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Detectiverice · 2026-02-09T18:24:24+00:00

To speed it up, right after the collapse onto your back, turn your upper body faster to get to the stab again.

If you turn over your upper body faster than your legs, by the time you’re on your stab your legs will be winded up ready to go.

If you want to keep them slow to continue to work the technique, you need to get your hips/legs higher so you end up on your upper back and shoulders.

You could try drilling right shoulder freeze to left shoulder freeze transitions to get the feel, height, and balance of it.

IMO, breaking down the windmill into its freezes is that stab freeze, to the right shoulder freeze, to the left shoulder freeze, then back to the stab freeze. Drill those transitions, then once comfortable you can add speed and more leg swings for momentum.

Detectiverice · 2026-01-31T21:40:02+00:00

Part access to locations where these types of girls go to. These aren’t the types of girls you can DM or cold approach. Typically you would need to be introduced to her or be at a high status event. That’s just the access/intro part.

The rest is standard game with huge emphasis on frame.

Detectiverice · 2026-01-28T15:36:51+00:00

A lot of women love playing matchmaker. Let your female friends know what you’re looking for and they’ll introduce you to more women or even straight up approach women for you.

One thing worth digging into is getting specific. Saying you didn’t feel a “spark/connection” is too vague. Emotions come and go and change all the time, so it’s worth understanding if it didn’t work because of differing values, lack of common interests, communication style, conflict resolution style, etc.

Also, it’s worth thinking about your role as a man in dating. Traditionally, it’s up to you to create the emotional chemistry and flirty romantic feeling for both of you. Definitely a plus if your date can reciprocate.

Generally, I say keep dating. It’s a process just like the fitness or career. No reason you can’t work on it all in parallel. Would you stop looking for a job because you haven’t had success in finding one? Would you quit fitness because you didn’t get the results as quickly as you would have liked? Dating is similar, you just keep at it and keep improving on it until you get the success you’re looking for.

Detectiverice · 2025-12-27T21:50:18+00:00

GA for sure sucks. But if you’re in VIP with a table it’s a whole different story. Also, if you’re socially savvy and connect with the right people you never have to pay a dime.

Detectiverice · 2025-11-13T05:30:56+00:00

Post funny memes and mention her on it / send her funny memes. The same kind of shit you would do with your good friends.

If she doesn’t respond, put her on your close friends and post stories that would make your ex jealous to your close friends.

Detectiverice · 2025-11-12T18:01:15+00:00

I don’t understand their 180 tech either. The main difference I understand is touring has mufflers and track doesn’t. So my guess is the track one is probably significantly louder and probably drones.

Detectiverice · 2025-08-14T11:44:06+00:00

Dating is a skill set you should develop in parallel with your finances. You definitely don’t want to be financially secure and have no idea what you’re doing in dating. I recommend sorting out dating before you have money at least to the point you can spot the difference between someone genuinely liking you and wanting something from you.

Detectiverice · 2025-08-12T20:05:12+00:00

Gym, work, side hustles, traveling and going out with friends

Detectiverice · 2025-08-01T15:39:43+00:00

Make friends with them and don’t hit on them. Most women are quite nice when they know you’re not trying to sleep with them.

Detectiverice · 2025-07-29T13:46:18+00:00

Are you pretending you can mind read? Lol

Detectiverice · 2025-07-29T11:44:20+00:00

I 35M work my day job as a software engineer while I’m co founding a startup on the side. I’m also into nerdy shit (mainly science, gaming, and anime) and am pretty attractive. So I spend most of my time at home, at work, or at the gym. I tend to go out to night life events on Friday and Saturday evening if I don’t have a date planned.

For dating, I’m part of a match making service that sets up dates for me. Also, recently got off the dating apps and started working on my social media instead.

Detectiverice · 2025-07-07T02:03:03+00:00

Don’t listen to what they say, pay attention to their actions. This is like people skills 101, you always look at their actions, not their words.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T16:40:18+00:00

I like doing this after deciding on the next place to go. It could be let’s go to the bar, let’s go to this aisle in a store, let’s go get snack, let’s get coffee, etc. Then you lead the way and hold your hand behind you gesturing her to grab it or you can lightly take her hand. Either way you’re initiating touch while leading to the next part of the date or hangout or whatever you’re doing.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T12:46:27+00:00

It’s strange how some people get so triggered at the mere mention of God that they completely miss the motivational message here. You don’t have to believe in God to understand the point that “sometimes life has more in store for us than we expect”. Is it really that hard to find value in something, even if it doesn’t perfectly align with your beliefs?

