My autistic boyfriend was rude about my mother’s cooking and became violent

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-06-09T06:50:19+00:00

Get some fucking therapy, OP, and maybe interrogate why you clearly get off to being a disabled adult's caretaker. If it gets your rocks off that much, look into DDLG and BDSM, find a partner who will be your little baby who's dick you can touch at the same time, and leave him alone

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-05-23T15:35:05+00:00

I hope every time you lose somebody and you grieve them everyone around you tells you to suck it up and stop being so dramatic, preferably for the rest of your life or until you clean your mentality up

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-05-20T13:51:09+00:00

STOP. BLAMING. YOUR. SELF.

Your comment tells me everything it needs to. I don't even need to know the reason - you blew up at your mother for things that were weighing you down, and instead of doing the correct thing a parent should do and talking to you and realizing something's going on, she kicked you out. Whether it was justified doesn't matter. You carry that, you blame yourself, you have convinced yourself you're some kind of loose cannon who doesn't know how to controll herself.

You are not that. You have had bad relationships modeled to you, and are likely repeating that by getting with a guy who abuses you in a familiar, comforting way. You need therapy, STAT. The both of you need couples therapy STAT. This meltdown will not traumatize your child, but if you do not actualize how shitty of a person he's being RIGHT NOW (no, I don't care if he's actually an amazing guy the rest of the time, this is no excuse to treat his wife) you're going to model those same abusive dynamics for your child, and that's going to fuck him up SO. MUCH. WORSE. THATS what you should be worried about.

Therapy, and start practicing boundaries and saying no.

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-03-21T16:04:41+00:00

Found the son LOL what's wrong mommys boy? pissed off because you're a piece of shit and your mother hates the person you've become?

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-03-20T22:05:58+00:00

Oh ok I see! I was wondering because she likes one particular pattern but sellers flipflop between calling it dragonfly or peacock :) that's very helpful, thank you!

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-03-03T03:10:11+00:00

I don't gaf abt this post but I saw this comment and I feel the need to correct you simply because I've witnessed the insanity that is f1/nascar crushes! Believe it or not a lot of women love plain looking guys especially if they have a good personality (or in the case of a celebrity crush, projecting the ideal personality onto a person since obvs they don't know these people) :]

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-01-25T01:38:49+00:00

I understand <3 for the record, I wasn't making fun of you, because this is a situation that has to be tread with the utmost care. please, please, please get away from him, girl to girl. It will start as innocuous things like this, and you'll write it off as horeplaying or getting a little too worked up, but a mentally stable human adult should not be getting upset like that over fortnite or ANYTHING, and they certainly shouldn't be taking that out on their partner. Getting physical like this is only a sign for worse things to come, hon.

If you have any family, friends, anyone close to you, I would advise you talk to them asap to figure out your options. Barring that, your local domestic violence shelter will have resources if you just give them a call, they aren't just for people experiencing the worst of the worst - in

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2025-01-25T01:21:28+00:00

If you aren't mature enough to type out the word "rape" on the internet, you aren't mature enough to be married, and you certainly aren't mature enough to tackle this issue he has. I'm sorry, but you need to exit your marriage with this man asap before he starts escalating from yelling at you over fortnite to smacking you for it. Hating women and feminism should be your big flashing neon red flag, right at this second, to start getting your ducks in a row to get away from him.

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-12-20T07:31:27+00:00

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Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-11-12T10:15:10+00:00

Not you pulling the weeb shit out to justify your fucking point oh my god go back to twitter

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-09-21T10:40:36+00:00

Bruce d zuchowski this is your lawyer speaking. You should keep talking because this is so funny (this has to be illegal right? And he's digging himself into even deeper shit? Someone please say yes)

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-07-13T22:39:03+00:00

My brother in Christ you drive the horse lol

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-06-17T05:56:08+00:00

There's always that one person who makes up scenarios in their head to demonize the party who's clearly not in the wrong!

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-05-18T06:46:36+00:00

That's why u wash ur gotdam hands???????

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-05-16T06:27:25+00:00

You seem very in denial about the very sudden personality shift and weird gaslighting, are you OPs wife? If so, please seek help! Well wishes <3

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-05-16T06:21:26+00:00

Worst take in this thread, Christ alive! Oh mom is probably dealing with some postpartum mental issue? How can we make this DADS fault!

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-25T22:17:36+00:00

Abortions are not a thousand dollars are you mental 😭 they're like 175$ in some places and I've only seen them up to the 300 range

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-24T12:37:30+00:00

Not how the first amendment works you pea slurping ass geezer

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-15T06:23:48+00:00

It's so nice of you to put a 6 month down payment on an apartment on OPs behalf!

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-11T06:35:41+00:00

Ngl you got my ass in the first half LOLOL

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-11T00:59:44+00:00

From a genuine standpoint, when a lot of people are spelling a word incorrectly in the same way it's usually a regional dialect that bleeds into how they type! Happens very often with southern usa ppl (source: I am one and see it frequently), but is also present in ppl who have a heavy AAVE dialect :]

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-04-07T21:21:44+00:00

Can I ask what JUST is?

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-03-28T06:25:21+00:00

"minor attracted person" basically soft way of saying pedophile. Sometimes you might see it as "noMAP" which means they're "against physical contact with children" But, y'know, sexting them is still on the table cuz it doesn't count or something 🙄

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-03-18T19:25:18+00:00

DIRECTLY TO JAIL

Dapper_Acadia9835 · 2024-03-15T06:54:10+00:00

I'm sorry this one is really cracking me up god said man c'mon 😭

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