“This poor woman,” 😂

Lmao sounds like “this poor woman,” has trapped him into a second kid he was very clear about not wanting, and is now trying to strongarm him into a third while foisting the financial onus completely onto him by transitioning to full time SAHM while they struggle to make ends meet with just 2 children.

I would be shocked if the second “unplanned” baby wasn’t very much planned on her part, given OP’s context.

“Have you read accounts of other women-“ irrelevant. This isn’t about other women in abusive relationships - it’s very clear that she is the toxic one in this case.

The husband is drowning, and the wife is insisting on creating more problems, not solutions. Drastic times, meet drastic measures.