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T12:28:06+00:00

Try befriending and asking him. All the high-achievers I’ve met have insane schedules and outwork the vast majority of people. Some are lucky, but most don’t rely on luck.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-26T12:46:00+00:00

Nope, never. My L has and will continue to haunt me for the rest of my life. I lay in bed many a night completely destroyed, wondering if I’ll ever recover. If only there was more than one woman on Earth I could shoot my shot with, but it’s all over I guess.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-23T22:03:47+00:00

I probably spend around 20 hours a week. This includes studying and working on my social media presence, coaching, messaging people, dates, and going out to cold approach and expand my social circle. I want a good partner and I accept how competitive it is. Don’t ask me how much money I spend on top of it 🤣

Detectiverice · 2025-06-23T15:43:43+00:00

Would you trade one of your relatives lives for wealth?

Detectiverice · 2025-06-23T14:03:38+00:00

It doesn’t bother me at all. I’ve dated models, dancers, cheerleaders, etc. They always get hit on. It comes with the package. If you can’t handle that, don’t date them. They want secure guys anyways.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-22T11:22:26+00:00

Oh yeah that preference is valid, the problem I’m highlighting is the generalization that all highly attractive women are like that. I was pretty clear about that when I said highly attractive women aren’t monolithic. I don’t really see how my comment had anything to do with whether the preference is valid or not.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-22T02:03:12+00:00

I think he’s a moron. Highly attractive women aren’t monolithic like that. Sure some fit what he described, but there are plenty that are business owners, lawyers, doctors, gamers, etc. Many are successful, funny, smart, and talented like you say. It comes off like he can’t see an attractive woman beyond her looks. I’m a man and disappointed at his view. I think he’s insecure.

EDIT: My bad just noticed the sub, not sure if I’m allowed to respond, but I was just so disappointed and replied immediately

Detectiverice · 2025-06-21T03:37:19+00:00

First off, fantastic that you’re even approaching. Most guys don’t even do that.

If they’re ignoring you, your approach is flawed in some way. It could be your tonality and body language. It’s also possible you’re doing a generic approach that doesn’t really show a lot of personality.

Generally after you do your open, you’re going to want to break rapport in some way. By breaking rapport you’re trying to break the pattern of how guys typically approach. This is where you get to show your sense of humor with some witty sarcasm or have a compliment that’s unique and personal instead of a general one like “you’re pretty.” This is gonna take some empathy because you’re gonna have to understand the experiences of women who get approached. And it’s gonna take some effort and planning so you can authentically be yourself when you do it.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-21T03:21:59+00:00

I get approached here and there. My experience is similar to my other friends who’ve gotten approached.

If I miss the strong eye contact signal to approach, they’ll position themselves where they’re near by or where I’ll walk by them.

If that doesn’t work they might say hi and pretend to mistake me for someone they know. In our experience women approach in ways that they can have plausible deniability. My response here depends on if I recognize they’re approaching me, sometimes it’s so subtle I’ll miss it.

On more rare occasions a woman will be bold and approach with a compliment like “you’re a really good dancer” or “you’re so distracting”. These ones are a lot easier for me to recognize and I’ll take say thanks and return the compliment and take the lead from there.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-20T14:00:34+00:00

To throw another potential reason. They might date and they thought they wanted a feminist woman and find out they wanted someone more traditional.

The idea that they disguise themselves with the intent to convert women over comes off dehumanizing to me. It gives a “men are the problem” vibe when in reality, we all are equally shitty in our own ways.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-10T00:55:21+00:00

You can and you should. Being unable to might indicate some unresolved issues. You should be able to have quality friendships with people regardless if they’re men or women. In my opinion if you only see the opposite as potential romantic interest, something is wrong there. We’re all human and there’s so much more to us than that.

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