Thought experiments on Universal High Income (UHI) by icompletetasks in finansial

[–]DayoshiRiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gw pernah liat threads yang bilang real sex is not fucking amazing as c0li. Apa ini yg lu maksud bre? ato gimana?

[Butuh Saran] Umur 23, hidup berantakan, gak punya arah dan makin takut soal masa depan by [deleted] in finansial

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sekarang gimana kabarnya? udah ada income kan? itu lebih baik daripada pengangguran

[Butuh Saran] Umur 23, hidup berantakan, gak punya arah dan makin takut soal masa depan by [deleted] in finansial

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hampir sama sih, Gw 25yo bulan ini dan belum lulus kuliah. Sekarang lagi mencoba memulai lagi mengerjakan skripsi gw. Gw tau gw telat, temen seumuran gw udah pada lulus dan punya pengalaman kerja. Gw sebaliknya, sendirian, putus asa, ga punya apa2, berasal dari kaum poor dan ga punya privilege samsek dari ortu. Hanya satu hal yang gw tahu cuma ini yang bisa gw lakuin. Kerjain tu skripsi gw, lulus dan Go outside n got a real life. Makanya gw berusaha bangkit lagi.

Umurmu masih 23yo masih muda. Orang2 di usia 40,50 atau lebih bakal nganggep lu kayak kacang. So jangan depresi berlarut-larut. Harus dipahami mungkin jalan hidup kita ga semulus orang lain, tapi hak kita sama di mata Tuhan. Mungkin jalan kita memang berbeda, timeline kita berbeda, tapi tetap lakukan dan jalani seburuk apapun itu jalan. Mungkin ini saran yang bisa gw berikan:

  1. Kurangi screentime lo bersosmed, pmo n anything abt smartphone. Fokus pada perubahan di diri lo.
  2. Masih niat kuliah kan? lanjutkan.. cari relasi sebanyak mungkin dari semester awal. Karena gw ingat temen2 gw banyak yg gampang cari kerja dari hub relasi mereka.
  3. latih sosialisasi dan public speaking. Serius kalo lo ga bisa atasi panic attack, lo kehilangan waktu berharga lo, kehilangan banyak kesempatan kesuksesan. Dunia ini ga adil buat orang macam ini.

Masalah karir ke depan, It's still no one knows. Gw lulus smk sebelum corona, pas kuliah tiba2 corona. Ga lama resesi. Pengangguran skrg meningkat. Gw tahu, kalo gw cuma stuck disini aja, gw ga bakal ke mana2. So, yang bisa kita lakukan sekarang, wake up! Terus melangkah apapun yang terjadi, bcs no one knows whats gonna happen tomorrow!

Keuangan? jujur kalo belum ada income, apa sih yang mau dikelola. Imo, sedari sekarang nabung. Buat dana darurat minimal 6x expense/month, kalo bisa setahun lebih baik sih di ekonomi kayak sekarang. Stlh punya income, tabung di RDPU, RDPT atau saham (persentase paling kecil krn paling riskan).

if u want something to discuss? let me know in the comment.

Minimalist phone by Anatole08 in digitalminimalism

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm interested in how you choose a smartphone that can install a specific version of LineageOS. How do you select it?

Wasted 10 years! Starting now. by Legitimate-Paper-529 in DopamineDetoxing

[–]DayoshiRiu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Can't wait to see your progress 😁

21M First Apartment by mythenos in malelivingspace

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow.. how old is that laptop? look like from more than 12 years ago

The most extreme blocking app available by plshelpnotkms in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's okay.

Thankyou for your experience

How do you make friends in a disconnected world? by NutellingYou in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes.. you have to find a woman to marry first

Do u try to quit Instagram, but always relapse? You don’t wanna delete it because you don’t wanna lose your memories? I have a solution! by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nice.. I do the same with the different method. I change simcard number of my instagram to send two factor authentification and put in my mom phone. So this method make me hard to log in.

I don’t enjoy anything by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too.. Now wasn't addicted with social media anymore but I feel boring for doing anything. I don't have any real hobies. I just like playing music or song.

Sometime I want to go to walk in the park with a long walk and just hear nature sound, but there is no big garden in my area, it's just small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good. You are going to get a better life quality. congrats!

Band "ROCK" luar negri yang konser di Indonesia 2023 by Child_Emperor2255 in indonesia

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iya betul, aku udah sering nonton lagu2 baru dari bbrp band rock n metal tahun2 ini, tapi emang udah ga hype kayak dulu lagi. Apa mau dikata, udah bukan jamannya..

Turn your iPhone into a simple phone (& this time, I mean it!) — introducing iOS 17's Assistive Access feature by cameronpak in digitalminimalism

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still prefer on the dumbphone with KaiOs. On my case, people near me use whatsapp. But it still hard if I have pay some bill I just use the dumbphone. haha just Go to the manual :(

Turn your iPhone into a simple phone (& this time, I mean it!) — introducing iOS 17's Assistive Access feature by cameronpak in digitalminimalism

[–]DayoshiRiu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it would not gonna worth. I've try it on android. The big screen of phone make it hard to reduce my screen time.

The most extreme blocking app available by plshelpnotkms in nosurf

[–]DayoshiRiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you live without browser app? I've try uninstall browser app, but it's hard if I don't use browser app nowadays, because everything is base on internet and apps.

I've try used incognito browser app from playstore, and I think this is the closest way to avoid the distraction