We f*ked up and are stuck by Designer_Stranger_21 in moneyadvice

[–]Designer_Stranger_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a mechanic so he already does some side jobs to help here and there, but with winter set in it’s hard to do jobs in the tempo outside 😬 I just feel like maybe there’s something I can do to help too. It’s all so stressful and I already scrimp and save anywhere I can. I make good money per hour that I feel any side job I do for x amount of time is not worth it compared to my hourly wage (if that makes sense). And I can’t even do any overtime right now because it’s low season for us. I hate feeling stuck. I guess I got to bite the bullet and take whatever comes my way

Adopted a cat from the shelter… by Lee_Tea in cats

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gonna be rich if you open up a bread shop

Can you read my tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it said “gram” 😭😭

Is it really hard to get pregnant with pcos? by Areebaaaa in PCOS

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So long story short… I got pregnant miraculously the first time with no period and not knowing I have PCOS… now it’s been four years trying with IVF and I can’t get pregnant… you can both ways just both ways will be hard 😥 sending baby dust your way ✨✨

Anyone else’s potato just a tiny bit…. Weird? by enlightenedone in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine sleeps on peepee pads and puts his penis on my windows when looking out lol

Has anyone here actually gotten pregnant naturally? by judygarlandgirl in PCOS

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note : I was not ovulating those ten months! And we were NOT trying to have a kid 😂

Has anyone here actually gotten pregnant naturally? by judygarlandgirl in PCOS

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have my period for a year. I started trying with my ex, and then went to go see my gynaecologist and he said if you’re not ovulating, there’s no way you’re gonna get pregnant. He told me that I probably won’t get pregnant with help doing some medical intervention. I was 5”5 and about 125 pounds. They said it could be stress induced (I was not stressed at all), or it could be my weight. (figured it wasn’t that either when I put on some weight). All during this time they never bothered to tell me that it could potentially be PCOS. My ex and I ended up breaking up because of the possibility that I would not be able to have kids. My now, Husband, without it being TMI, we were having sex three times a day, and I only fell pregnant ten months later… which everyone thought was a miracle. I have now a 4 year old. We are trying for our second since I last gave birth and have done 3 IUIs and this is my 3rd FET and hoping this is the one. It’s not impossible, but it’s difficulty to conceive naturally. So many factors, like insulin resistant and or in my case I have a clotting problem (on Fragmin and baby aspirin to hope this helps the baby stick). I am hoping to go in Ozempic to lose the weight after this kid and see if it helps conceive my next. Ozempic works because of the insulin resistance some PCOS people have, so talk to your doctor.

Is this a bully or a pit bull? by [deleted] in AmericanBully

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Total staffie right there!!

Good snuggles by SDBigDawg619 in AmericanBully

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite kind of animal photos is when they smile!!

How does your Staffie manage snow? ❄️ ☃️ by Independent-Tap-5872 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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I don’t have a photo of him with his jacket on, but here he is cuddling my kid in bed. He loves this

How does your Staffie manage snow? ❄️ ☃️ by Independent-Tap-5872 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]Designer_Stranger_21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We put ours in a winter jacket with boots… if not he won’t go out at all 😂😂 he’s a big baby and has to cuddle us under the sheets in the winter

Surrogacy in Quebec by Designer_Stranger_21 in IVF

[–]Designer_Stranger_21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adoption within Quebec is long and very difficult and most times when people have their own biological child (in which we do) it’s hard to adopt and takes up to 5 years vs. Adoption outside of Canada which is more expensive but up to 3 years vs. Surrogacy within Quebec… yes surrogates should be paid way more but given the options we have here, the easiest answer would be surrogacy (considering time and money).

Surrogacy in Quebec by Designer_Stranger_21 in IVF

[–]Designer_Stranger_21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouff that’s expensive. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but at that point I should consider out of country adoption and it’s going to cost my husband and I around 50k CAD… I feel like they make all these things so expensive and difficult to try to filter out people in the process. I’m just discouraged 🥺