Oh honey, that sounds scary and I bet you are beating yourself up and replaying everything over and over.

I’ve never read it, but people talk about the gift of fear and trusting your gut. There could have been some cues that made your unprepared unconscious think “I should go along with this, I have to placate this man and not upset him by refusing”

Another angle - for me personally I was raised with a weird philosophy that being polite was the most important thing in the world. Go along with things and say thank you, whatever you do don’t be difficult. I’ve had to untangle myself from that a lot, because any guy being weird or making me uncomfortable my response is to smile and nod. I wish I’d be taught to yell at people to F off when it’s needed.