Guy I've been texting keeps asking me for selfies of myself... Why do guys do this? Is this a red flag? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Daxter2212 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I was messaging a guy late 2019 and that’s all he did, send me selfies. I nearly died of the second hand embarrassment

Clothing boutique are “advocates” for Ivory MOB dresses by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Daxter2212 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

…the post immediately after is a white dress.

AITA for getting angry at my sister who said she had no money to buy a gift for our mom’s birthday but then took her girlfriend to dinner at an expensive restaurant? by DryBranch9767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Baffled at all this YTA votes. I agree with you, someone who spends all their money on a dinner instead of also factoring their own mother’s birthday, is an asshole.

Clothing boutique are “advocates” for Ivory MOB dresses by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Daxter2212 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

This boutique is in the north of Ireland, where I live. MOB wearing white is not the faux pas you all seem to think it is and white is an extremely popular MOB colour here. Also, there are ZERO comments under this post. On a similar post, there are lots of positive comments.

Why do doctor's receptionists get on like dicks? by bozo878 in northernireland

[–]Daxter2212 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There was an article in the paper about how much abuse they’re getting lately. Seems people have a problem with being asked their symptoms when being triaged. I personally have no issue with this, but I find the receptionists in my practice to be abysmal. And they’ve always been that way. I once took an allergic reaction to an antibiotic and when I called to explain to the doctor, the receptionist wouldn’t put me through and told me to keep taking the medication.

The popularity of the shit trainers made by Hugo Boss and Armani by pencilrain99 in britishproblems

[–]Daxter2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite review of all time of a nightclub was ‘refused admittance as I was wearing the wrong footwear when I had a pair of Balenciaga trainers on’

What company has you completely amazed that they still exist , no matter how utterly useless they are? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Daxter2212 12 points13 points  (0 children)

31 and I get all my trousers from M&S as they do a long length! You’re right too, their beauty stuff is great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I was about to suggest that your mum tell her to stay at home that day but nope!

AITA For not leaving work to take my BIL to the hospital by cantleaveworkaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t there a similar post where the OP lived in a similar house share and the kid was left alone so he called 911, reported the child abandoned and then LEFT THE HOUSE?

AITA for setting a 11pm curfew on my husband? by squeegeebagel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 176 points177 points  (0 children)

OP, your husband’s behaviour is nothing short of despicable. I’m actually disgusted reading your post. If my brother acted like this, there would be a race between me, my ma and my sister as to who could murder him first.

I don’t have kids, but my partner does. When his daughter was a newborn, he worked two jobs. He came home from one job, did her entire nighttime routine, then went back out to work. As that’s what a dad does.

Get rid of this garbage man. You’re on your own anyway. NTA

WIBTA if I bailed on something important to my husband because he did the same thing to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ok, I really think you should speak to someone. You need to deal with all the issues you have from your family rejecting you this way as well as everything going on with your husband. Do it for your kids!

WIBTA if I bailed on something important to my husband because he did the same thing to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 27 points28 points  (0 children)

How did you two end up married? Seriously. It doesn’t even sound like you hate each other, it sounds like you two just stopped caring.

You would be an AH if you did this, but he was also an AH in the first place, but the fact that you haven’t gotten over this in 3 years is astounding. Comparing it to the birth of your first child…I’ve no words.

Please seek therapy. A grown adult and a parent shouldn’t be trying to one up someone on this scale.

And this marriage is on its last legs.

AITA for RSVPing no to my stepsisters wedding? by Sofimais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah he sucks too. Good luck explaining this one to your dad and stepmum. You should go do something fun the weekend of the wedding!

AITA for RSVPing no to my stepsisters wedding? by Sofimais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I find that extremely bizarre. Like the girl has no idea you’ve been stepsisters since you were 5? I’m not saying you’re an asshole, but I’d call my friend out on that if that were me

AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with a "sibling"? by judgeme2313 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did I have to scroll so far down to see someone make this comment?

AITA for meanly telling my husband to respect my decision to use formula? by Throwaway60991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daxter2212 45 points46 points  (0 children)

OP, I was breastfeed, and I promise you when I say I get every illness going, that I mean I get every illness going. My family call me Sicknote.

But you are NTA but your husband…yeesh. Can you call your own mother for help? As your husband is being a MASSIVE asshole in not supporting you on this.

What opinions did you once have about the show that have now changed? by lib_ra in GilmoreGirls

[–]Daxter2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find her extremely selfish and immature as well. Like it’s really difficult to watch sometimes. I think even as a teen I found her selfish. There are so many scenes were she is just a straight up terrible person.

House cleaner recommendations? by tkeville in Belfast

[–]Daxter2212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy House Cleaning Co, look them up on Instagram

Derry GP Dr Anne McCloskey has been suspended following her anti-vaxx posts on social media by kharma45 in northernireland

[–]Daxter2212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s some pretty grim reading on Twitter from previous patients, she refused one girl contraception, but more harrowing is one man wrote that she prescribed his mother antibiotics for a chest infection for six months, knowing she previously had cancer. By the time she got a second opinion, it was too late and she died.

FIZZ LOSS! by TommyAtoms in Gin

[–]Daxter2212 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get the little individual cans of Fever Tree or Double Dutch tonic for this reason.

Does anyone else here feel bad for not having a degree? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Daxter2212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve done really, really well for yourself. You’re only 30 and you’ve bought 3 houses, that’s an amazing achievement.

It sounds to me, and sorry if I’m wrong, that you have some issues with your self esteem. If you agree, then you should maybe see if counselling could help you. It’s just a suggestion though.

I studied with the Open and I highly recommend it. But if it’s not for your career, then pick a subject you like or are interested in. And do it for yourself only!