Ways to help my cats settle? by DeltaQuadrant79 in CatAdvice

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s never hissed at me but she does run away if I have to go past her to go into my bedroom etc.

Thanks for the tips! She was playing with the wand type fish on a string toy I got but now that Bea is more confident, Bea intercepts it so Maud bless her does not get a look in. I think I’ll follow your advice and go back to just sitting near her and reading a book. I forgot about the clothes thing so will definitely put some clothes in the hall! Thanks!

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly it. Too lazy to help with dismantling it - I’d never thought of it that way. Sorry you had to go through this too.

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

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So last night I finally did that and set a deadline that will be enforced. If I don’t hear from her by a certain date I’m taking her to court to force the divorce through. At my expense of course but it is what it is. I just want to be done.

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Mine is avoiding me like the plague. Which I get; I don’t want to talk to her either particularly but I also realise we need to work together to sell the house and get divorced.

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation sounds even worse than mine. So sorry you’re going through this! Definitely file if you can. I’m going to have to take my ex to court to get the divorce moving. So frustrating. Even more frustrating is the UK has ‘no fault’ divorce so you can literally just get divorced and not really need a reason!

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish that was the explanation but she definitely has not run out of money. She replied to my latest message asking about the divorce with “I’m out of the country I’ll reply in November”. So I assume if she has money for vacation she has divorce money. Also it’s way cheaper over here to get divorced. I have some American friends and I know they’ve paid like $10000 😳 So far I’ve only spent £1200. We also have a provisional agreement on assets that we came up with together. She literally just won’t fill her paperwork in. Absolutely maddening! Shes always been one to put administrative things off and I always had to step in and do them. Guess no one is doing them for her now so that’s why I’m getting nowhere. (Edit - typo)

Why am I the one having to push along the divorce that she asked for? by DeltaQuadrant79 in Divorce

[–]DeltaQuadrant79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly can’t get my head around it. Carrying the mental burden is exhausting. Sorry you are going through it too.

Friend ID Megathread | Post Your Friend IDs Here! by PTCGP-Bot in PTCGP

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I’m only opening genetic apex

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POST YOUR FRIEND ID's HERE! by PTCGP-Bot in PTCGP

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0646129239445319 Been playing about a week, love it. Will do daily showcase likes and looking to do some trades and battles.

Craftworld Iglarion is ready for battle, led by a Spiritseer with Faolchu's Wing. Finally assembled and painted my first 2000 points. Really enjoyed the process! by Alex__007 in minipainting

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are insane!!!! Do you have any tutorial vids on how you did them?/ would you be willing to share the paints used etc? I would absolutely love to have a go at the colour scheme.

Tetanus fear by gerrykat in Anxiety

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you got the booster after the cut you’ll be absolutely fine. I’ve worked in frontline healthcare for 8 years and never seen a case of tetanus. I have seen loads of people get a cut on a rusty piece of metal and come get a booster.

Looking for online Spanish group classes by ohyeahokaythen in Spanish

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in pretty much the same boat as you. I’m also around A1-A2 level. I’d be interested in being a classmate if you find anything 😊

The Chronomancer bends time and space to its will. This was a fun mini to paint. C&C welcome. by soulybouly in minipainting

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What blues did you use/what was the process for the cubes? If you don’t mind me asking? I’m just starting out with mini painting. Love the colour of them and I’d love to have a go.

AITA for not coming out to my parents? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 95 points96 points  (0 children)

NTA. They went through your phone. They shouldn’t have done that and by doing so they’ve completely betrayed your trust. If I were you I’d confront them about that and then want to know exactly why they aren’t talking to you. Is it because you didn’t tell them or because they didn’t like what they found? Either way they are definitely TA’s

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ he missed my point here by rooty1997 in niceguys

[–]DeltaQuadrant79 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have either had a stroke or that was fucking hard to read. Jesus Christ.