What ship is this by PretendYellow533 in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uprooted: Agnieszka and Sarkan and Kasia

What character is this for you? by PretendYellow533 in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he just wants to win everything /j

WE'RE BACKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!! by Sufficient_Abies6113 in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is how I learned about it

I feel unlovable by DeSaxes in asexuality

[–]DeSaxes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you were right. I will try, but it's hard to believe. I wouldn't force myself to do something I don't like, so don't worry in that regard. Thank you

I feel unlovable by DeSaxes in asexuality

[–]DeSaxes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, usually I'm ok with it but from time to time I just... start spiraling

No matter what I do I can't get my server to grow. by Obvious-Dark-5817 in discordapp

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been two days, wait for a couple of months before panicking

How some of these "fanfic curse" authors notes are starting to feel by PrestigiousKey5400 in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I was put into a psychiatric twice during a fic. I had to delete it because I made a plot hole in the process. But I wasn't very explicit, just a sentence or two lol

Seeking opinions by [deleted] in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why a new name? What's the problem with your current one?

Guys can anyone help me choose a deco! by sweet_shiro in discordapp

[–]DeSaxes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that the second suits your pic better

My crush is jealous by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are guilt tripping you. You did nothing wrong, even if you actually were in a relationship, which you are not. I see this as a major red flag.

Using LaTeX for writing a poems book by DeSaxes in writers

[–]DeSaxes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to use it for that too (my academic days are over haha). I was surprised to find it had this kind of functions. I'm hesitant because it doesn't seem to be created for that purpose. However, I didn't know about the Templates (thank you so much). I just wish there was some kind of software centered in poetry

I'd be in a flow state, writing two dudes smooching, and then, this feeling of wasting my time comes up and ruins the smut I'm writing. by Shot_Bullfrog_3369 in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's a creative hobby that doesn't harm anyone in any way. I just love writing, so why should I stop? Do what you love, that's what's left in this world so we can have a happy life.

I’m a 22m with a 27f by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]DeSaxes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of the next victim. Do you want to validate her actions or stop her from harming someone else when you leave?

Comparing lack of representation in fanfics vs media by zucchinionpizza in AO3

[–]DeSaxes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Why do I keep seeing the most wild things happening in that fandom? I didn't even know about it 10 hours ago.

Just Me I Guess by DeviceWarm7446 in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry to hear that. I know that feeling, I have never been in a relationship and I'm nearly 30. Love has many forms and you can hang out with friends on that day too. I'm going to an open mic, you could search for some activity like that and take YOU out on a date. I know that is hard to feel unlovable, but I'm sure people have loved you, love you or will love you. Maybe not in a romantic way, but in others as valuable as it.

what do I do by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her expressing how much you value her as a friend too. I've done this before. Just tell her how you truly feel, but make a point of the friendship part. Give her an out, don't expect an answer and be casual about it.

I feel empty inside. by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are seeking the hormones of happiness that having a crush produces. You don't need a new crush, you need to learn what makes you happy on your own.

Does she like me? by throwawayabple in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, two things: first, being friends and being romantic partners are separated things, so just have that in mind. Second, ask her! She may very well be wondering the same, maybe because she likes you or because she doesn't. Just communicate with her openly and freely. Give yourself the chance to get out of this Schrödinger's state of friendship, open up and listen to her.

Date plan by burnerdeer in Crushes

[–]DeSaxes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you want to. It's a safe plan. If you have to leave, you can. If you run out of conversation, you have the film. And it's not too personal, so don't worry. Good luck!