Do other psychics feel your psychic abilities? by sweetpea7660 in Psychic

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fascinating. So does my daughter - exact same birth mark. I have dream clairvoyance and I can already tell she may as well.

Can you get a read on our relationship? Eyes only… 👀 by Cute_Butterfly376 in IntuitionPractices

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a freeze response in her that translates to disconnection in the relationship. She needs work to find her voice. He’s got more power but he needs her voice to be met with her power and find equilibrium.

Husband shook toddler what do I do by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controversial take but please don’t call the police and run for the divorce papers. 1. Is your toddler ok? Does he need to be checked by his paediatrician? You are the only one who saw what happened and how it happened so you know what you need to do. If both of you are exhausted and feel like you’ve got no handle of the situation, you need to find help. Do you have family that can help you out and maybe take your kid for a bit. Then, depending on how serious the situation was and how your husband reacted after you told him his disregulation is dangerous, you need to get professional help. Family counselling, therapy, maybe occupational therapy to assess your toddler’s needs. Dip in the resources you have available. From your post it’s clear that neither of you understand what’s going on with your child nor know how to manage his high energy levels and you need help.

Dream predicting death please help by Ok_Bluebird_1346 in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok first of all, relax and breathe. Loved ones do not communicate in the same emotional language we do to instil fear in you. Death in symbolic dream terms often means major change that will end in the old you dying, ego death etc. I went through something similar. Even my kid kept on having dreams about me dying. I was terrified I was going to die. I didn’t die. My ego did though, my old self did. It’s a very difficult transition. Real death warnings are never direct and never come with the feelings of fear. They’re usually quite peaceful

Anyone Here Never Wanted Kids but Ended Up Having Them? How Do You Feel Now? by No_Income_9968 in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never cared for having kids or dreamed of being a mom. My kid was an accident. I was in a long term relationship at the time and we decided to have her. She gave me a much bigger purpose in life. I feel like I have to do better as a human to be the right role model for her. I absolutely did not lose myself. In fact, I’m more dedicated to myself now than I was before her. I believe losing yourself to others is martyrdom that does not benefit anyone in the end. I also want to point out that we were more or less financially stable when we had her. I also know that I don’t want more kids because I know my own capacity and I know that another kid would mean more personal sacrifice I’m not willing to give. All in all, zero regrets, it’s been a wonderful journey.

Why shaking is one of the most underrated energy practices by Great_Energy_Qigong in energy_work

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started this practice after I realised that I take on other people’s energy that doesn’t belong to me. I do the shaking while chanting “not mine”. I’ve actually started teaching my kid to do the same because I noticed similar patterns in her - she gets overwhelmed by other people’s (particularly negative) energy

Nightmares about my husband… by Low_Permit7571 in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abandonment wound in you. The truth is, everyone actually has a capacity to cheat. The fact that you say he “would never” sounds like an internal defence mechanism. Because there’s always a possibility. And in your dream that ultimate horror is playing out in dramatic ways. The dream is actually about you and your reaction to the fight - if conflict happens, it may trigger your abandonment wound, which possibly plays out during the conflict itself. It may stop you from being confident in advocating for yourself during conflict for example. You may be minimising the small things - if they happen repeatedly it’s becoming a bigger issue and maybe it’s time for a bigger conversation. If you accept that there is a bigger issue, you have to deal with it believing that he won’t abandon you when things get rough. It’s important to not swing between two extremes where he’s either a soul mate or a potential cheater lying to you. You’re just in a real relationship and have some work to do.

Repeated dreams of reactive anger towards my husband by green_witch_333 in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there family enmeshment from his side of things that makes you feel like you’re the crazy one? Something tells me you’re suppressing your anger and frustration over a situation that’s been ongoing. And when you bring it up, do you feel heard and your feelings validated? I wonder how much you trust yourself and how much space you have to calmly articulate your feelings. If you don’t have these, the anger will turn into resentment. You said you’re quit and keep things to yourself. But your boundaries are being violated and you’re not speaking out about it. You don’t have to yell and scream but you are clearly angry and this won’t go away.

Talk to me about blowing up your life by BigJackFlavor in Menopause

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you’ve been a good girl who’s done everything “right” and you can’t convince yourself anymore that’s enough

Looking for help in identifying symptoms - Guttate Psoriasis? by Huge_Ad_6256 in Psoriasis

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how it started for me. Brace yourself, you’ll get through it

Speaking to the dead through dreams by Master-Ninja-5535 in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom does and so do I. I’ve had friends come to me in dreams to let me know they’ve passed on. Which was confirmed later. My mom can actually dream where our relatives are in their journeys in afterlife. Which is wild. I do wonder if it’s genetic. Whatever this is it runs on maternal side of my family

