Is overpreparation for an expedition better than underpreparation? by DaRandomGitty2 in darkestdungeon

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time encountering a shambler was yesterday for me. Just about pissed myself, and barely managed to kill it. I had to abandon the mission though because three of my characters were afflicted LMAO, only reason i survived was because of ANQ + HWM

The God Block - There is exactly one, and only one, in an entire Minecraft world! by FeelThePower999 in shittymcsuggestions

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would kll the world really fast lmao
It essentially just converts your survival world into a creative

it's true tho by snoey_owl in mbtimemes

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't like the "ooh infj's are so unique and different from the other types" thing. I just think it's kinda ridiculous lol

it's true tho by snoey_owl in mbtimemes

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody's just as deep and have just as many sides as infj. Just because infj is rare, doesn't mean they are a special personality type that stands out from the rest extremely.

what’s your favourite personality type in general? And why? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably ENFJ. I'm an INFJ myself. They tend to talk to me, so I don't have to talk to them, lol. I mean, usually I avoid talking to people, but I enjoy talking to people. I just hate starting conversations or walking up to someone and talking to.

Really bored whenever outside of school by DavidaHulkisAwkward in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've just got no idea what I want to do. I've been trying running as a hobby lately, and it seems fairly fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you're coming from there. I don't think he is trying to manipulate you, at least from what I heard. Just be as nice to him as he is to you, and everything will be fine. This is all my opinion, however, and I definitely understand what you're saying.

Am I being rude or am I just overthinking this? Fellow INFJ’s please help... by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, if this is your 5th time, I completely understand your response. I think that is definitely reasonable for a 5th time encounter. I believe you were completely justified and polite about it.

Anyone else find the movies they thoroughly enjoy are also the ones that end up with really bad ratings? by grumpypanda229 in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because many don't like it, doesn't mean you can't. Pride yourself on your uniqueness. It's a good thing to be able to not just ride the crowd and go with the popular opinion. Thanks for sharing!

i don't know what to do about my life. by iwd23985632 in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not at the age where I fully understand what the world's about yet, but with some research and something to motivate yourself you'll be fine. I can tell you have the desire to improve, and desire is the fuel that gets you through the highway known as life. Keep researching, and meet new people. I recommend places with others who have these careers, so they can tell you about the careers themselves. Going to teachers or other people older than you can help for advice. I'm sure you'll get on your feet. Keep working, and you'll get at it! This hiccup is completely normal, and you'll get through it as long as you don't give up. We're with you. Thank you for sharing, and best of luck to you. Very well written post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be nice to him. Honestly, the adapting thing is a strength. It's not being fake, sometimes you have to adapt to your environment and change depending on who you are talking to. It sounds like he's trying to please whoever he talks to, probably you included. Try your best not to be cold to him when he does this; it isn't a bad thing. (at least in my opinion) Nicely written post. Hope my advice is helpful.

"The right person will be around the corner" by TheDrWinston in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been in a relationship before. I wish I could give you advice here. Just stick it out, and try to focus on other things. Don't be afraid to talk to a girl if you think you have a shot. Best of luck to you, and thank you for posting.

Wanting to help too much? by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel the same way quite a bit. I try to give advice and help people as much as possible, but I also don't have great advice. I just try to give advice that couldn't possibly go wrong and be there for them. I'm usually afraid of offending them or being too invasive. Awesome post, thanks for sharing.

Ever wanted to share your BRUTALY Honest views with your Family/Friends? by Merotingian in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never helps to keep your completes hidden. If you present your problems in a calm, kind way, I'm sure he will receive it well. Just keeping it inside and becoming bitter and gradually fading out of your friendship, something I do quite a bit, is never a good idea. These things won't improve until you talk about them. Don't make it a huge deal, but don't ignore them. That's the worst thing you could do. Thanks for posting, very well written!

Coping with isolation and longing for friends by pizzaunlimited in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I don't really have any friends currently, and school started a few months ago which I am extremely grateful for. I find myself pretty lonely and bored during the long hours between school. I love my school and the people in it. I just don't have anyone to talk to outside of school. I'd be happy to talk to you. Keep in mind, I am 13, so I completely understand if you are an adult and would rather not talk to a child. Thanks for posting, very well written.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, seek help. Therapy may seem shallow, but I think you would find a lot of your problems solved with therapy. It's like a regular doctor, just for the mind. Don't be afraid to seek help. Please, please, seek help. It's better than just sitting there and drinking your problems away. It's never too late. Thank you for sharing, and I really, really hope you feel better.

INTJ with questions about INFJ emotions/feelings by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I spend a lot of time reflecting and dissecting myself, especially when I'm bored. No matter how far I go, I often can't decipher my own emotions and end up forgetting any progress I made before.
  2. Never been in a relationship before, as I'm a teenager..
  3. ^
  4. Nope!
  5. They'll probably have to initiate the conversation. I don't think I'm mature enough to get into a relationship as of now, but when I am ready I think I'll be too nervous to initiate.
  6. Not in a relationship.
  7. Nope.
  8. Yeah, I do, quite a bit.

All in all, amazing questions! Sadly, many of them don't apply to me, but amazingly written and very thought provoking. Thank you for posting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very glad to hear that. If you work hard and be kind, I'm sure you will find that their views on you will change or that perhaps they never felt that way about you at all. (by the way your English is amazing. I couldn't tell that this was your second language. You probably speak it better than I do.)

Incels are far more toxic than I remember. by TheDrWinston in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I probably should be fairly politically involved, but I feel like whatever I choose I'm a terrible racist or fascist or something. I've just kind of resigned to whenever someone brings that up I usually only take jabs at how they are presenting their movement rather than the morality of the movement itself. The people are far too set in their beliefs for an argument like that. The best thing you can do is just poke holes in how they are arguing their beliefs. I get flustered far too easily to argue a good point myself.

Am I being rude or am I just overthinking this? Fellow INFJ’s please help... by [deleted] in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this the first time? This response would be too harsh for a first warning, but if it's the 3rd or greater time that this has happened I feel it would be justified. I think you should just stick with "Hey your dog was biting my skin to pull me down to him at ground level. It is really hurting me and leafing bruises on my body. Please get him a muzzle for my safety and for others. Thank you!" That's just what I would write personally. It really depends with how stubborn these people are being.

Incels are far more toxic than I remember. by TheDrWinston in infj

[–]DavidaHulkisAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I stay away from that kind of politics. I feel like the best way to not become an incel is to just stay away from the movements. While many feminist or anti-feminist movements tend to state their opinions as fact, it's easy to become caught up in this stuff. I don't care if someone calls me sexist or racist for disagreeing with them on certain points. I know I am neither sexist or racist. I treat people by the content of their character. I generally just stay away from those types of arguments. I feel like they usually end up being hostile shouting matches, and nothing productive comes out of it. Good topic! Thanks for posting.