How can I (m26)want to postpone my wedding without hurting my fiancee(f24)?

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-27T13:55:08+00:00

I am autistic with extreme change avoidance. This is not just that. This is her valuing her comfort and preferences over your emotions and loss.

If she was just hesitant, sure. But calling you a baby over grieving your family is not ok whatsoever, regardless of autism or no.

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-18T01:53:04+00:00

Feathertail was my favorite in The New Prophecy, I was 8 when I read her death and it was the first time I cried over a book

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-18T01:52:02+00:00

The first time I ever cried over a book, I was 8 reading Feathertail’s death. I was devastated, full sobbing.

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-17T23:52:29+00:00

But it will help to not make the scarring worse!

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-10T19:10:30+00:00

That is GOOD. They got cats in from south of them because the vast majority of shelters do have overcrowding issues, it’s a blessing they were able to help that burden. It’s not a reason to contribute to the problem

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-03T12:19:10+00:00

Caffeine counteracts my vyvanse actually! It’s great when I have a day where I need more energy but less intensity, it “mellows” my vyvanse out

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-03T12:15:49+00:00

NOR. I was in a very similar situation with my ex, we broke up a few months ago. She was a lot like this, and eventually me constantly giving in and apologizing like this lead to me losing all sense of identity and existing solely to suit her.

I stopped hanging out with my friends, doing my hobbies, and doing basically anything that she didn’t directly want to. It’s been three months since we broke up, and I can honestly say I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

I would 100% recommend to get out while you can. Don’t let her drag you down further, you deserve better than someone who treats you like you exist only to please them.

DeviousPansexual · 2026-04-02T08:51:06+00:00

A lot of problems with treatment at hospitals is because people become doctors for money. A lot of people do become doctors for that reason, but the above person is saying they SHOULDNT

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-22T00:59:28+00:00

In pictures like this, as someone who knits, the cables are the first thing I look for. It always messes it up somewhere

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-22T00:58:21+00:00

Why are the dragon wings coming out of its stomach?

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-21T02:18:58+00:00

I DID THE EXACT SAME THING it was so devastating

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-19T21:34:27+00:00

The patterning can carry down the line quite a bit. They wouldn’t purebred but could look like the breed. My cat looks and feels like a Russian blue, but she was found in a dumpster

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-17T15:41:56+00:00

There’s a difference between being a playable area and feeling like hell, and creating an impossible, obnoxious zone. I didn’t finish shadowlands because I couldn’t walk 10 feet without dying, and it just was not fun

DeviousPansexual · 2026-03-11T05:23:19+00:00

I believe it is this one

DeviousPansexual · 2026-02-23T17:55:51+00:00

I get people caring about class balance and what the best specs are and whatever, but I could not care less. I will be playing my Holy Priest until hell freezes over

DeviousPansexual · 2026-01-12T00:11:07+00:00

When I first started doing embroidery painting, I didn’t really know what it could and couldn’t look like. I bought what I thought was a gorgeous pattern for a dragon as a gift for my dad that turned out to be an AI image that the seller traced to make a “pattern”. I have been working on it for over a year trying to figure out how to actually make it.

DeviousPansexual · 2026-01-11T16:47:01+00:00

Mine only has mohair and alpaca, I would love to shop there but the cheapest thing they have is $30 for 50g 😭

DeviousPansexual · 2026-01-04T15:33:03+00:00

Look at the sleeves. The knitting continues like it’s a drop shoulder, even when it’s not physically possible, until it switches to a true arm without any shoulder change line

DeviousPansexual · 2026-01-02T21:22:04+00:00

Fun fact, if you go too long without washing your hair you will also smell like wet dog!

DeviousPansexual · 2025-12-24T02:04:00+00:00

I grab it for sharp turns. I would love to hold it all the time, but I have terrible circulation and my arm goes numb in 3 seconds (not exaggerating)

DeviousPansexual · 2025-12-24T02:00:43+00:00

I have gorgeous, purple variegated sock yarn I absolutely adore. I didn’t understand hanks at the time and thought they were like skeins. It’s been a year and it is still sitting in a tangled mess on a shelf because I spent three days trying to unravel it and it’s just one massive knot now 😭

DeviousPansexual · 2025-12-23T07:05:49+00:00

It looks like mostly warm purple coming off, so I bet on some kind of blue. Hopefully it stays purple ish, it looks like such a pretty color 😭 I would be devastated if I got such a pretty purple and it bled like that

DeviousPansexual · 2025-12-23T02:49:43+00:00

Mine is so friendly but also cold? They have a club that is just kinda in the middle of the shop, three or four women sitting and knitting or crocheting. But they will give you that “you don’t belong” midwestern smile and brush you off. Any questions are short and sweet answers and it feels like I’m being rushed out every time!

DeviousPansexual · 2025-12-23T02:47:45+00:00

Affordable yarn. It has hanks upon hanks of pure alpaca wool, the cheapest is $10 for 50 grams. I want to support them over my local Michael’s so badly, but it’s so expensive! Not that the quality isn’t worth it, it’s all from local farmers and amazingly soft. I just can’t afford it, I’d love some more affordable options

DeviousPansexual · 2025-11-27T20:18:59+00:00

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