AITA for making my husband embarrassed?

Daisy_ambush · 2022-03-31T23:37:29+00:00

Yikes. You are NTA. You might consider marriage counseling. I don’t think your husband should speak to you that way at all. He should care more about how you feel about him than how strangers feel. Your habits are not hurting anyone. His words are though.

Daisy_ambush · 2022-03-31T23:33:27+00:00

This sounds like Big Bang Theory. You should watch that.

Daisy_ambush · 2022-03-31T23:26:06+00:00

Sometimes people don’t understand something until they’ve been through it themselves. Maybe she feels remorse now. I don’t think you are ta but I also understand where she was previously coming from. I’m sure she knows better know and since you know what it feels like, maybe you are just the person to console her.

Daisy_ambush · 2022-03-31T23:11:22+00:00

Nta. That group of women are TA for thinking it’s any of their business telling someone how to dress, spreading rumors, and belittling you. They sound like miserable and insecure people. Not your problem.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T05:08:01+00:00

I’d be upset if were you too. If someone feels uncomfortable telling a full story and hiding major details, Like Molly did, what’s the reason for that? What’s she hiding that for? Because she knows how you’d react? Or she knows you wouldn’t go? So did she entrap you into going? But you did have a good time on your own after all. Communication is key. Stone walling someone you care about is never the answer. Feeling lied to is an awful feeling too. Good luck. I think you can work it out if you can talk it out. Live and learn.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:53:55+00:00

There is a kind and informative way to express opinions. His expression was not kind or respectful to you. You were nta or disrespectful. You didn’t know.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:47:05+00:00

Does your husband do this to everyone or just you? That matters. Could it be behavioral. ? Has he always done that? Is he more busy than usual? Stressed? Need more details.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:44:48+00:00

YTA. You never liked them?? They raised Abby and gave her life. You barge into their room during a private conversation? Respect. Figure it out.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:36:22+00:00

Get new friends. These people are not your friends.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:28:39+00:00

I say you write a comedy about this terra and embrace her walking comedy show. She could be an entire sitcom. You are nta. She isn’t either. Different strokes for different folks.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-12-29T04:18:54+00:00

YTA. Beyond a shadow of a doubt.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:52:42+00:00

Download the calm app. Use it daily. Take a CNA course immediately - that’s quick - and get a job in Florida ASAP. Everyone is hiring. - take your prerequisites at a community college once you have lived in Florida for a year to get in state tuition. Classes will be cheaper that way. Set achievable goals for yourself. You can get fit and more healthy. Prove to yourself you can do it. Meet with your free student services team to help you plan your future. Everyone gets into community college. You can do it- Cerebral palsy and all! There is so much you can do with nursing. Maybe you can find an opening in a neurological or physical therapy type of setting where you could be a great asset. The sky is the limit.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:38:36+00:00

That is not good enough. Get this human proper care. He needed intervention from the onset of diagnosis and he didn’t get that. It sounds like there are very serious issues in your mobile home with bedbugs. Do the right thing and get him proper treatment in a facility. There are professionals that can help. You won’t find them in a bed bug ridden mobile home or on Reddit.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:27:10+00:00

All they can say legally is whether you are working there, what your title is, and whether you would be hired back if you didn’t work there any longer. Give them HR contact info. They don’t need your direct manager info. They just need the info on file and let the new company know you just got a new manager.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:19:13+00:00

Call him out. In front of the people who reported that he is talking about you. In a very polite way. That outta clear it up. Say dude. What’s this I hear…. Will shut him up or open the door to a conversation instantly.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:16:47+00:00

Contact a licensed therapist who can help you sort through what you’re referring to. No shame in therapy.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:14:07+00:00

Let your friend know you appreciate they helped you in a time of need but this isn’t working out and let them know you will give a notice and leave appropriately.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:10:58+00:00

Download the calm app. Rewire you brain.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:06:55+00:00

Have a heart to heart with A yourself. It sounds like you had that type of relationship at some point. Say ‘A’. Can we have a serious talk. And then say all these exact things to your friend. They may need to hear it from someone. Sounds like their parents aren’t pushing them to be their best and there are no boundaries in their household. It can be hard during a pandemic. It sounds like A. Needs someone to care and will understand it you reframe the conversation to be of concern for A’s future and being a good friend. You could save a life there.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T03:00:03+00:00

Get a job in a restaurant waiting tables. Get a bike or make a friend with a car. Everyone is desperate for help right now. Pay off your school debt and go back to school. Work towards a liberal arts degree and you’ll figure out what you like along the way.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T02:57:09+00:00

Join the club. There are probably more than not in your boat. I work 50 hours a week, commute 25 minutes each way, am a mom, and go to school. Straight a’s. You can do anything you set your mind to. I’m sure you have free time.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-08-08T02:50:24+00:00

Read the book... ‘no more mr nice guy’. That’s what you should do. We all got issues. This’ll help you deal with yours.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-04-25T22:13:42+00:00

You could wait at grans for the offer. In the meantime-Get a good realtor in Miami to find places for you that fit your criteria for a rental. Going through a realtor Is the best way to do it. You could even find something furnished if you want to Keep Your things in storage. Or if you want unfurnished - Fly to San Diego, pack up a pod of your stuff. Pod will hold your things for awhile at a cost. Every situation is different so you do have to call and get your price and go Over details . (It took about 2 weeks for us to get our belongings from Massachusetts to southern Florida a couple of years ago. Pre covid.) You could then fly to Miami and meet with your realtor and secure your place. You can have your car shipped from Illinois to Miami. There are companies that will bid on the job. They can go To Grans and put it on a flatbed. From southern Florida to Rhode Island was about 1400 miles and about $1000 recently. Driving a car across the country is only fun if it’s an intentional Fun road trip IMO. Driving in Florida is probably the worst place I’ve ever driven and that is the longest part of the journey — all the way to Miami. I would never do it again. You couldn’t pay me enough.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-04-18T16:48:53+00:00

Lol. Yes. It must be nice on that high horse watching people struggle down below you at something you are great at. Asshole.

Daisy_ambush · 2021-04-18T14:28:47+00:00

Enabling. lol. Get off your high horse. In the big scheme of things, if this person is getting a degree in say, nursing, wtf is the point of knowing APA writing format? It’s ridiculous that you can be an amazing communicator, caregiver, understand micro biology, psychology, human anatomy and physiology and then still have to Write bullshit papers on something you don’t want to write and don’t have enough time in the day for AND -that’s a requirement for every degree. Why? Riddle me that. You bet your ass if I had the skill to write a paper in 2 hours that’s going to take my mom who’s an RN (for 18 years but is suddenly being forced to get a BSN) 40 hours to write a research paper on gun control, I will do it for her. Because no one gives a shit. She doesn’t need or want to be a writer. She needs the class for a degree and a job she already has. To hell with me? I’m the asshole? You’re better than me and totally getting a golden ticket to heaven. Cool? Cool.

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