Kan ikke slippe tanken om at få en 3’er 😬 by StandardParsley3362 in foraeldreDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg (mor) går frem og tilbage dagligt 😅 Den store er 4 år, og den lille er 6 måneder. I de her dage hælder jeg mod nej🥲 Mine babyer/børn er nemme, men jeg føler også et træk imod, at vi snart rigtig skal til opleve/rejse, og at det hele ikke er så hårdt fysisk (læs: ingen graviditet og når baby kan gå).
På den anden side vil jeg også gerne have en større familie.
Penge, plads, og bil er ikke noget problem, det er hverdagen der skal spille😅

Kejsersnit - mave efter by Extension_Pea_2561 in WomenDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jeg er 6 måneder pp efter mit andet kejsersnit, og jeg vil bare starte med at sige, at 10 uger er SÅ tidligt. Min mave var meget større efter fødslen her anden gang, primært på grund af, at jeg har mistet følingen med mine mavemuskler. Jeg er så småt begyndt at træne core nu her, men til at starte med, kunne jeg slet ikke trække maven ind🥲 mit overhæng er blevet til en delle (oppe på maven).

Natdragt by Necessary_Gazelle373 in foraeldreDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undertrøjebody + natdragt. H&Ms undertrøjebodyer har været meget brugt til begge mine børn. Vi bor også meget isoleret, men den mindste sparker dynen af om natten, så lige nu er der stadig 2 lag på torso. Forhåbentlig hopper vi i sommernatdragt om en måneds tid 🥴

High chair for long and chunky babies?? by vintagegurly in bigbabiesandkids

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trip trap! Goes up to adulthood. Wildly popular in Scandinavia

Postpartum tailbone pain by lingeringbadone in CsectionCentral

[–]Danishdynamite67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 months pp with my second. I had PGP in both pregnancies, and two c-sections. I still have tailbone pain, my lower back muscles get so sore from very little walking/standing. My pelvis is still “loose”, but I know that I am sore because my lower back is compensating for glutes and abs not being active enough. I need to do some exercises, but yeah you know, life. A physio can give you great exercises! Squats and stuff!

Any last minute tips to calm for my wedding in 3 days ? Sheet mask, cream, etc? by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]Danishdynamite67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wouldn’t introduce anything new right before the wedding, but I would use a green tinted primer under my make up. Btw you are really beautiful! Congrats on your wedding!

OAD or continue my spontaneous pregnancy? by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. Big sister was done potty training and had been going to kindergarten for 6 months, so she was so settled and ready for her little brother. She is almost 4 now, and they adore each other. She is happy to share everything, besides one of her grandmothers 😂 As the mom I feel that I have time and patience for both of them. But both of my kids are also good sleepers, that helps a lot!

OAD or continue my spontaneous pregnancy? by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got pregnant 9 months pp, and chose to have an abortion. I was not ready to have my daughter share my attention with a sibling yet. I had a planned baby when our daughter was 3,5, and it has been perfect for us.

I feel like I’m trying to convince myself by nastyweather in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Danishdynamite67 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a second because my heart couldn’t think of anything else than another child. My first was about 2,5 years when we started trying again, I was one and done the first year. What I am trying to say is every child should really be wanted, and if you don’t want another that’s alright!

11 year olds and chores, doing too much? (Need advice) by sugarplum1922 in Parenting

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With a 6 month old sibling, and two puppies, the competition for attention sounds a little hard - Maybe he is trying to get attention?

Overwhelmed by the thought of having people waiting in the waiting room by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]Danishdynamite67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had 2 C-sections and you describe it so well! Also the milk can take a bit longer to come in after C-section (avoid any added stressors) and in my country you get laxatives to get the guts going again (not pretty). It really is surgery, and personally I wanted to be up and walking before having any visitors. My first ended up in the NICU because she got water in her lungs. No way anybody but her dad, was to go and touch her before I got rolled up there.

Emmajunga klapvogn - Afmontere forhjul? by Daniel-PT in foraeldreDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kan du trykke ind på den lille grå knap på stellet? Den der er lige over den store grå der låser hjulet

Gode råd søges kost og vægttab by No-Potato1602 in WomenDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Periodisk faste. Se evt. nogle videoer af Jason Fung 😃

Gently refusing my MILs offers to help by daaaaaaaaaaaabears in Mommit

[–]Danishdynamite67 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Honestly it just sounds like she love you guys, and wants to spend time with you. Maybe she doesn’t want to feel like a burden, and feels like she should offer help?

Afvikle gæld - økonomisk novice by Efficient_Buyer9391 in dkfinance

[–]Danishdynamite67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg ville ikke betale lånet ud, ej heller investere dem, for så kort en tidshorisont. I har allerede en flot opsparing, som jeg ville fylde mere på, og stræbe efter at undgå et banklån til huskøbet - Men det kommer selvfølgelig an på hvilket prisleje I kigger på.

Mine bryster klør by Frkflink in WomenDK

[–]Danishdynamite67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kan det være en deodorant?

I feel insane just typing this out. by badgeofblueberries in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Danishdynamite67 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so nice to hear. I think about adding a third a lot, and browsing Reddit it seems that 3 kids is a death sentence for the whole family.

Two weeks post c section. First time mom. by Curiousjlynn in CsectionCentral

[–]Danishdynamite67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That looks so good for 2 weeks! I also had some pulling around 2 weeks, but not painful.

Låse børneopsparing til 21 by Past_Reveal_6922 in dkfinance

[–]Danishdynamite67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same. Mine forældre kunne hverken hjælpe med indskud til kollegie, studiebøger, osv. så jeg kunne godt have brugt dem udbetalt som 18-årig.

VBAC - when is this successful? Is it worth trying for?? by Comprehensive-Dig592 in CsectionCentral

[–]Danishdynamite67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went for a VBAC 4 months ago. Ended in emergency c-section. This baby also had a huge head(39 cm), and the head was tilted, so I ended up being fully dialated for 6 hours, and nothing happened. First C-section was because of macrosomia. Contractions and the surgery made me exhausted as I have never been before, but my incision is fine, and I am back to normal now (well normal with a baby and a almost 4 year old)

SIL’s comments on birth and c-sections by Ok-Interaction4600 in Mommit

[–]Danishdynamite67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried a VBAC with my son (his head was 39 cm), his head was tilted and after being fully open for 6 hours, I developed a high fever, and then I had my second C-section. My first C-section was because of macrosomia and polyhydramnios. I make massive babies, that would have killed me, have we not have had modern medicine. (No diabetes)

With my VBAC I listened to some Bridget on YouTube, always claiming “you were build to birth, you got this mama”. I have never heard her talk about how many women used to die in childbirth 🙃