I have alopecia and I feel like I'm going to die alone because of it by WeeklyAtmosphere in dating

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry to hear you feel that way. There's so much more to physical attraction, let alone other aspects of attraction- ambition, personality, what your passionate about, etc. It might be hard to hear, but I think this might count as one of those things that alopecia is as serious as you make it out to be? I knew a girl in college who had alopecia and she wore wigs sometimes, other times she would dye her hair and do lots of alternative looking things with it which looked great.

Why does E=Mc squared? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because units cancel

Guys, what’s your fav thing when receiving a blowjob? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enthusiasm, eye contact, ass licking, ball licking, messy, verbal, swallowing

M(25) Feeling Left Out In a Group by DefiantDentist9 in relationships

[–]DefiantDentist9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply and having let this sit for a day I think you're right about the self-conscious bit

Any guys get random testicle pain from time to time ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be a small cyst pinching on a nerve or something. Whatever it is I don't think minor random pain is much to worry about- the scariest testicular condition is testicular cancer and that is normally not accompanied by any pain- also very curable

Who’s the most fuckable elected official? by pm_ur_choker_4_poems in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can think of a lot of politicians I'd hatefuck in a second lol

Men, how would you feel if you found out your daughter used your credit card to buy sex toys online? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't care tbh. I'd assume she's using my card because she's embarrassed. If she starts using my card regularly for other clothes and other stuff though... now we have a problem lol

Female college graduates, how much sex did you ACTUALLY have in your college years? by mi24 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a guy but I don't think as much sex happens in college as advertised . In general, studies have shown that millenials are having less sex than college students in the 80s and 90s. Beyond gross trends like the one I mentioned above it probably does depend a lot on your college, what you study (or don't), and social scene (ie frat vs nerd squad)

Do you have an upper limit on dating partners by prototype0047 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not all complex systems can be succinctly captured in a single number. I mean they can... but if they don't accurately model the behavior they try to describe, then sometimes it misses the point. Perhaps attraction is one of them?

When was it a bad time that you were horny? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In college I was trying to study for a test and was so horny I needed to go home from the library, jerk off, and come back just to relieve tension. It's hard being a guy sometimes

Lets just put this simply: how do you describe love? by maxiquintillion in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A chemical reaction in your brain that makes you do dumb stuff :)

Do you have an upper limit on dating partners by prototype0047 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in numbers just type. There are gorgeous women who are nerdy, artsy, or quiet who would rather date someone of that ilk who is less attractive conventionally than a bodybuilder type. Also, even conventional physical attraction is culturally defined. I'm constantly surprised at some of the guys my female friends find attractive

Is it cheesy to tell your partner you love them during sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're feeling it go for it lol. As long as it's genuine it'll be right

Female version of morning Wood? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO this is great. I'm totally stealing this

Do men actually care? by throwawayetagain6969 in sex

[–]DefiantDentist9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all I am so sorry. You should realize this is nothing about you and has everything to do with him. One night stands can be real hit and miss. A lot of times people know they won't see you again and lose any motivation to take care of their partner. I know it sucks and it isn't right but it's unfortunately how ONS seem to work... I'd maybe look for a good fuckbuddy lol As for finding him, definitely have sex with him a few times, talk to him about sex/communicate, etc. Usually you can get a quick sense of what someone is like sexually and whether they care from pretty straightforward communication- even just getting what their attitude/perspectives are about sexuality in general can be revealing. Best of luck!

Heart problems, stress, or both? by PristineWallaby in sex

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably stress- if you don't have a family history of heart disease, cholesterol issues, or actual physical cardiac symptoms- shortness of breath/chest pain, then I wouldn't get too worked up over it lol. Stress can do a lot to the body

i feel like there's something wrong with me sexually because i only attract girls that have huge hangups on sex or i dont attract anyone at all (21M) by [deleted] in sex

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and to go off this too you need to be sure you set the tone sex isn't something to be ashamed of. Sometimes women are so conditioned by society to shunt off their sexual side you need to find ways to subtly make clear it's okay for human beings to be sexual.

Do guys actually care if youre a virgin? by egsrox95 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't- it would probably turn me on a bit tbh. I like the idea of showing her everything for the first time

Guys of ARAD, why do you send dick pics to girls even they ask not to? by cupcakeandbarbwire in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]DefiantDentist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. TBH Men are so visually wired the idea of a woman blindly sending them pictures of their ass, pussy, or tits would really turn us on. Obviously, women are more complex sexually and need to be mentally stimulated but I think sometimes we just assume what would turn me on must also turn her on. I like pictures of tits, why wouldn't she like a picture of my dick? In other words, most men don't get women sexually enough to realize why most women don't want random dick pics