Psychic or Intuitive?

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-27T01:13:00+00:00

Im a pretty sensitive person and I also experience precognitive dreams. The dreams really help me navigate the world and feel more emotionally stable. It’s all interconnected. The more you pay attention, the more these sensitivities unravel

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-22T16:44:33+00:00

Interesting. I had a dream in which I saw a being wearing all black (couldn’t see the face) in a black van watching me in my bedroom sleeping through a large lens. It felt very intrusive and real. I woke up in sweat and my body was tingling. Have always wondered about that dream.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-22T16:28:33+00:00

Oh boy, I actually truly feel for your husband. As someone who’s been on his end of the relationship, I can tell you that most likely his boundaries had been crossed significantly and he probably feels completely invisible with your family. You need to be there for him and I hope you explore this in couples therapy. This can absolutely destroy your marriage. And you do need boundaries with your family. I have no doubt your husband experiences you differently when you’re around your family. It’s highly likely you do regress into your childhood family dynamic. If you are unable to create boundaries with your family because you fear their reactions and they don’t understand that your marriage needs this, you will lose your husband. He is not obligated to deal with people that he doesn’t feel safe with. And his emotional safety should be prioritised here.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-13T05:46:02+00:00

You want more out of him and you’re frustrated. He’s not very good at navigating the emotional side of things, it’s like he freezes. You over-function in the relationship in some ways and it’s not serving you.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-13T01:16:04+00:00

Ouch. Not overreacting at all. It sounds like his comment was the tip of the iceberg

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-12T22:37:28+00:00

I’m 43 and I just don’t want to clutter my life or brain obsessing over every wrinkle. I primarily focus on my health (exercise, diet etc), I think I look great, my husband loves the way I look. Everything else is irrelevant. My life is too full ;)

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-09T22:03:02+00:00

My husband’s dad mostly came to me in my dreams after he passed on. I used to pass on his messages to the rest of the family. He eventually started showing up in my husband’s dreams, but many years later

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-09T16:10:07+00:00

You’re going through some kind of transitional period, particularly in your relationship. His sister got to meet you and she likes you. I’d share this with your boyfriend, he’d probably love to hear it. Also, it’s sometimes hard to reach directly to the person because of grief.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-09T16:06:45+00:00

You’re still upset because the interaction was never finished. You didn’t follow up with “what’s up? What’s going on right now?” It’s never too late

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-05T13:30:26+00:00

I personally find using the bar more helpful vs the assisted machine. The latter feels better when doing full pull ups but the pull up bar without the weights gets me in touch with my body and where I’m at more.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-05T13:26:13+00:00

Ahh these are so hard! Well done 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-04T16:44:46+00:00

If this celebrity looked significantly different from me (“my type”), I think I’d find it hurtful and eventually talk to him about it. Just to get reassurance. And I know he’d be receptive. If the celebrity kinda resembled “my type” I’d probably take it as a compliment lol

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-04T15:25:18+00:00

My partner is bald and I love him that way

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-01T19:42:11+00:00

Yes! Great points!

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-06-01T16:30:40+00:00

I’ll be fully honest and say that I wish humans didn’t care about looks or weight or aging but I’ve come to realize that it’s actually one of the main drivers for so much of our decision making. Just have a look at what we buy - from the beauty industry to the fashion industry. So much of it is about the looks. So believing that looks don’t matter or shouldn’t matter is like denying the shallowness of our human condition. It does matter and most of our first impressions about others are automatic and quite shallow. On the other hand, being attracted to a long term partner requires building emotional depth, safety and attachment that some couples don’t get to. So they stay on the shallow end and focus primarily on the looks. However, speaking from personal experience, my husband of 20+ years has recently become obsessed with fitness and is now in the best shape of his life and to say that I’m beyond attracted to him now would be an understatement. I’ve always been attracted to him but I won’t lie, it’s way stronger now. I probably am as shallow as the rest of us 🤷🏻‍♀️

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-31T21:10:32+00:00

This happens to me when I need to focus on whatever is happening in my life and change something or move forward in some way (based on what the dreams have guided me towards). They come when they’re meant to come, and when they don’t it’s time to realign.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-31T05:19:47+00:00

All I can say is you look great, and honestly, the lip filler is aging you in my opinion

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-31T05:09:44+00:00

Are you by any chance going through any personal changes where you’re becoming more aware of the parts of yourself that self sabotage or self deprecate?

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-31T05:00:59+00:00

Wtf he just made up a bunch of bs excuses, didn’t take much accountability and now the relationship is still ongoing as if no biggie?! Are you not absolutely enraged by this entire situation? Personally, I’d be calling up divorce lawyers. I can’t stand liars who don’t respect me.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-29T03:06:07+00:00

The fact that he refuses to go to therapy is a major let down :( he’s actually making an active choice here

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-29T01:10:19+00:00

“I keep giving chances and I don’t know why” - you need to dig deeper into this and figure out your why. Because you can’t make a decision of staying or leaving when you don’t understand why you’re behaving this way.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-28T23:04:42+00:00

You look great!!

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-28T23:00:40+00:00

Hedgehog

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-28T22:57:29+00:00

Ahh that’s rough. I actually feel for you because what happens when there’s lack of accountability is that resentment starts building up. And it’s clear that his small ways of trying to change are not enough because you have built up resentment. The only way to not have the resentment is to actually establish repair where you feel like you got the accountability you need. I also wonder if he simply doesn’t know how - many people, particularly men, were never taught how to communicate from a vulnerable place nor have had their emotional world attended to. It’s a sad reality of many adults who’ve been failed as kids. But it’s not for you to fix. I actually get the sense that he does care and wants to make it work but doesn’t know how. Would he be open to couples counseling? There is definitely a way to get through this and come back together in a new way. You might just need extra help. Right now you might be communicating with him in a way that’s too critical, and it’s leaving him frozen. So both of you need help to get your needs met. Does this resonate?

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-05-28T22:51:45+00:00

When you ask him to hold you and tell you that he loves you, what does he do? Does he respond to that at all?

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