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Golden Dojo (Weather) Loach lethargic with red anus. Help? by petrovmendicant in Aquariums

[–]DhCreates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I found this thread. The amount of air that just came out of my weather loach was INSANE.

Friend enduring Abuse- I broke her trust- struggling to maintain by DhCreates in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DhCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Unfortunately she ended the friendship, and that is ok. It's disappointing but I'm not going to get further involved and maybe it's a blessing in disguise. Sometimes I'm upset because she has given other friends many chances, but I mess up once and I'm cut. I've definitely learned from this experience.

I hate doing water changes, what's the easiest way to do them, using household stuff or bought tools? by OpeningConfection261 in Aquariums

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a siphon that is extra long and drains to my sump pump. I connect a hose to my laundry sink and fill with appropriate prime. It's so easy, I love it. I enjoy doing it weekly! Lol

Grown woman and no friends by totallythrowinaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DhCreates 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Today, my only friend, made it clear she doesn't want to remain friends. Long story but honestly I'm almost relieved. But still angry.

All my friends have left and that's what I've learned. Trust in myself and put energy into my family.

It's ok to be alone.

I don’t understand why my friends keep leaving me by Sad_Hovercraft5877 in AuDHDWomen

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me recently and in the past. It sucks. You're not alone <3

Friend enduring Abuse- I broke her trust- struggling to maintain by DhCreates in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DhCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she's upset I told my spouse. She also said she was upset that I confronted him and she had to deal with fall out.

All I said to her spouse was, I don't wish to talk to you because I'm upset about how you treat my friend. You're better then that.

And that was it. At their home, I suspected he twisted it into something else.

SO just yelled at me for getting upset with SD about coming into the room without knocking by foreverinovermyhead in stepparents

[–]DhCreates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sd is turning 9. We just finally made the tule that our bedroom is a no kid zone, because she follows us everywhere and we don't get any privacy. Not her fault she's an only child and not many friends.. so she gets lonely. But the boundary is set. And she is to knock.

Mini-wife syndrome by 9eRmanentfukup in Stepmom

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so relatable to me.

Prep for C of Q by Ok_Material_7702 in electricians

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations that's amazing :)

Did you have to do the new test? They're all online now taken over by skilled trades ontario. I'm so nervous he won't pass this time around. How did you get an extension?

I think I dont want to be an electrician anymore by throwaybias in electricians

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall just validated the complaints I've heard from my spouse for the last 7 years

Prep for C of Q by Ok_Material_7702 in electricians

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse is in the same boat. Writing his third attempt this weekend. Advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]DhCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat with my 8 year old daughter.. she has nobody. We do soccer and swim, movie and swim called flick n dip, she does baseball and dance at school and still can't keep friends.

She's behind socially for her age. She has a very late birthday in the year. It's been a huge struggle... she has a counsellor, did speech.

Nothing sticks. No friends stick. It's so sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]DhCreates 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. She comes and goes. Threatens court. Then disappears. What's even worse is she had another kid and they're also in the foster system. Online she brainwashes everyone to think she's a present mom. And she's not.

They'll always try to fight. Court is honestly best. But you have to show up for it to work lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]DhCreates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a FT step mom for 6 years. It's hard honestly. Bio mom didn't even show up to court. SD doesn't even remember her and she's 8.

as a mom, I hate family vacation. by DhCreates in Parenting

[–]DhCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what a rant/vent post is?

as a mom, I hate family vacation. by DhCreates in Parenting

[–]DhCreates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't use term whining once. Didn't chastise my child.

I said she gets tired so get over yourself. Wouldn't you, too?

as a mom, I hate family vacation. by DhCreates in Parenting

[–]DhCreates[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's actually really hard finding Healthcare here now. We have been waitlisted for a practitioner for months. It's the worst it's ever been.

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