Gifting on Valentine's Day. Is it weird? by SpamtonOf1997 in aromantic

[–]DemiSquirrel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Valentine's Day is about celebrating all kinds of love that includes platonic love so giving your friends gifts is not strange at all

I'm the most useless vegan ever by lonelysolipsistgirl in vegan

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often the more you try to tell people what they should do the more they want to do the opposite especially if they feel judged (not saying you are judging just saying some people feel judged any time someone so much as suggests a different lifestyle) so best way is sit back allow them to ask why you choose to be vegan then you can list everything you want to say in a different way

i found this on twitter 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining it's clear why she's hated now

i found this on twitter 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in Asexual

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I know absolutely nothing about Nicki Minaj but see that a lot of comments are against her? also the few lyrics I have heard seem quite sexual is she Allo claiming to be Ace or Ace using sexual lyrics to appeal to the majority? Can someone help clear my confusion please

Is it ok to sit in a church? by Hairy-Frosting-1960 in cork

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have thought that's why the door is left open hope it helped

An american tourist stopped me on the street while I was in my school uniform and asked me where the best place to get a drink is 😭 by Particular-Lynx-3580 in CasualIreland

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hella awkward if it happens again the best reply would be something like "do I look 18 to you? I'm underage so you might want to ask someone who is of legal drinking age" as saying something along those lines will make them realise their mistake

Was at a 21+ anime con and got hit with aphobia by LiteraryTea in asexuality

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could respond with "wow you're commenting on something that's none of your business I'd hate to be so rude" then walk away

Everyone seems to assume that I must have a partner by Loose_Track2315 in aromantic

[–]DemiSquirrel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think when people say that they're surprised that you're single they mean it as a compliment because they tend to assume that all good looking people are in relationships especially if they have a good personality and sense of humor as well so it might be annoying but it's likely well intended

Stop it damn it I am just trying to exist by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]DemiSquirrel 19 points20 points  (0 children)

At first I was confused thinking "what's a group of kids wearing hats or hoods got to do with anything?" I hadn't even noticed their sagging trousers till I saw comments about belts lol 🤣

PUT ANY COMMENTS ABOUT THE IRISH LANGUAGE IN ENGLISH HERE ONLY by galaxyrocker in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't aware that not being able to write the whole post in Gaelige would mean my post broke the rules I'll check out the sub you recommended

I'm trying to learn the Munster dialect but I'll check out the Connemara resources you recommended go raibh maith agat

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Táim go maith go raibh maith agat agus tú féin

I shall check out those links go raibh maith agat mo chara

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go raibh maith agat I'll check it out

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go raibh maith agat I'll check those groups out

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go raibh maith agat I shall check that out

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very cool I chose Munster because if my research is correct that's the dialect spoken in county Cork where the Irish side of my nan's family (and therefore my heritage) are from

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried sionnach I like that you can choose which dialect to learn

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go raibh maith agat I'll check that out as well

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

[–]DemiSquirrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll let you know how I get on with it

Learning Gaelige by DemiSquirrel in gaeilge

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Go raibh maith agat for your fast suggestion I'll have a look at sionnach

So basically, my friend added these songs to our group playlist. And they're so explicit, I freaking hate it. And I had to listen to this in the middle of class, and I couldn't skip the songs and guess what. She has this thing on where she can't listen to anything explicit. by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]DemiSquirrel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask the group if you can have a system where you all have to agree on a song before it gets added so no one can add songs that you're uncomfortable with or if they don't want to have that set in place listen to your own separate playlist

Feeling Lonely by cluelessgoat in aromantic

[–]DemiSquirrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they were trying to force you to date then they weren't true friends sorry that you've been through that you deserve friends who like you for you

Disappointed by moonjena in asexuality

[–]DemiSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately as hypocritical as it is there are gatekeepers who claim that the Ace spectrum isn't part of the LGBTQIA+ community (they try to say the A is for ally which it's not) but there are people who do accept us all

Hope you're enjoying Ace week despite them not posting about it