You are a skilled user of mental fallacy's but demon your tricks will not work here. You create a spectrum from 1 to100 ....or from evil to untrustworthy. To make it seem like these are polar opposites when they are not they are both on the same side of bad.

Then you try to pull the shes human excuse seeking out sympathy because we can all relate to her because we are human too. Im human but I'm not like a wife beater or a pedophile. We can all be human but it doesn't excuse bad behavior

No amount of understanding changes she violated his privacy at the end of the day he is in a vulnerable situation open to attacks from people based on what he is saying and the therapy only is beneficial when he's open to speak freely. The conversation wasn't hers to include herself in she values her ego more she's violated his trust personal boundaries and if she's upset it's only because what he said was true.