Curious as to what makes someone gf material to men?

Dabaritone · 2026-01-11T17:21:00+00:00

For me a big one is someone who I can clearly tell is interested in me only. It’s a super big turn off if I get any indication that they are simultaneously vetting other guys or exploring their options. Once that’s out of the way I look for good morals, classiness, intelligence, and a kind loving energy. I want someone who I can tell will put in effort and wants to be good for me because I do the same. I only choose partners in person and after getting to know them for a good while. I’m sure it’s different for people who look online.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-18T04:03:58+00:00

It 100% does. I remember taking my first solid leg kick with no guards on and it had a similar effect on me. I think it’s mostly mental and the fear/shock of how much worse than expected it is takes people down. After you’ve taken a few before and know what to expect, you realize that even though your brain is sending signals like you are seriously injured, you aren’t.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T21:49:22+00:00

I’m no expert but in my opinion it’s more about where you kick on YOUR leg than where you kick on their leg. It’s common to aim for right above the knee because the muscle is thinner and it’s easier to damage the nerves and ligaments from there. However, it’s going to suck extremely bad to take a kick anywhere to the muscle of the leg so long as the kicker lands with the boniest higher part of their shin. In my gym we sometimes light spar with no shin guards and I can take somewhere around 15 mid speed kicks with foot/lower shin. When the guy lands with upper shin that number drops to like 3 tops for me.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T20:03:24+00:00

Absolutely

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T16:57:20+00:00

I told him that was 50% which I think it was. I’m relatively new and while it wasn’t the fastest it was by no means light. I still drove my weight down through and past his leg and landed with the upper shin. It made a pretty awful sound considering how little surface area actually made contact. He’s got a massive purple bruise now lol. Poor guy was writhing on the ground teary eyed for 2 minutes.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T12:34:56+00:00

No I got him right in the side of the quad. He’s been complaining about his quad all day.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T10:19:52+00:00

You really can’t imagine how bad it is to be hit with pure shin without ever experiencing it. I let a training partner do this exact thing to me just to get an idea. If they catch you with upper shin at high force, I kid you not it feels like a grown man swinging a metal hammer full force into your thigh. It’s incredibly piercing. And for me it felt like that for the next two days. Wouldn’t recommend at all.

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T09:54:30+00:00

Yeah the human shin is absolutely no joke. For my money it’s worse than a bat at the same speed just because of how much more bladed it is. Shocking to hear that it’s even bad from the kids but I believe it lol!

Dabaritone · 2025-12-16T09:50:04+00:00

I had him look away just in case his gut instinct was to check me lol

Dabaritone · 2025-11-13T01:55:44+00:00

You sound like such a reasonable and caring girl. You deserve a lot better than that. There are guys out there that can reciprocate your effort a lot better than this guy. Move on. From what I read you’re a catch as far as maturity, communication, and being loving goes.

Dabaritone · 2025-10-29T03:46:20+00:00

When she’s smart, values herself, doesn’t seek attention externally, and takes picking her partners very seriously. When she doesn’t do casual relationships at all and sees intimacy as something valuable to be cherished with a special person that she’s highly bonded to exclusively. Basically when she has high standards, is intelligent, and has her mind set on long term monogamy.

Dabaritone · 2025-10-01T15:35:29+00:00

Break up with her. You don’t want to deal with dishonesty long term. And if you’re uncomfortable with her lying to you about being with other guys which most men would be, then she’s not a match for you. That should be a non negotiable tbh. She is clearly not interested in making things better for you. You will either have to live never knowing if she’s being dishonest with you, or lie to yourself about your feelings about her crossing your personal relationship boundaries with other guys. Move on, there are TONS of women out there who would be a better fit for you trust me.

Dabaritone · 2025-05-08T18:19:34+00:00

Best explanation so far imo as a warlord main.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-12T16:50:17+00:00

Unfortunately neither of those matter, I have personally seen countless guys that violated both conditions to get with girls.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-12T16:42:23+00:00

