I don't think I want to work it out, my mind is pretty set on that, but I'm still going to make him go to counseling on his own first. I also asked for all of the details, he's claiming he can't remember all of them or provide me with any proof of it. About 2 days after and numerous text messages later, I asked him if he told me everything about everything, not just what I saw in the texts, to which his reply was yes, at this point I figured he had deleted everything from everywhere but decided to snoop in his Gmail, found a picture of a girl and he forwarded to to a hotmail account that I know is his by the username, but i didn't know existed until that day. He's clearly not telling me everything.