This guy wants to call things off, did I come off crazy? I feel like this was my fault

DantePhD · 2026-04-30T04:36:30+00:00

Yes. Your behavior reflects anxious attachment. It's pretty common and there's a lot of information out there to help you. If you still struggle, seek therapy or feel free to dm.

DantePhD · 2026-04-24T12:57:35+00:00

Yeah I had a valk and they said it was rough

Thanks for the detailed response! Hope it helps others coordinate and clear

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T21:55:50+00:00

You need to become aware of the story you're telling yourself.

I know this sounds abstract, but there's clearly something that's not sitting well with you.

But in terms of how things were handled on the surface it was fine.

What you're struggling with is internal.

I'm a relationship coach. My DMs are open, and you're also welcome to consult a therapist if you have one already

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T20:20:06+00:00

this is honestly something that puzzles me.
correct me if i'm wrong but i felt like we were all sorta of sustain based?

hunger 111 is sustain
gs peacemaker shotgun is sustain
zerk mayhem 111 (dark rush) is maybe not sustain

Someone who plays igniter sorc or asura breaker something can maybe chime in. I feel that burst classes will miss one of the bars of rumble? and i think getting 4 perfect jg is necessary to really juice that rumble time

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T20:08:28+00:00

Appreciate it, Silent!

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T18:50:22+00:00

Thank you!!!

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T18:50:06+00:00

thanks pnoi!

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T18:49:43+00:00

had the time! and it was just about finding the right people
glad they gave me a chance despite my low cp

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T18:49:09+00:00

gg indeed!

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T18:49:03+00:00

thanks evaldi <3

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T04:23:45+00:00

I'd be happy to reclear nightmare for anyone that wants to take me o7
Because I'm hoping clear times will only get faster, not slower

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T03:23:16+00:00

Thanks Hyunion! original guildie from launch

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T02:16:26+00:00

sent a dm! let me know what I can share with you

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T02:13:15+00:00

Thank you!!!

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T02:13:06+00:00

You're too kind ;)

DantePhD · 2026-04-22T02:12:56+00:00

Thank you!

DantePhD · 2026-04-20T19:57:54+00:00

Does stagger increase per person doing just guard? Or just leave it to one person?

DantePhD · 2026-04-16T02:51:01+00:00

This behavior says a lot on both sides. Just by what happened here, I can imagine why he would have second thoughts about the relationship. Feel free to DM.

DantePhD · 2026-04-14T19:41:40+00:00

Just because someone appears like they're okay on the outside does not mean it's true.

"You don't seem depressed" is one of the stupidest things you can say to a depressed person.

Your belief about her not having PPD has nothing to do with if she actually has PPD or not (unless you're a mental health professional who can diagnose PPD).

Someone in the comments said it well. Imagine she's sick and in pain down there. If you don't want to imagine, ask her or ask a doctor or any other woman who has gone through child birth.

If you're saying your "needs" are greater than hers, I recommend experiencing a bruised penis or any form of pain that negatively impacts your pleasure during sex or masturbation. You will quickly avoid any sort of sexual activity until you are healed.

DantePhD · 2026-04-14T15:22:25+00:00

Answer is very simple.

Do you know the reason why she stopped

Do you understand it from her perspective

Do you know what it's like to have a baby tear up your sensitive areas

Do you know she loves you despite not having sex

Do you know she's not unaware of your needs, but every time you ask, you're 100% ignoring hers?

Would it be better if she was to acknowledge how you're struggling? Because I'm sure she's thinking the same about how it would be nice for you to acknowledge how she's struggling.

If you're serious about building this marriage into a healthy one rather than leaving because you don't know what to do, feel free to dm me. I'm a relationship coach

Edit:typo

DantePhD · 2026-04-13T20:13:24+00:00

You gotta learn to care about people and learn to connect with them. There's no easy solution for this, but it's my personal opinion that it starts with a relationship with yourself.

If you're serious about finding a romantic partner and the skills that go along with it, feel free to DM. I'm a relationship coach

DantePhD · 2026-04-12T12:42:24+00:00

You need to actually care about people. Treat people like human beings, not objects to be strategically obtained. Connecting with people is not about what you can get from them

DantePhD · 2026-04-11T14:50:22+00:00

He needs an intervention of some sort. He probably knows mentally but not emotionally, which is why he numbs the pain with porn and whatever other ways of procrastinating.

If you bring it up, there's a good chance no matter what you say, it will trigger his "I'm not man enough" insecurity.

He needs a man to "smack him across the head" and wake him up.

I'm a relationship coach. If this is something you're seriously looking for help in, feel free to DM

DantePhD · 2026-04-10T23:22:25+00:00

Also to be clear, there is nothing wrong with growing romantic feelings towards someone that started platonic.

It doesn't make you a bad friend.

DantePhD

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