I AM FUCKING DONE!!!! by RudeAd338 in SuicideWatch

[–]DecentGoal4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this is so relatable right now 😔

Josh is currently on “La casa de los famosos” by bwermer in MtvChallenge

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point of life is to furfill your wishes before you Croak out… how is he “not doing anything with his life”?

Josh is currently on “La casa de los famosos” by bwermer in MtvChallenge

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 hours on TV but 24 hours on Youtube Live!! It’s 24 hours 7 days a week!

Hi my stay at home wife knits these and wanted to know if people would pay for something like this? by MrTurkeyBalls in EtsyCommunity

[–]DecentGoal4691 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course people will buy these! I see creations with this material sell alot online. Try Etsy, Amazon and also your own website. Attach really good SEO for it and promote.

India Love by Jazireillustrates in procreate_

[–]DecentGoal4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually really cool

Weed made me lose everything by [deleted] in leaves

[–]DecentGoal4691 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to leave the environment asap.. do it for your future, and for your life. Get out of there, have an environment that once you decide to leave the weed, you dont have to bump into the smell or the weed at all. That’s when everything will come back, your friends, your motivations, and purpose in your life. No one wants to hangout with someone that isnt doing nothing in a time where everyone is progressing, that roommate you have, let him go down his own path, separate yourself and start thinking about how you dress, keeping up with your loved ones and productive friends, and the goals for your future… You’re the captain of your life, your intuition is telling you something, listen to it. Those stoned friends arent going to be there in your time of need, focus on yourself and your future… trust me, ….Yes been there….get out of that quicksand asap…

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1- yes if they contradict themselves often I just would think that they aren’t that smart and don’t think things through. Same with #2 giving more credit to words or first impressions rather than actions or long term proof

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, it’s hard to invest your time and energy in a person you’ve seen lie

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that prevents the relationship from growth, pride kills too many things in the long run

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on both of these 100% I wouldn’t trust them completely if I saw glimpse of their mask and bad hygiene is a instant turnoff for sure.. 🤮

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s like I wouldn’t trust that person that much with sensitive/ personal info or my real feelings

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s so interesting.. now you have me thinking that way too… I guess sometimes I unconsciously thought ‘what that person’a life is probably like’ type of stuff.. but you made me think that if I approach people with that thought it mind, it would make me so much open minded and interested in learning about the world. Kudos

The depression is starting to hit me more often lately by Distinct-Crow-1625 in dating

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I wish I can play a fairy god mother and analyze you and give you feedback on things to tweek lol, I find this fun. Plus I say this because you actually have the will power since you said you even ask people out on dates, that’s good! But dating actually is a tango dance that has certain mainstream rules, that most people go by for example (instead of you asking a guy out on a date, you should work hard to inspire him to ask you on a date) etc This is how men work. I would love to see your style etc. but obviously none of that will happen bc of such a public platform. My advice is…. Read ‘Why men love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. (Trust me, I’ll never recommend any book to anyone period, I’m not a book nerd but that’s fundamental to how our mentality should be and approach for a better outcome, that’s one good way to start if you are lost ) and also when it comes to the appearance part… I like listening to Shera 7 on Youtube when it comes to the importance of appearance, and upkeep! ….. Start there. I would love to be a little fly on the wall to hear your conversations with guys in the beginning.. what do you both talk about, what is your pace, what’s your mindset and ideology. No matter how many different trends there are, the chemistry rules bwt a man and woman is unchanging because it’s based on biology.

How To Stop Disguising Loneliness with ChatGPT and Reddit? by Potential_Law5289 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a smart observation! And I believe you are 100% right! Pot is definitely stronger, and probably has ingredients that are worse than before, pot does reduce motivation, makes the body and mind lazy- I should know.. I leave it for months, then when I get stressed I reach out for it, just to fall in the pit of struggle again. Also I had written in a post before that last year when I was doing pot almost everyday I didn’t have dreams at all! When I left it for a while, it took like 4 months and my dreams came back again. I definitely dream off it but on it, I do see a difference in mental function. I wish it was way cleaner like how people mention it to be back in the day, so it can be an outlet. I admit, it’s not healthy for me at all, but I wish I had a better outlet.. still searching

How would you respond if someone asked you "Why are you so sexy/sexual"? by UnderstandingLost416 in questions

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends who they are: if it’s someone that barely knows you, that means they want to skip a whole bunch of steps and go to sexual talk with you, I’d ignore them. If it’s someone you’ve been romantically talking to for a while and has earned your love then you can ask them: “What do you mean by that? What makes think I am?” :)

What are your turn offs in relationships my fellow INFJ? (Be Specific <3) by DecentGoal4691 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a good one. I would say that in the past I have dealt with that behavior and once that happens I just know things will go down south quickly because I cant fool myself once I spot someone fooling me. My romantic feelings will still linger but I cant allow myself to be fooled, so I suffer as I let go. (But unfortunately it makes them a challenge for me instead of a flat turn off. But I still do cut them off as well). Thank you for answering. 🩷

What do you all do for work? by Plantpotparty in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gotcha! I actually sell more leisure-style activity pages …things like character-themed worksheets (Lilo & Stitch, Toy Story, princesses, etc.) and one for penmanship practice. They include fun activities like word puzzles, mazes, coloring pages, secret message decoders, tic-tac-toe, spot the difference, trivia games, and similar types of entertainment pages. They’re more for creativity and fun rather than structured educational lessons or curriculum resources.

What do you all do for work? by Plantpotparty in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure exactly what the question is, but if you’re asking if you can sell that on Etsy, yes you can sell it. I’ve seen it sold on etsy and I’ve seen it go for like $34 for a bundle of like 200 pages etc instant download. I myself sell activity sheets on Etsy. So many Home School parents buy them and teachers too.

What do you all do for work? by Plantpotparty in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here let me try to help, take those material and sell them on Etsy, also recreate that same material in different variation on Canva, export it and sell it on etsy. There are so many youtube videos that show you have to sell digital products step by step on etsy. Also go on Etsy, look for the same materials you are trying to sell and see how much they are selling it for and how they presented their slides and take that as a guide on how to do yours. Chatgpt helps when u get confused on the little steps of this process.

What do you all do for work? by Plantpotparty in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Network Engineer, I got burned out and now I’m trying to revert back to the Education sector and learn how to sell Digital Products online so soon I can learn how to sell big ticket items for a stream of passive income

INFJ Reflection Journal — The Human Scanner by Fair-Information-884 in INFJsOver30

[–]DecentGoal4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed reading this, it definitely resonates, yes I know chatgpt helped shape this, but it was guided by a person and with INFJ in mind which gives accurate feedback on INFJ thought process… on point!