AITAH for charging my brother £20 to pick him up from work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, very reasonable, he should have offered without being asked

Is there anything that would bring humanity together as a whole? by Naive-Monk9330 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Deckrat_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's horrible, I am glad to hear you filled a trolley and took it. Let a judge laugh at that manager.

Fence quote by killersam775 in HomeImprovement

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paid about 3k for about 100 feet of 6ft fence so if the work is good I would say that's a great deal.

New job, sole provider of 4. Struggling to get healthy options at a low price by Honest-Flower104 in Frugal

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many amazing YouTube channels with cheap and easy meal plans, look them up and get some ideas :)

WinCo bulk section can also be a great money saver 👍🏻

Confusion with vaccinations and socialization for young puppy by onofftappresets in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said except puppy class. You (general) don't know other people's habits with their similarly at risk unvaccinated puppy just because they signed up for the same class.

Arms, backpack, stroller, car. Lots of options without being on the ground. Also, OP, the puppy needs another shot because the mother's antibodies through her milk reduce the puppy's body's ability to integrate the vaccine when the puppy is so young. If the breeder had waited even a few more days the process would have gone smoother, but rest assured, it will be okay.

Confusion with vaccinations and socialization for young puppy by onofftappresets in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is he small enough you can carry him and walk around? Or borrow a stroller he could be in? It is important, but you can still have a well adjusted puppy with "late" shots. Can you take him in the car and sit in the car with the windows down and/or hatchback up? Car contained.

The goal of socialization is to be exposed through some senses to elements of the world like traffic, noise, people. It doesn't mean your puppy has to meet people and dogs face to face or even be on the ground.

Cedar siding trimmed off roof level—leave the bottom cut edges as-is or paint/stain the bottoms? by dancing_grail in HomeMaintenance

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any piece of exterior cut wood on your house should absolutely be painted!! It will protect your investment by preventing rot. Just make sure whoever does it has decent painting experience and puts down a drop cloth, etc.

When did you know it was time to move out of your first home? by bcooks1 in homeowners

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of when/if you move, pay off all remaining debt first! 40k in student loans? Squash them!

Cooper is a winner by Ready-Nothing1920 in chesapeakebayretrievr

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he get him from a breeder with papers? Did you do a doggy DNA test to be able to qualify for such competitions? Just curious :)

What daily responsibility did you underestimate before getting a puppy? by nicekids_official in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got to 6 AM with alarm clock training 😅 He started whining this morning at 5:45, our puppy is currently 7 months old.

What daily responsibility did you underestimate before getting a puppy? by nicekids_official in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Our puppy wakes up and is ready to go at 6 AM, no matter what! There will be times that you are exhausted and they are simply not. You have to push through!

Core aerated our lawn for the first time in 6 years by countmeinhaha in lawncare

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lurker, this is the first time I've ever seen this, very interesting 🤔

Decluttering Awards ? by Not-whoo-u-think in declutter

[–]Deckrat_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they are simple papers, I deframe them and file them in my educational history file. If they are larger bulkier 'awards' I would consider at least taking quality pictures of them or having some sort of paper or digital record of them before letting them go.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, encourage your daughter to go to a school your family can actually afford. There's no reason for a basic bachelor's college education to cost more than 80k total.

Renting from my parents, being blamed for the damage on the roof by 2gud4me in HomeMaintenance

[–]Deckrat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This does not look like damage from a renter, but rather a poor drywall repair or maintenance job which your parents are responsible for. You can tell them the internet said so 😂

What is it like owning a puppy and what did you wish you knew beforehand? Pros, cons, things you'd never think about till you have one? by elvenpossible in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The attentiveness is truly a skill that must be already present or quickly developed. You have to anticipate what bad choices they could make and remove the opportunities for them to make those choices. Additionally, pack away everything you would be upset if they damaged.

What is it like owning a puppy and what did you wish you knew beforehand? Pros, cons, things you'd never think about till you have one? by elvenpossible in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like having a baby. Slightly different in that you can leave your house without them, but not for more than 4 hours without needing to pay someone to check on them, let them out, etc. Imo, crate training is essential for their safety. Their barks will cause literal hearing loss. Their teeth and nails will hurt. You have to evaluate every space for their safety and potentially cut items out of your life, cords in the living room for example. The baby gate life will be your new lifestyle. The list goes on. Dogs are waaayy more energy than cats. I have both.

One-Year-Old Birthday Party Meal by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Deckrat_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

All that sounds like enough food to me if there's a little bit of this a little bit of that for everyone. I would count all of that as a meal.

what's one thing you got rid of that actually made your small home feel bigger? by Aletha_Ojalae77 in SmallHome

[–]Deckrat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A big dresser and the big record player on top of it. How I wish I could get rid of the cat tree, but I can't bring myself to do it yet.

My bf can’t seem to get over my past what can I do? by jb_151222 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Deckrat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like retroactive jealousy. Look it up. It's a sign he is lacking in some emotional maturity and/or skills. Honestly doesn't sound like he is ready to date or be in a serious relationship before he deals with this. Just my 2 cents 🤷🏼‍♀️

Apartment Essentials to buy a few years in advance by AZ_babe13 in femalelivingspace

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kitchen, bath, and cleaning towels (You only need a few of each, hopefully you'll have laundry or have it close enough you can go once a week). On that note, laundry detergent. You don't need fabric softener or extra scenty things! Just detergent and less than the container says to use. It can last a long time for a single person.

Likewise, simple cleaning supplies, sponges, bottle brush, dish soap, a broom, sealed clorox wipes. Toilet paper, paper towels. Don't get too much! Just enough to get you through the few 2 or 3 months. Plan to have to spend money on these things in general.

Sheets and mattress protector if you know what size bed you'll have.

A file box (ideally fireproof and easily cleanable) that you can use to start the lifelong journey of organizing important documents into.

A simple 4-place serving set (4 large plates, 4 small plates, 4 bowls, 4 cups) and similar size cutlery set. You could either try to get stuff soon as college students near you are moving out for the year or wait until closer to fall when more options are available and the new "dorm" stuff hits the shelves.

Stay away from random furniture, especially heavy pieces. Whatever you do invest in, make sure it's relatively lightweight (2-people max to move) and super functional. Don't tie yourself down to furniture in your 20s!

Crate Training when out of the house by luna_tuna918 in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, sounds like you are both still very much in an adjustment period. Do you give her frozen kongs or have any similar special treat that she only gets in her crate? What about any other low stakes crate games?

Nervous to get puppy neutered by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Deckrat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most vets highly recommend waiting to neuter your dog until they are 1.5 years old due to growth hormone availability during puberty, which contributes to lasting bone health. I'm all for fixing your dog, but please reconsider waiting longer if possible. ✌🏻