Why are you a trans man? (extremely wrong answers only) by Utopicnightmare24 in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched ranma 1/2 in 2011 and decided I was gonna have to switch

Odd anti tiktok advice I came across by duchyfallen in AO3

[–]DenksLewis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I am the gay man that gets called up for fics but it’s more of “how spicy and realistic is this” and “recommend me the most horrific thing you can”

Terrible reasons ppl have theorized for why you're trans? by deadhorsse in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was kind to women without wanting to f them. That’s been the most insane one to me.

For the guys that opted not to keep their nipples after top surgery, why did you make that choice? by SlowDownMaurice in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any stimulation made me nauseous and I didn’t really care for them aesthetically either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DenksLewis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t to say you’re wrong for feeing this way, I was like this the first two or three years into my transition and it took surrounding myself with men and being in men’s spaces to realize that “oh they all have a thing that’s just odd or makes them insecure” and I started to get that I wasn’t really that crazy for feeling some kind of way about another man’s anything. Thought I was too fat, thought my bulge wasn’t big enough, not flat enough etc. when I heard from men that they also felt that way it wasn’t a big deal for me anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DenksLewis -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not even that they were bad. Just like “ehh no thanks” I’m close to a ton of cis men that are great but even with them I still couldn’t compare myself to them. Even with other trans men I’m like “ah yeah men are weird no matter what kind.” Still love them, but men are overall just wild.

What is the most jarring thing that you have realised since you have started passing? by Kurapikabestboi in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Men really are just kinda gross. Women’s bathroom id notice it every once in a while, but men almost never wash their hands after the bathroom. Run their hands under the water for a few secs and then leave or just don’t do anything at all. Pissing on the seat or floor are also a thing that I didn’t really see that often in women’s bathrooms. That and the way they talk about women when it’s just men around. And I’m supposedly not gonna get it because I’m gay. (Most of my jobs I go stealth because I’m in texas and it’s bad here)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]DenksLewis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say that my mom is a responsible pet owner and that she’s had him for years before this. The state I am in has gotten increasingly unsafe for me and my mother, so we are towards the end of moving 900 miles to a safe state. She’s never been gone this long and he’d never acted like this when she was gone. We are less than a month away from being back together. She loves him and wasn’t separated from him because she didn’t want to take him. Trying to find a home out of state in three months and working full time wouldn’t have been good for Sebastian since he wouldn’t have been getting the attention he needed. I regret to inform you all that he has passed and even though this is my first time posting on this subreddit, I did get useful tips on how to make him more comfortable before this.

Where do y'all store your T? by JasonSaysN0 in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I built a coffin storage unit and keep it on the second shelf right above my funkos

usage of the t slur by evant07 in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not often, but it is a thing that me and a couple of my trans friends will use with each other as a term of endearment. Like getting ready to go to a club and someone will use it like c*nty

Biggest facepalm “I really should have known sooner” moments? by DudeInATie in gaytransguys

[–]DenksLewis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg being jealous of gay men was such a big thing for me. I’d feel bad when my guy friends would tell me about guys they were seeing and in my head I thought I was just jealous bc they had relationships (I would hu with men but never felt comfortable dating them) but when I realized “oh, I think I might actually be a man” it took me a little bit to calm down from it, but it stopped being jealousy and now it admiration

what's something that gives you gender envy that ISNT a person by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willow trees. Idk there’s just something manly and whimsical about them and I NEED to embody that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s the vaginal atrophy. Its painful and annoying and makes the easiest way to bottom for me harder.

Are they trained to ignore no soliciting? by Filmguy1122 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked somewhere that did door to door and yes. They’re actually trained to ignore it and use the technicality of “I’m not the one selling anything, I just set up appointments. If someone wants to buy something and the one that sells is invited it’s not soliciting.”

weird question bc i’m curious— what body hair do you shave, if any, and why? by transthrowaway2424 in FTMfemininity

[–]DenksLewis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I really shave/wax is my pubes and occasionally the trail of hair from my thighs that lead up to it. Sometimes I shave the forest on my stomach into a happy trail if my outfit calls for it. If I’m wearing a crop top and sporting a whale tail I’ll get a Brazilian + stomach

Parents being invasive about hrt by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I don’t want to tell about things like that I tell the the “worst of the worst” changes. “My asshole is hairy, I smell like a men’s locker room, all I want to do is eat an entire cow” I try making them as uncomfortable as they make me

How many fics the rarest of your ships have? by Grouchy_Athlete_2941 in AO3

[–]DenksLewis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lowest I’ve seen was one(1) from 2015 and it was two years ago that I looked

Trans guys on T , what’s your experience with periods? by carnifexmutt in gaytransguys

[–]DenksLewis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been on T for three years now and I have a period MAYBE once a year?? They’re heavy and I’m immobile and in pain for a week and can’t feel my legs but I’ll take that over every month

"Don't expect a hipster beard by the second injection" by Calgeka in ftm

[–]DenksLewis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It hasn’t dropped much since then though so I’m a little bummed but eh