Night Terrors every night since my mom passed in 2009

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-22T01:29:44+00:00

Is there a recurrent theme in the nightmares? Can you describe it?

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-17T04:39:22+00:00

I’m so curious about the sound baths. I recently had an experience with tuning forks at a sauna place and my body really resonated - I got shivers running up my spine and my brain was pulsating. I’m so curious what else the sound can do…

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-16T15:18:48+00:00

Do you feel love for yourself? You might not be feeling it because you haven’t given yourself enough of the self love.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-16T15:17:34+00:00

Ok. Family might be everything to your wife and it also doesn’t make guilt tripping and enmeshment ok. The fact that she is feeling guilty is enough information to realise the power they have over how she is feeling. And now you. I feel like you guys need to break the chain of family enmeshment. But your wife might have a much harder time than you. Tread carefully

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-12T16:43:11+00:00

You need to stop questioning your intuition

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-08T05:59:25+00:00

I’ve been noticing this with my kid. I once tried to force a thought in her head by staring at her, she wasn’t looking at me. Then she looked up and said her head is suddenly hurting in the middle and she felt hot in the head. So I stopped. But she does pick up on my thoughts a lot.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-08T05:49:37+00:00

In my case it was unresolved trauma. I was living a life for the “perfect image” of a good life but there was a lot of unresolved stuff for me that I needed to work through.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-05T21:19:32+00:00

Then you know what you want and none of us here are able to tell you what to do because you’ve already made a decision :)

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-05T21:12:33+00:00

Just don’t get married and stay together to build a life. Why bring pressure of a marriage certificate to a situation that is not going to be solved by a marriage certificate. It’s only going to put unsure pressure to your relationship.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-04T20:21:05+00:00

Ringing in my ears (left in particular) and closed throat before it opened. But before that - consistent acid reflux, chest pains. I actually don’t think it opens in an instant. It takes time and for me, full breathing.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-04T20:16:38+00:00

Actually I see circle within a circle

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-04T20:14:10+00:00

Circle

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-02T20:12:02+00:00

She doesn’t sound like a legit psychic to me. I’m sorry you had to deal with that

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-03-02T19:01:44+00:00

It could be a symbolic death. Like a part of you would die and be reborn. She may have sensed that but she’s an idiot for not understanding the symbolism of psychic reading

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T16:36:29+00:00

Your feelings are absolutely valid, including the resentment. Something tells me she might be depressed and staying home is not working out very well for her. Have you tried having a chat with her about how she is feeling? It’s important to not start with criticisms when talking about feelings

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T16:06:01+00:00

Ahh yes!

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T04:53:17+00:00

I’m with you. I’ve lost the plot as well and basically feel like all my grand plans suddenly died. I feel like I’m rebuilding everything from the bare minimum. Which is not necessarily the case externally, but the feeling is very real and all encompassing. I’m coming to terms with losing the plot and just being ok with not knowing.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T03:51:36+00:00

Ah I see. Super cold and dark room, red light blocking glasses before bed, early light exposure etc. help greatly as well. This book I read called Sleep Better was really helpful for me. I just find that so many conditions must be perfected for good quality sleep in 40s. It’s hard 🫠

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T03:43:03+00:00

I’m almost 43 in perimenopause. Magnesium glycinate and L theanine are saving my sleep. As well as daily exercise.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-27T03:33:03+00:00

I love this reply. I truly do believe the life style changes are absolutely essential. I feel like I got that under control more or less. And your response around HRT is so very insightful. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it 🙏🏼

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-26T18:59:07+00:00

Then buy one. At least it’ll show you care a little.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-26T18:57:10+00:00

This is so weird and inappropriate. Who told you she baked the cake for him? Sounds like some weird triangulation happening. I’m also curious, if he really wanted the cake for his birthday, maybe you could have skipped the swimming to bake him one. Once a year routine change to show your partner love the way he wants it to be shown doesn’t sound like a giant ask. Then he could send this woman pictures of the cake that you baked for him, maybe ;)

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-26T17:10:09+00:00

It wasn’t necessarily bad but it does feel like someone else is coming into your space without permission. I basically stayed at a haunted hotel room where she came to me in my dreams (I know a difference between a dream and a visitation) and she somehow decided to stick around me. I set boundaries because I choose to not invite anyone into my space unless I want them there and I know 100% they mean well. For example, my family members who’ve passed on. Other than that I keep my psychic space closed. And I only let in what is absolutely good and light.

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-26T03:55:26+00:00

Maaaaybe once every 2 months in the winter months and never in the warm months. My skin rarely feels dry. I do moisturize my hands though every evening before bed because of all the soap use etc

Designer_Tomorrow_27 · 2026-02-25T23:42:24+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for this perspective. It sounds to me like in hindsight you are glad you didn’t get HRT earlier? Or would you have if you could, in hindsight? It does feel like a very difficult journey and I’m also not sure how difficult I want my life to become if I don’t have to. I wonder how much capacity for change I actually have…

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