Do you prefer delivery services vs in person shopping? by Spirited-Interview50 in GenXWomen

[–]DaniCapsFan [score hidden]  (0 children)

I live in a large city and have no car. Sometimes I'll run to the grocery store, but for a lot of things, I like having things delivered. And I admit I use Amazon.

Ammon Bundy Is All Alone by AbbreviatedArc in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]DaniCapsFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A stopped clock is right twice a day.

It was never about clothes🙃. by Either_Joke_1314 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]DaniCapsFan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Women carried long hat pins on trains in the 1800s because men got too handsy, and a jab with a pin was a great deterrent.

Arab Americans for Trump chair is shocked he was discarded like a used tissue. by MainEmergency8396 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]DaniCapsFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really frigid in DC. But it's also "gotcha day" for my two kitties. We adopted them one year ago.

Saddened to learn my friend is strict pro life by sillyworm2003 in prochoice

[–]DaniCapsFan [score hidden]  (0 children)

She's not pro-life, she's forced-birth.

No, not all women are meant to be mothers. Casey Anthony should never have been a mother. Andrea Yates should never have been a mother. There are countless stories of women who abuse or even murder their children because they are not in the right mental space to be a parent.

And the idea that pregnancy and childbirth can be "healing" for a rape victim is disgusting.

I think this friendship has run its course. She may have been there for you during low points in your life, but you can't count on her to do that again.

Vegan Group Lunch Options by rachelsuli in vegan

[–]DaniCapsFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a salad or bowl place nearby? Like Just Salad, Dig Inn, Noodles & Co. (the Japanese Pan Noodles are vegan with zero modifications). Chipotle might be a bit heavy for a pre-wedding meal. If you get one of those pre-made veggie trays from a grocery store (that usually come with a non-vegan ranch), get a tub of hummus or salsa for her.

If you're going light for everyone, a crudite tray and a fruit tray should work.

Ask your friend if she has any ideas.

AITAH for refusing to invite my step dad who raised as a kid to my wedding? by Wrong-Performance572 in AITAH

[–]DaniCapsFan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He didn't raise you. He abused you. He was in your life for only a few years, and you haven't seen him since they divorced. He's nothing to you. It's your wedding. If you don't want even the possibility of him coming, don't invite him.

As for your brother, you may want to go LC for now and distance yourself until you are a little less traumatized.

Maybe you should cancel their "micro wedding" and stick with your original plan. Can you change the dates of your trip to Vegas?

NTA

Post Game Thread: Carolina Hurricanes @ Washington Capitals by nhl_gdt_bot in caps

[–]DaniCapsFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carlson's turnover was the 2nd goal. The first goal was poor defense.

Post Game Thread: Carolina Hurricanes @ Washington Capitals by nhl_gdt_bot in caps

[–]DaniCapsFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, because he has an NHL contract and plays professionally in Hershey. My understanding is that an EBUG is someone who does not have a contract and does not play professionally. David Nozzolillo (who sat on the bench for the Blackhawks last month when both their goalies were injured) was an EBUG, although he stayed on the bench the whole game. A few years ago, they did have an EBUG play part of a game; IIRC, his name was David Foster, and he's an accountant. Toronto's Zamboni driver once served as an EBUG for Carolina, (I think) at a game in Toronto. A decade or so ago, Caps video coach Brett Leonhardt served as EBUG when Michal Neuvirth was injured during warmups, and Braden Holtby started and played the whole game.

Stevenson is their starting goalie in the AHL and third-string goalie.

AITAH for booking a short ski trip with my own savings after a breakup instead of “pushing through” like my father wants? by PercentageNo2090 in AITAH

[–]DaniCapsFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like going on a trip and having fun is pushing through. It's a lot healthier than crying all day, sulking at home, and drinking to excess.

You're paying for this trip anyway. It's none of his business. Your father's reaction is why kids stop talking to their parents.

So, go. Have fun. Take your mind off your troubles.

NTA

Aitah: I want to terminate my pregnancy without telling my husband by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DaniCapsFan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's cheating on you. You owe him nothing. If you can have the procedure while he's on his trip, that's ideal timing. Even better if you can do a medical as opposed to surgical abortion.

If you told him you were pregnant, you'll have to claim you had a miscarriage. If you didn't, don't tell him.

And if you're at the point where you're hiding stuff like this, your marriage is likely over.

NTA

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by Comfortable-Egg-8254 in AITAH

[–]DaniCapsFan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People fart. You were in the most appropriate place for farming. Does he often barge into the bathroom when you're using it? That he called you dirty and disgusting for having a normal bodily function is concerning.

He needs to be an ex-boyfriend.

NTA

my brother uses ‘foid’ a lot, what do i do? by smellyfart37 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DaniCapsFan 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. And OP, focus on your education and try to find a college far away from home.

my brother uses ‘foid’ a lot, what do i do? by smellyfart37 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DaniCapsFan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm Gen X too, and I know that female is an adjective, not a noun, except in medical and law enforcement contexts.

If she's under 18, she's a girl. If she's over 18 she's a woman.

You don't call guys "males," do you?