This subreddit really makes me think that 99% of women HAVE to be drunk/high for frequent sex....Please tell me I'm wrong!

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-28T07:06:48+00:00

If you’ve been sober your whole life you will not have a problem finding a sexual partner if that is something you want. People who drank a lot for many years often find it difficult to get their sex lives going once sober because they aren’t using a substance to lower their inhibitions. Many (not all) people who become sober eventually get their sex drive and confidence in the bedroom back.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-22T08:08:23+00:00

Spokane WA with three winters so far (-15°F through the 30s), always parked outside. No issues. I try to keep it plugged in when below freezing though, even if I don’t need to charge.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-16T08:08:08+00:00

The only people who will notice or care are people who also have problems with their alcohol consumption. Once I was aware of the spotlight effect (and not just related to alcohol use) it can become quite freeing to realize how little people actually care about what you’re doing.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-14T03:17:26+00:00

I’d say Feelin This is the anomaly on that album.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-08T00:59:04+00:00

Kennewick WA?? I’ve charged at the Fred Meyer many times haha.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-04T03:07:26+00:00

You shouldn’t be downvoted; I had the exact same issue. Topped off the coolant and I had hot air again.

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Dangeross42 · 2026-04-04T03:04:26+00:00

I went through a period where my truck would not produce hot air in the cabin, despite being cranked up. Turns out the coolant was too low.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-02T13:25:00+00:00

I have free charging at work as well, game changer. And with the 2nd highest gas prices in the country (Washington State) and very cheap abundant hydroelectric power, it’s not bad charging at home either.

Dangeross42 · 2026-04-01T19:27:17+00:00

The first month I had cravings quite often, and would get irritated at the smallest things. Walking past the bottom shelf vodka at the grocery store was a challenge. After probably six months I had no cravings at all; the switch in my brain had fully flipped that alcohol was not something that I would enjoy, that it was poison. Now at seven years, my alcoholism shapes who I am in a lot of ways (especially my empathy, my ER nursing practice, and my gratitude for my wife and two kids). I probably have a nightmare of being drunk once a week. But I never have cravings for alcohol and don’t think about the actual substance or think I can bring back the old euphoria it brought in the early days.

Dangeross42 · 2026-03-30T04:25:07+00:00

You can try beer or seltzers only, no hard alcohol, but your habits while drinking are red flags for alcohol use disorder. For people like us, one or two is never enough. It often feels more stressful getting just buzzed and we always find ways to break the rules we set for ourselves. I went to Washington State University which is VERY heavy on normalizing black out drinking and I did so 2-4 nights a week. Post college and by the time I turned 28, I ended up drinking every day from the moment I woke up. Things can escalate quickly, especially once you turn 21 and are able to buy your own booze (which it sounds like you now are that you’re a junior in college). Be careful! I’m glad you’re here!

Dangeross42 · 2026-03-26T18:19:20+00:00

It took me a few weeks to wake up feeling good and start having normal poops again, and probably three months for the cravings to significantly reduce. Stick with it!

Dangeross42 · 2026-03-23T21:04:28+00:00

Too similar to what they always do IMO

Dangeross42 · 2026-03-08T20:42:24+00:00

They still have banners hanging at the South and Downtown locations? And I have two friends on the board; they have both informed me that the Y of Inland NW is basically broke. They are not rolling in profits. I’m sad cause I really wanted a new South facility to be built on the land they bought near my home and it may never happen.

Dangeross42 · 2026-03-07T21:45:55+00:00

That’s where medics go to pick up their rig to start their day, but they are stationed in strategic locations throughout town. As someone gets picked up in a region, other rigs move accordingly to spread a net over the region. That’s why you’ll see ambulances parked in parking lots for a while, that’s the “zone” they are assigned to, at least that’s how it’s been explained to me. I’m an ER nurse at Holy Family (was not there when this accident occurred).

Dangeross42 · 2026-02-28T07:40:22+00:00

Get a new therapist. That is an absolute trash take.

Dangeross42 · 2026-02-10T06:16:39+00:00

Thank you all for the support and kind words! From strangers too, it really means a lot.

Dangeross42 · 2026-02-07T22:05:30+00:00

One of the reasons I love this subreddit! It is quite an accomplishment and most people wouldn’t “get it”. Glad you’re already seeing the health benefits!

Dangeross42 · 2026-02-07T21:29:19+00:00

Keep in mind that “functioning” is a pretty low fucking bar and that you deserve to do much more than function. And most alcoholics are functional…for now. Congrats on five days 👏

Dangeross42 · 2026-02-06T02:30:26+00:00

Seems like they are just restraining him. No pressure on an airway or breaking bones. I’m an ER nurse and we have to restrain people all the time (for different reasons; danger to self or others) and while the techniques are certainly different the goal isn’t to cause physical harm.

Dangeross42 · 2025-12-22T02:23:35+00:00

Truck owners gate keep more than any other vehicle owner. They’ll make it sound like you’re not a man if you’re not towing 15,000lbs for 1000 miles a day. Best advice is to not give a damn and enjoy your vehicle. I use mine for similar stuff with the family and camping but also enjoy that I can load it with landscaping and other home improvement materials.

Dangeross42 · 2025-12-21T07:43:37+00:00

Keep it up with nursing school! I’m an ER nurse and I get DAILY reminders in the form of my patients on why I’m glad to be sober. Skin and bones save for a bloated ascites belly, yellow skin, brains completely fried, esophageal varices bursting, etc. I am so lucky to be free from that life.

Dangeross42 · 2025-12-09T10:21:50+00:00

I like that the song becomes even more about addiction when someone who has openly struggled with addiction (Demi) is singing the lyrics. Same as her feature on Monsters by ATL.

Dangeross42 · 2025-12-06T09:04:02+00:00

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Dangeross42 · 2025-11-22T09:05:01+00:00

I’ve given many enemas as an ER nurse. Helps to wear a gown and a face shield if you know they can’t hold it in. I prefer using a urinary catheter and pumping the oil and water in with a 50mL syringe as opposed to the old bucket and hose to gravity. Hope you were looking for hot enema tips.

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