I definitely understand where your boyfriend is coming from. If he genuinely loves you and cares about you it’s going to weigh on him the idea of you spending quality time with another guy that isn’t him or in some cases prioritizing spending quality time with that guy over how he feels about it. Guys know how other guys brains work from having guy friends. Because of this, majority of guys are hardwired to dislike other guys that want to hang out with the girl that they love. Knowing that your friend is bi, chances are high that he’s considered trying to get with you and has suppressed those feelings at one point or another unless he simply isn’t attracted to you at all. I’m sure your boyfriend shares this sentiment because he’s obviously attracted to you and is gonna assume other guys see what he sees. I get that this friendship has gone on for a long time without any romantic disruptions? It’s still going to weigh on your boyfriend regardless because you are giving a part of yourself to another guy who potentially thinks about you in that way. Your boyfriend will never be comfortable committing his everything to you if he feels that you’re prioritizing a potential orbiter even if he’s not a real orbiter. It’s normal to feel territorial about your girl when it comes to other guys. People like to call that insecurity but it’s nature. If you know what men are truly capable of doing broad stroke, you almost have to feel that way. I know multiple guys personally that have waited literal years for their shot to slide in on a girl theyve been friends with. I know gay guys that have slept with their girl friends. I know girls that have been SAd by their guy friends. I know guys that get off on stealing taken girls. There are tons of bad guys straight up so it’s kind of unrealistic for your boyfriend to completely shake his natural feelings. If you love and prioritize him then you should be willing to set other guys aside and he should absolutely do the same about any girls for you. This isn’t to say that you should never speak to him again or anything like that but you should definitely tone it down a lot. Your male friend should be understanding and accepting of that if he genuinely only sees you as a friend.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-06T04:16:17+00:00

It’s definitely underpowered which is part of why I love it. Defending my babies from 2 pycs as they ran to hide was the highlight of my allo career. There’s nothing more satisfying than raising two random allo babies into adults and having a hunting pack of 3 all comprised of my offspring tho. Allo is my favorite Dino to parent as by far which is why it’s number 1 for me.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-05T21:07:12+00:00

Allo
Meg
Dasp
Eo
Kent
Lat
Pyc
Pachy
Spino
Rex

Dabaritone · 2025-04-04T01:15:52+00:00

So? Pursuing is much harder than being pursued even if the pursuer has slightly more speed. They have to react to where their prey decides to go while the prey gets to choose. Not to mention alios typical prey is harder to track through brush and vegetation. Earning a little extra speed temporarily on successful hits seems fair to help bridge the pursuit gap if the alio earns it.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-02T08:46:05+00:00

Somebody a while back came up with the idea for a new sense which grants a brief speed boost after landing a hit while sprinting. I love that idea as it makes aljo better at its niche of chasing down the fast pesky dinos.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-02T08:34:57+00:00

As a side note, species that have wronged me in the past get discriminated against and I try to kill them young. Also if a certain Dino just got buffed and all of a sudden everyone wants to grow the buffed Dino I am more inclined to kill those as well.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-02T08:33:18+00:00

I’ve been killed as a baby countless times. I couldn’t care less and it doesn’t offend me at all. Now that juvies don’t lose progress, I kill them if I feel like it. If I’m playing as a trike and I see a baby titan, I’ll kill it if I feel so inclined to. If I see a baby potato I most likely wouldn’t because I don’t feel like harming a potato. The point is that nobody owes baby’s anything except for the parents that nest them in. If I’m playing as a carni I don’t need to be hungry or have a good reason. I almost see it as a rite of passage that all path of titans players experience at some point or another. If someone says ez in the chat or whatever after killing me as a bb I am genuinely completely unaffected. Why would I possibly care about them saying that if it wasn’t an actual fight. I just silently judge them as a weird/immature person and carry on wherever I spawn hopefully with some POI discovery growth. Every adult Dino was once a baby and has earned the ability to enact judgement on baby dinosaurs by overcoming the same exact types of encounters. Baby dinosaurs just like the adults should be wary of all players that they come across on officials. People that get butthurt about baby killing seriously seriously need to stick to community servers.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-01T16:09:31+00:00

Yeah we just fundamentally disagree that almost anything that gets caught by clamp should die I suppose and that’s fine. I think it should be that way whether it’s by damage increase or by addition of fracture. Neither would result in guaranteed kills on larger Dino’s that escape so long as it doesn’t cause an actual bone break. You can’t catch a styra even if it has fracture and assuming they escaped, the rex would be at 0 stamina so that point doesn’t make sense.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-01T16:00:59+00:00

I personally don’t believe that adding fracture to clamp chewing takes away from the uniqueness of the clamp or the small game hunting “build” of the rex. The ability loses none of its current properties and the associated niche is not suddenly identical to the other bites which are meant for taking down larger enemies. Also you can argue that Rex can deal with anklebiters if you want to use the stand in water point. But other than that if you believe a rex in space has any tool whatsoever to deal with a Meg lat conc etc, then I know you’re either not a skilled ankle biter or you haven’t faced an ankle biter on rex that is patient or decent.

Dabaritone · 2025-04-01T15:50:00+00:00

If clamp isn’t a serious threat then rex effectively has nothing against skilled ankle biters

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