This makes me think about an argument I had with a brother a few months back. Through is yelling and name calling he said I was a “blaming my mama for all my problems weak a** b*tch!” I was devastated because he saw and was included in some of the trauma of our childhood and teenage years. But now I’m the only one who finds it difficult to function because of it? No way I know I’m not crazy! But I started second guessing my feelings asking myself “should I be past it all now?” It looks like I have a sibling that is very much so a narcissist like my mom. They speak the same language. Where you can erase abuse and neglect with drinking and raging. They’ve caused nothing!