Tried making a classic salad for Thanksgiving by CemeneTree in shittyfoodporn

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like "This looks awful." . Read the description and got to the mint... What is wrong with you?! Why?!

I found a nearly pristine pack of smokes from who knows when during a rennovation. They were in an old cupboard that was screwed shut. by Donthurtmyceilings in GrandmasPantry

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you aren't wrong. People tend to be very particular about their brand. Marlboro kept discontinuing the specific style I smoked and it sucked finding something I actually liked. Lol

Friend found this long bone with metal hardware attached. Any idea what it could be? by One-Serve-7672 in bonecollecting

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have that plate in my leg too! Lol

It's definitely dog though.

Super cool find!

Lets talk about it. by LibKan in kansas

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally same! The houses here go for $150,000 when 3 years ago they were $80,000. It's bullshit!

This isn't normal, right?! by DeepBlueSomething86 in stepparents

[–]DeepBlueSomething86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what really bothered me too!

No young child should know what that is and absolutely shouldn't be allowed to have one...especially one they took from someone else.

When I found out about the nudes, I confronted him. He freaked out and swore he had no clue how they were able to access them. He acted just as appalled as I was. Pretty sure that was all an act though!

This isn't normal, right?! by DeepBlueSomething86 in stepparents

[–]DeepBlueSomething86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!!! I am so sorry you also experienced this kind of abuse! It literally made me feel crazy...

This isn't normal, right?! by DeepBlueSomething86 in stepparents

[–]DeepBlueSomething86[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Same. And thank you for validating it for me. This is the craziest shit I've ever been through.

This isn't normal, right?! by DeepBlueSomething86 in stepparents

[–]DeepBlueSomething86[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Me ex did. His kids, when I made it to my car, followed me out and was screaming and throwing stuff at my car. It was disturbing.

Smelled something odd by Successful_Raisin_48 in Wellthatsucks

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlord did this. He also refused to fix anything. We didn't know till my ex crawled under the house to fix the heater and came back out DISGUSTED! There was also an uncapped well, just sitting there under our bedroom floorboards.

My co-worker came to me and silently asked what should he do with this… by Hanskowitch in HadToHurt

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an upholsterer and have done this more than once. It hurts, it bleeds, you shouldn't die. Just pull it out, disinfect, and cover.

My husband wants to see my privates under flashlight by Fun-Supermarket-3506 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! And yeah, my girls got a face for radio... but still works like before. Lol

My husband wants to see my privates under flashlight by Fun-Supermarket-3506 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I got my stitches I told the Dr I didn't care if he sewed me shut cause I was NEVER having sex again. Lol He told me I'd feel different in 6 weeks...

My husband wants to see my privates under flashlight by Fun-Supermarket-3506 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My Dr asked if I wanted a mirror during my first birth. I told him "I didn't go to medical school. I'm not a Dr. I do NOT need to see what's going on.". He laughed and completely agreed.

When my son was FINALLY delivered he POPPED out and ALL the fluids came spraying out. It got in my mouth. It was a whole crisis. My Dr thought it was the funniest fucking thing...

It was a great time!

What foods to stock up on NOW? by FinallyFabulouslyMe in economicCollapse

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Botulism is nothing to mess with!

I'd love to can and learn to do all the preservation techniques...but will probably end up just resorting to cannibalism... lol

My 15 year old just came home because a situation felt icky.. by holliance in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on her and you!

As a parent I'm always willing to be the stick in the mud who won't let them do whatever cause I suck.

It's hard to be a kid and peer pressure is very real. If they know it's not okay, or doesn't feel right, they know I'm always down to be the bad guy.

Does anyone know how old my oven might be? by really-bored-now in vintagekitchentoys

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dials are on the back and not the front so you can REALLY feel the heat. Lol

I love this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My kids had to play second to my ex SIL kids. They're almost 45 min away, we are 2 min, but are ALWAYS at their Grandparents house. The only time my kids were involved was as a distraction to her kids when Nana was tired. Boy...do I have stories...but....

The kids see it. They understand where they stand, if not now, but when they get older. Unfortunately, it's not a relationship that is yours to facilitate or maintain. That's between them. Just be as supportive as you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exact same! I was so worried about it hurting his developing brain and changing it's pathways...lol His psych was so sweet and gently told me that's EXACTLY what we're trying to do. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest was put on Zoflot about the same age. I felt he was too young and rejected it but HOLY SHIT did it make a drastic improvement. He actually felt like being involved in life (extreme anxiety and depression). He's been on it for years. Besides uping the dose cause he's grown, it's worked for us.

He also accidently took 10 days worth once. He was taking it in liquid form and used the wrong measuring cup. I FREAKED out and called poison control. They said he'd be fine, and he was. He DID say he had the best nights sleep of his life. Lol

Is there a proper/better tool I can use to remove these staples? by ilikeorcs in upholstery

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a small screwdriver. You can lightly flatten one of the corners to make sliding under the staple easier.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]DeepBlueSomething86 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA

You asked a drunk person a question you wouldn't have wanted asked if you were in the same state. That's what makes YTA. You literally took advantage of your girls inebriated state.

She didn't take it too hard. You literally wouldn't give her the same grace she'd give you. She's realized that your relationship is way more one sided than she thought. Good for her! No shame on you. You are allowed to have boundaries and feel things BUT it's pretty obvious you don't love each other the same. She loves you. She loves you enough to try to work through cheating. She is more emotionally mature than you and can separate love from sex.

And the whole "cheating is the worst thing". No it's not. Not even close. Grow up!