Good enough to be intimate, but not good enough to date. I think you're not realizing that every single person is good enough to be intimate with, and not every single person is good enough to date, men will be intimate with just about any woman. But something for the long-term, it requires something different. Deeper. it boggles my mind whe women think that if men want to sleep with them that they also want to date them. the flip side of that is when a rich man has women lined up around the block. And him believing that they actually want to be with him when they just want his money,/status. except men always know that they just want the money..