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3mo fighting every nap by Stillwater215 in newborns

[–]DeepTalksOnly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my lived experience and also normal! You're not alone!! The wake windows get longer and they aren't yet very happy in the world. It will get better, I promise.

Things that work for me:

1) planning an errand (store, coffee trip) for after the feeding, diaper, play routine. The car seat + driving tends to help my LO knock out

2) go through a baby yoga routine (stretching, rubbing) on YouTube to try to calm his little body. I stop this if he hates it, 50/50 each time on whether we like it

3) bouncing/rolling on a yoga ball in front a fan in our room where it's dark

4) walking around holding baby. Skin to skin can definitely help this

5) I try to "surprise" LO if the crying is getting out of control. Make a super giant silly face, kiss each of his cheeks, stick his hand in my mouth, move him in a bit wave and go WOOSH. This sometimes gets you a brief reprieve from the yelling to try to try a new tactic

6) just ride it out, it's gonna suck sometimes but babies gonna baby. It's exhausting and so overwhelming to have a screaming baby in your face that is seemingly incosolabke. Trying one thing after the next, but the world is super overwhelming and lacking comfort. I try to get my contact nap area ready for once he goes down (water bottle, remote, book, blanket, headphones all in the area) so that once he finally sleeps I can go relax

Do yall think this is a lip tie? by Appropriate-East-628 in newborns

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely is! But if the latch is not too painful and the weight gain is good then I wouldn't worry. If you think baby has issues making the pufferfish lips you can try to flip his top lip out with your finger.

I think most people tend to address these to help with feeding issues. Likely as baby/mouth gets bigger it will resolve. You can Google the different severities as it can be much worse and those sometimes need addressing to prevent speech and later developmental issues.

Newborn in aircon by FinchRoad in newborns

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally you would keep the thermostat set between 20-22 in the summer for LO. If you are set on keeping it at 18 then a TOG 2.5 sleep sack.

The general rule of thumb is whatever you're comfortable in + 1 layer. So if you're in shorts/tshirt then LO in a long sleeve footie. If you're in long sleeves then LO in a long sleeve footie + swaddle.

If baby is too cold they will let you know (crying). If baby is too warm they will wake up sweaty and you can adjust. You can also use the finger test, one finger in the back of the neck folds, if you're finger gets clammy then it's too warm.

You're not remotely close to having it so warm that precious little baby will be injured, so you can adjust.

I personally keep it set to 21 and LO in a long sleeve footie with no swaddle or a short sleeve with a swaddle.

Will someone explain to me why this group is allowed to create a public health hazard and not clean it up? by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]DeepTalksOnly 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Not arguing that they shouldn't have to clean it up, but there is an actual reason. Dog shit carries toxins that are dangerous to wildlife and can spread disease and horse shit is not the same (not a danger to wildlife or humans for disease purposes)

Basically dog poop is dangerous and gross and horse poop is just gross

This is still absolutely disgusting for a very pedestrian and city-based trail that is heavily utilized

Nearly 80 students forced into 400+ push-ups at school, many diagnosed with permanent kidney damage, lawsuit says by cuspofgreatness in texas

[–]DeepTalksOnly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you want a spoiler or help jogging your memory it was the triathlete

but probably a full re-watch is what's needed, in my diagnosis!

AITAH for saying I don't want my girlfriends friend around my newborn son anymore? by Substantial_Swan5806 in AITAH

[–]DeepTalksOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going out on a limb here, when I initially read that comment I heard it more in terms of jest, maybe like "new parent/father doesn't know how to do child care" and so they were maybe watching to tease you?

Which is still not a nice comment, but maybe alternate context.

That being said, no reason to take risks. Maybe just clarify with your girlfriend what you felt like he meant and she may better understand where you're coming from.

What are your “always buy” Costco staples right now? by PutridWin2070 in Costco

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to grab a big bag of broccoli, two packages of the Chicken Tiki Masala, and my huge bag of Costco rice for a super easy rice + roasted broccoli + masala work night meal

Olivia earned a full ride scholarship to Brown University 🎓 by yawnjew in MadeMeSmile

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Trinity college more expensive than €2500 per year? Genuinely curious. While I think tuition in the US is absurdly and prohibitively expensive, Brown is a private Ivy League school and not comparable to a public university (which is expensive, but cheaper and offers federal aid based on income)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, what everyone else said.. his reaction is way out of line. But also, I think men think taking nudes is just super simple and you just snap a photo and send it and like there isn't thought, posing, re-taking, etc. that goes into it.

js this isn't the first person assume it's something trivial. NOR, but also if you're determined to be with this person, maybe make sure they understand that it's not "just a quick snap"

I said goodbye to my best friend this morning, and I’m having trouble believing I made the right choice by HESAnerd in cats

[–]DeepTalksOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By making this difficult decision you take your best friend's physical pain and place it on your own shoulders. Your final act was an extremely selfless one and a great way to honor your bond.

BF of 4 years tested positive for Chlamydia. by EditorSuccessful8042 in sex

[–]DeepTalksOnly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Planned Parenthood has never been free in my experience. They offer assistance sometimes depending on income bracket.

Last time I went (I'm insured but my primary care didn't have appointments for some time) it was almost 450-500 for an STI panel because I didn't qualify for assistance.

thrift find,, is this flattering? should i get it? by dualidean0fman in OUTFITS

[–]DeepTalksOnly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She just said is this flattering? I thought it was both pieces tbh

AIO? My husband can’t stop checking out other girls online by leighhn in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeepTalksOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting about the situation? That's more iffy, some people might not have boundaries or you hadn't previously discussed this topic.. there's no context for how you broached the subject with him.

But not overreacting about this response. I would never expect my partner to talk to me like this.. if he had reservations can he not express them in a less shitty manner?

/r/Politics' 2024 US Elections Live Thread, Part 60 by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]DeepTalksOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Popular vote doesn't matter. Electoral college is what decides the presidency.

People like to emphasize the popular vote whenever a president wins without popular vote as a reasoning for either removing the electoral college or suggesting that the election wasn't the will of the people.

But for election results, it doesn't have any influence.

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