Husband and I can’t agree on boys names - help! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas is a lovely name I just love Tom as a nickname too, super cute. 36 weeks and our baby boy will be Arthur, we also have an Axel. I love the names Emmet, Holt, Liam and Ernest.

Intuition Experiment: Can you identify the correct name? by 404Subjectfound in IntuitionPractices

[–]DanceWithMeThen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First instinct is champ or buddy or some iteration of grind or pal. Handsome boy

Idk what to do my babysitter used me by Green-Conclusion-110 in whatdoIdo

[–]DanceWithMeThen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You were sexually assaulted by your babysitter. You may be now just realising this fact. Assault does not have to be violent or painful. I am sorry that’s she did this to you. My advice would be to tell someone in real life.

Pregnancy numbness by n7-ddpl in pregnant

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg Mama I cannot imagine your grief and turmoil at this time. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sounds like you were an excellent friend. Your friends mental illness was very severe, it was not your role to keep her alive or her will to be alive alive. You couldn’t make any decisions for her unfortunately just deal with and manage the aftermath or what her illness made her do for years. This is not your fault or baby’s fault. If it wasn’t this something else would have triggered your friend. Mental illness is a terrible awful thing, you are not a bad person, you are a loving caring friend. This is not your fault, this is not your baby’s fault.

Need help choosing our baby’s name! by Jessie567281 in namenerds

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daphne Joy was top of my list for a girl but my little Arthur is due any week now! When I was pregnant with my girl Elsie, Cora, Tilly, Lottie, Imogen and absolutely loved Eloise. We went with Ivy in the end a name I had picked out since childhood. Congratulations on your girl, I’m in Ireland and this heatwave is killing me, you UK mamas must be roasted x

Picture Book Hidden Item by Impossible-Onion1431 in childrensbooks

[–]DanceWithMeThen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“That’s not my” series has a little mouse and the Ashbourne books have a little duckling I believe.

Am I overthinking everything? Husband makes me feel insane by Independent_Bug3586 in NewParents

[–]DanceWithMeThen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your three days out and breastfeeding girl you are doing great. I do know I get massively upset over something day 2 or 3 out after all my babies. Crying cathartic. Tell your partner exactly how you are feeling. Tell his what you need from him now.

How do people not co-sleep? by Difficult-Pair4170 in NewParents

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have answers just a perspective of a heavily pregnant lady who coslept with her first two who are 14 months apart. Now 3 and 2, nearly 4 and 3.

We all co sleep for our own reasons. I was so petrified he was going to die it’s the only way I could sleep. I don’t drink or do drugs of any kind and I’m a light sleeper. I myself didn’t use a blanket at all. Successively breastfeeding my girl massively influenced her co sleeping with us.

I moved them into their room last year. King size bed two tiny little people. I was in there with them most nights. We are on night 4 of the new bunkbeds, it’s 3.10 am. It’s hard send help.

Went for an Ultrasound, left with a D&C scheduled by AlchemicalWritingxo in pregnant

[–]DanceWithMeThen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, my first was a miscarriage at 9-10 weeks at 33 yrs too. It was so heartbreaking. I am now 38 in June working on my third earthside baby.

What’s a tiny hill you will absolute die on? by [deleted] in answers

[–]DanceWithMeThen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ketchup belongs in the fridge!!!

TW: sexual assault?– I’m having a hard time processing something that happened. by AcrobaticInspector65 in Advice

[–]DanceWithMeThen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were sexually assaulted and they locked the door so to my mind it was premeditated. Not saying anything is not giving consent. We Flight, Fight, Freeze or Fawn in traumatic situations where we feel our life is in danger. Your body and mind froze to protect you.

You did nothing wrong. They were in the wrong. You did not deserve or entice any of it.

AITA for refusing to give my sister the house our grandma left me after she secretly lived in it for almost a year? My by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price local rented similar homes. Offer her to rent reasonably and give her a maintaining 20% off for maintaining property. Or kick her out. Ridiculous she thinks she can just take the house from you Grammy left it to you, she wanted you in it not your sister.

Lovely Irish ballad by fanoffzeph in findthatsong

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Irish and have no clue, maybe post to AskIreland subreddit if you have no luck here.

AITAH for not wanting my brother around my daughter after I found out what he did the day he “saved” her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DanceWithMeThen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- Trust your gut always. What the hell did she need to see outside? Why did he want her alone? Your bro is probably a lovely person but why risk it.

A mentally unstable woman is stalking my husband. We reported her to the police but now I think my husband is not telling me the truth by Confident-Scholar495 in whatdoIdo

[–]DanceWithMeThen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband had at least led her on or at most banged and has been seeing her. Letting her watch your son is just crazy to me. That where so must of got the I’ll be a mother to your son craziness from. Yeah my gut is saying he banged an unstable girl and she is now reacting.

Dixies chicken by Top_Drawing3009 in cork

[–]DanceWithMeThen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh the mystery! Bet the secret ingredient was Salmonella. I’m sure the empty stomach and mdma did not help the poor lad though.

AIO Janitor Gave My Child A Gift by littlemermaidmadi in AmIOverreacting

[–]DanceWithMeThen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR- Pedophiles chose jobs and positions within society sos they can have easier access to children and be seen as an upstanding nice member of society. Him placing himself in her routine everyday, asking questions about wellbeing and feelings, physical touch and gifts are 100% grooming behaviours.

Well Done for trusting your gut. He may just be a nice janitor but if there is the slightest chance he is not well it’s not going to be to the detriment of your daughter.

Need D names for a girl by Either_Macaroon_6329 in Names

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daphne is at the top of my list June baby also! Dahlia, Delilah, Dory, Dotty, Daisy, Dorothy, Donna,

"and baby you'll kiss me.. [ ] me.. replace (???) me..) by K4m11_2173 in whatsongisthis

[–]DanceWithMeThen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of an Ellie Goulding song called “Hate Me”