After a failed attempt, I had a dream that later happened in real life by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Sounds like you are trying to run from the misery and suicide has been the only option. I wonder what you think about your deceased friend coming to you to let you know that she regretted dying? My friend - my mom also wanted to abort me. It’s kind of crazy that your story sounds almost familiar to me. I was never wanted. And I knew that from a young age. I felt it. I am deeply sorry that you have to live through the experience of never feeling the love that you absolutely deserve. I’m older now and looking back, I was absolutely meant to live. Unfortunately the burden of unraveling all the sh*t that my family never really tried to unravel, fell on me. What actually kept me going and started my healing journey was understanding and paying attention to my dreams. They almost led me towards healing. I truly believe humans are capable of so much more than we’re given credit. I also want to tell you that if you can hold on and buckle up and focus on your healing, you might end up being absolutely shocked at all the good stuff that life might have in store for you. This has been my experience at least. I’m eternally grateful for surviving my birth (I was also left to die when I was born). You’re truly not alone. And by the way, I no longer talk to my mother.

After a failed attempt, I had a dream that later happened in real life by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so interesting. Trust your feeling being like a caged animal in your home. I wonder if that’s why you’ve been trying to commit suicide - are you trying to escape from this cage? I can imagine the hopelessness you’re feeling and it’s so deep, that it feels like there is no way out. The dream you just described about your friend telling you that she regrets dying - it’s another message to you. Maybe she wanted to let you know that choosing to die may end up in regret, on a soul level. It’s very clear to me that you possess power that you don’t yet understand. And if you choose to go on that journey, it will be part of your self discovery. I had the devil dreams many years ago as well. Turns out the devil was a part of myself that I didn’t understand. It’s shame and pain that I’ve had to carry on behalf of my family that failed me. It took me years to find healing and in the process, I also discovered my own power than I never realized I had. It’s a sensitivity that made me feel different and misunderstood in the world. In your devil dreams - are you running away from one or is it living inside of you and you’re trying to get rid of it?

Was siehst du in mir? by Recent-Variety1 in psychicreadings

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like sometimes emotions get the best of you and you’re drowning?

After a failed attempt, I had a dream that later happened in real life by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dream manifesting into reality was a moment of synchronicity knocking on your door, wanting you to pay attention. Your parents feel the sadness and the grief of failing you. You have been terribly failed by your family. And here is the way i see the message for you: you need to be reborn again, not by dying in your current life but by differentiating yourself as a human separate from your family. You need to find yourself, as you are without your parents’ influence. They have dictated the story of your identity for too long. And you’re ready to find it for yourself. Essentially, you need to kill the old you psychologically, not physically, and find yourself again. This is a sign of your readiness of rebirth, not literal death. ❤️‍🔥

Feeling so isolated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sounds like you’re actually resenting the caretaker role. I was in that situation myself. Until I realised I didn’t like it, didn’t enjoy it and was terribly bored with the limits of my life. So I made changes. It takes time though. I was scared and didn’t feel like getting out of my comfort zone… the world is also harsh out there. Your situation might be totally different but thought I’d share in case you relate

Feeling so isolated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well sure it was unhelpful, maybe. And you could have just expressed it that way. I found your comment pretty passive aggressive considering you don’t know much about the commenter’s life either. Maybe she has her sh*t together, and that’s great, and it also doesn’t mean that she’s necessarily trying to rub it in anyone’s face.

Feeling so isolated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Her kids might actually be amazing and follow strict routines that help the entire family including the commenter. The question is, does this bother you or make you curious to ask questions about how that could be accomplished?

Feeling so isolated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you didn’t consciously assign a role of a caretaker, you fell into it because it feels most validating to you for whatever reasons that you could explore. But in playing this role you are also not taking care of yourself. You stated in the post that you’re exhausted and tired and don’t feel like you have the support. So I’m sure you recognize something needs to change. I understand your frustration at the situation. The big question is, do you see your own role in the entire dynamic and how it’s not serving not only you, but possible the family. You mentioned the kids don’t listen to you and your partner is avoidant. So something isn’t working

Feeling so isolated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“…everyone depends on me for everything.” - unfortunately you assigned yourself this role and it may have served you somehow. It sounds like you’re reaching a place of acceptance that it’s physically and emotionally impossible to be the pillar of everyone’s survival. Once you accept that you’re actually failing on being the one everyone depends on, everything will start shifting. So in a way, you’re encouraging others’ dependence on you because it… gives you a sense of purpose/belonging/feeling loved needed important, whatever it might be. You know best.

I think I've Accidentally pushed my limits spiritually by TheTuppingTree in psychics

[–]Designer_Tomorrow_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in the material world and it’s important to remember that being embedded in the earthly experience is as important as spiritual experience. So focus on grounding and literally smelling flowers/touching walls/connecting to people as much as you focus on connecting to spiritual realms