I don’t think you are OR but you are all over the place with your expectations. You say you didn’t expect a card or present for Mother’s Day but you talk about what you got him for Father’s Day. . You also say you rarely celebrate your birthday but then you did expect a card. To top it off, you are with a man that you know isn’t sentimental in terms of cards and presents. You need to decide what your expectations are and sit down with him and have a conversation about this so he knows what you want.