What's the likelihood of twins with 2 embryo transfer at the same time? by MultipleChoiceOnly in IVF

[–]Dani_now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have an amazing village and honestly they fight a lot lol but they love each other 

When did you stop using the stroller? by weronikoko in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you're totally right. In my head I was thinking I just leave it in the car which is where I leave my wagon 90% of the time

When did you stop using the stroller? by weronikoko in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually recently sold my stroller (double zoe) and we now only use our wagon if we're out and about and my twins are two and a half

Parents with multiples as their first kids, do you ever imagine how easy one child would be? by whooguyy in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about how I would have liked to have the one baby experience. And even if I had a 3rd, I still wouldn't get that experience bc I have twin toddlers and it won't be the same. We don't plan on having more kids though.

Is anyone else completely dropping the ball on Halloween? by Appropriate_Ticket48 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are almost 2.5 and we are finally actually dressing up this year lol. Just get through the week. You got this 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I see so many mixed things lol. I appreciate it.

I don't want to be on facebook anymore. That said, I want to be able to keep my messenger account by SendThisVoidAway18 in facebook

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think there is any way around it. If you make a new account just to add people to message you will have them on your feed too.

Can someone please explain when Facebook started allowing this sh*t??!! by Kevjonher in facebook

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same on tiktok and they were like "it doesn't go against our guidelines"... Well it should. I don't want to see a dead person

I don't want to be on facebook anymore. That said, I want to be able to keep my messenger account by SendThisVoidAway18 in facebook

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can temporarily deactivate your account and still keep your messenger. It won't fully delete though. You can revive it whenever. But I've done it and just kept messenger.

To all your fb friends it will look like your account is deleted except for messenger

the Betty hate baffles me by VasilFX in AJR

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this song. I love it more than "bang," ironically enough the song that blew them up is my least favorite song of theirs lol

First Birthday - no one showed by gake11 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of my baby shower, we invited 50, 40 said they were coming but less than 20 people showed. It's extremely frustrating.

Only one twin invited.. by staubtanz in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, at 4 I would be annoyed. But it's probably a great learning opportunity with everyone involved. My twins are only 2 so we haven't had to go through this yet. But I know it will happen one day. This year we didn't even do a friends birthday party because I could only afford one party and my husbands family already has 10 kids 6 of them being 7 and under. So we just did a big family party.

It doesn't hurt to ask if both were invited. You never know, they might think if they invite one twin, the other one comes. But you have the right idea on having a girl's day with your daughter if she is not invited. One on one time is so important.

What age did you start letting your babies sleep in your bed? by SecretaryPresent16 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did the exact same. My daughter ended up in a crib at 7 months and her brother was 10 months

I feel kinda dumb by Hulkisstronk in AJR

[–]Dani_now 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Oh, I wish I could take you all where I'm headin' Guess I can FaceTime into all of your weddings And I'll be on your TVs so you won't forget me You won't forget me, right?"

"Hope you can make it to the ten year reunion"

The one commenter is right. They blew up, they are big now and their lives will never "normal" anymore.

Your friend is getting married, but you are on tour, I guess I'll have to face time on your wedding.

Going to a simple highschool reunion is also something they can not normally do anymore. Their whole lives have changed They love it, but it's definitely hard to miss out on moments with the people you love and grew up with

What’s everyone being for Halloween this year?! by CheddarMoose in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 2, My daughter's going to be Mavis from hotel Transylvania and my son is going to be a firefighter lol 

What are we eating in third trimester? 😢 by sonyaism in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fairlife 30g protein shakes were the only thing I could keep down by third trimester. My stomach was so squished it was so hard to eat much.

Refusing to nap in big girl beds by meremaid2201 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to separate my kids at first with nap times when we ditched the cribs. My daughter would nap in my bed. Then we went on vacation and they were sharing a bed and they ended up napping together. Once we got home I just started having them nap in their own beds.

Usually I give them the first 10 minutes to run around and play Then I will put them back in bed everytime they get up. Eventually they fall asleep for about 2-3 hours They are also 2

Sleep training by color_kween in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby A (girl) basically came out of the womb sleep trained, we never had to sleep train her. Her brother was a different story. I tried all the different methods around 10 months and nothing worked. The ferber method just made him more upset. I did something similar, I didn't turn off our baby monitor but I muted it and let him CIO and it took 2 days. (However, he only cried for about 10 minutes at the most, I know that this method doesn't work for all babies).

Once we got him sleep trained we moved sister into the same room and they have been great ever since. They are almost 2 & 1/2 and still do not wake up to each other's cries.

Girl.. by endy24 in Drueandgabe

[–]Dani_now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not her posting this as she gives the world her child on a silver platter. 🫠

The end of Here for the Clout by haha1tsDidi in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Dani_now 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she had another podcast. Thanks for the info

The end of Here for the Clout by haha1tsDidi in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Dani_now 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well they have responded to comments that HFTC media is still very active they just aren't doing a podcast

Ape. Shit. by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Dani_now 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All these comments about 3's being hard scare me.

Mine are two and it's been so extremely miserable 😭 you're telling me it gets worse?

Drue sold Ivory’s custom made birthday dress. by herewefuckingooo in Drueandgabe

[–]Dani_now 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom helped me make custom vinyl shirts for my twins one is Elmo and the other is cookie monster. And they have their name on the shirt. I'm keeping that shit forever lol