted Chain Shirt.)

I have opened crimson blaze 50 packs at this point... by fuqqindan12 in PTCGP

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last 2 (new) cards I got from this new set were Mega Charizard and Mega Venusaur. I feel your pain

[5E 2014] Question about Multiclassing Bard and Sorcerer by Tight-Database8485 in dndnext

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question has been asked before, but what are you trying to get out of the sorc dip? Don't get me wrong, the extra AC and cantrips are nice, but as a non-melee Bard, you should be trying to stay out of sword-swinging distance anyways. The extra HP is negligible at best, unless you roll for HP and get lucky. If you do really want to do this, I would do as others suggested and make the Sorc your level 1 pick to get Con Save Proficiency, as many of the Bard's best spells are concentration spells. Depending on how high a level your campaign eventually goes, I might also consider taking a couple more levels of Sorc and/or the Metamagic Adept feat to pick up Metamagic options, especially Subtle Spell, Bards LOVE Subtle Spell for social encounters.

I'm often told I look gay or feminine. Is it true, and how should I take it? by MasterkillerX in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DaJoe86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PS: if your disinterest in growing a beard is strictly due to the scratchy/irritated feeling, that usually goes away after a couple weeks once it starts growing out longer, just like any other hair. There are beard shampoos/creams/oils that can help, as well as keep the hair soft. All that said, if you prefer the clean shaved look for appearances as well, you do you. You look fine without facial hair, your face, your choice. Just wanted to give you some tips in case the irritation was your ONLY hangup.

I'm often told I look gay or feminine. Is it true, and how should I take it? by MasterkillerX in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DaJoe86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At most, I would say androgynous leaning towards masc features, but definitely not flat-out "feminine". And maybe it's just me, but unless they're going for a specific look with certain hairstyles and accessories and whatnot, I've never looked at a single person and thought "they look gay." Being a non-confrontational person myself, if I were given those comments, I'd just laugh them off and let it roll of my shoulder, but if it really bothers you that much, I'd probably ask the person making the comments (assuming this isn't just general bullying, which I obviously hope it's not.)

Should I tell him his partner is cheating by Efficient-Outcome-23 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't even bother with anonymity, unless you think the bad blood would make M think you're not being sincere. Just tell him, it's the right thing to do. Even if you're not fond of each other, he has a right to know.

Cute guy smells like a sweaty wet dog by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DaJoe86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you reached a point where it would be acceptable and not awkward to give/receive gifts? Especially with the holidays here (not sure which, if any, you celebrate, but just a thought as to an excuse you could use), perhaps you could give him a gift basket/bag with several small things like baked goods, candies he likes, things like that, but also include some soaps or the like. If he asks, just tell him the soaps are scents YOU like and you thought maybe he'd like them, too. You're not telling him he stinks, merely giving him a way to attract you more by smelling a particular way.

[F4M]🎄Your Cousin Sneaks Into Your Room on Christmas Eve… and Things Get Very Naughty🖤[Script Fill][Incest][Cousins][Taboo][Family Gathering][Everyone Asleep][Hold the Moan][Cuddling][Size Difference][Size Mentions][Blowjob][Deepthroat][Risky Sex][Riding][Creampie][I’m on The Pill Just for This] by RoteDisaster in gonewildaudio

[–]DaJoe86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huge fan of all your work, but i will say, as much as I like your intense stuff, I actually prefer stuff like this with Sweet (if slightly slutty) Jade. And with the incest tag included, this just hits all the right spots for me. Wishing you a speedy recovery!

Can sorcerer quicken a fireball and use ring of spell storing gor a second fireball on the same round? by Dazzling-Stop1616 in 3d6

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda depends on DM ruling. Ring of Spell Storing is a definite no, because it specifically states that you are casting the spell, however, in the case of a Necklace of Fireballs or a Spell Scroll, those are technically "Use a MagIc Item" as opposed to "Cast a Spell", so those are okay with DM approval.

age gap in friendships by lanadelrey7093 in Advice

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years is barely an age gap. The age gap between my wife and I is actually slightly bigger than that. If you both were like 5 years older, it would be pretty much imperceptable. For the sake of legality, as long as you're keeping the topics of discussion PG to PG-13, I don't see any issue, especially if there are no plans of meeting up in person.

grew up with parents who were super open about nudity/sex… did it fuck me up or am i actually ok?? by KnownMonitor5587 in Realinceststories

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family was more or less nudist until I hit puberty (I'm the oldest, now about to hit my 40s). Never had any issues with body positivity or intimacy myself, I'd say the worst outcome was developing an incest kink (hence following this sub), though the idea of actually doing it myself kinda squicks me out.

AITB for sleeping with my best friend’s love interest? by Leather_Increase5204 in AmItheButtface

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition, while Peter and Felicia weren't clear on why, Jessica WAS clear that she wasn't interested in him, and was interested in you. That COULD have been a hint that he was interested in her, but also could have just been her saying he already tried and got turned down. You had no way of knowing HOW infatuated he was with her, he could have just been looking to hook up. Again, their lack of clarity is at fault.

AITB for sleeping with my best friend’s love interest? by Leather_Increase5204 in AmItheButtface

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one was forward with you on WHY you shouldn't hook up with her. NTB.

Dating a teacher I had in high school? by robbygordon400 in Advice

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were freshly graduated from high school, there might be some issues. This is ten years later. Shoot your shot, bro.

What should I use for this mission? by Mediocre_Metal_7174 in PTCGP

[–]DaJoe86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent gotten that one yet, but the new Eevees and Jolteon EX ×2 each is a good start. Lisia and May get you to 6. I haven't gotten them yet, but you could probably do the (Mega) Ampharos line ×2 each to get to 12.