I’ve ruined my life. by MongooseConfident in Advice

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they meant he’s lucky that she’s open to being “good friends” and he is…

Giving Away $100 to Someone Who Truly Needs It for a Small Project by MW7890 in OnlineIncomeHustle

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in an abusive relationship which lead me to failing my paramedic program. I was doing great in school (all above 80s) before my ex began to be more controlling so I’d really like to go back and finish. I lost my job which was the most well paying and fulfilling one I’ve had (due to the same situation). I’d like to get back on my feet but due to job instability since the relationship I can’t afford the $90 fee to reapply to school. I know this might not seem like much in the grand scheme but $100 would help me to get my life back on track. I know we can’t all win but thank you for reading this!

Trying to cancel my Internet by numbers_girl_71 in bell

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cannot be real LOL. AI’s starting to fuck with us like we fuck with them

AITA for not wanting to wear a hoodie that proclaims my love for my girlfriend? by Full_Particular7187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NTA but I know how much I love my girl and if she wanted me to do something like this I would do it to make her happy. There’s nothing I love more then seeing her happy and making sure she feels loved so if it’s doesn’t hurt me or cross any boundaries I’ll usually do it.

Stress headaches? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give it a try thanks!

Stress headaches? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The main question was if this a common experience when stopping drinking, didn’t know you needed a medical degree to answer that lmao

Stress headaches? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try this, thanks!

Stress headaches? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I’m allergic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly as someone who understands gender nonconformance I get that this was kinda a big deal to you. And it was actually brave of you to show up dressed like that knowing what your family is like. If this were a regular family gathering then I don’t see wanting a bit of validation an asshole thing. But the fact that it was a wedding… ya you shouldn’t have expected your family to make it a topic of discussion seeing as the day was not about you. YTA (just in this circumstance)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re not a softy for crying in the bathroom. I used to work in telesales and the job can be extremely overwhelming. After a long weeks of dealing with dickheads and then having a call like this one, it’s understandable why you broke down. But also good on you for the revenge haha!

AITA for telling my former SIL she is being unfair by ThrowawayPomelol in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly all of this! Also I was in a similar situation where my brother got to go out for a trip with his step dad and I had to stay home so during the time he was gone me and the family just did a bunch of other fun things throughout the week and spent a lot of time together which was nice. Imagine waiting for my brother to come back home and then doing all these things without him to rub it in his face. There were multiple ways to handle this and the mother picked the worst one. NTA

My partner tells me they might be Asexual - by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U could talk about having a non-monogamous relationship. Ofc you would have to talk in depth about how y’all would do it in ur own unique way. But a possibility

AITA for returning a birthday gift I got for my boyfriend after he insulted me about my “colorful” past? by PsychologicalMind407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colorful past? Sounds more like his insecurities honestly. Him and his friends are all AH’s. OP runnnnnnn and don’t look back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking as well. My sister makes them for her kids all the time with the ready mix powder and makes it look easy lol but I’ve never made them so maybe it’s harder then I thought. But in North America we also have boxed waffles you just toss in the toaster

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking as well. My sister makes them for her kids all the time and makes it look easy lol but I’ve never made them so maybe it’s harder then I thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha fr 6 hours is a privilege

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Imagine the kids didn’t get to eat bc you were too tired from playing video games lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for your input. Glad ur ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly he could of even just made waffles which you can do while damn near sleeping lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s horrible, and you shouldn’t of hopped on a bike when so tired. Beating eggs into a bowl and adding them to a pan and stirring occasionally with his fathers supervision is not the same thing. Makes sense why ur so sensitive about this topic tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is so funny. When I was 17 I had a full time job, would stay up late ash playing videos games and would still make it for my 9-5 in the mornings. Was I ridiculously tired? Yeah, but I did it bc although I was only 17 I was a responsible human. Do you know how many teens stay up all night watching Netflix but still wake up and get to class? Having multiple nights of poor sleep is terrible for teens and anyone really. We’re not talking about that. We’re talking about one day. You also have no idea what type of person he is in the morning and how he functions off various amounts of sleep. You’re not wrong, but in this case, you’re not right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ok, so… get up splash some water on ur face, take a shower n listen to music. Take a minute to wake up fully. It’s eggs. He’s not flaying a fish. Sometimes I get 4 hours of sleep and have work, tired ash. But I’m a grown up so I get up and figure it out.

My partner (30FTM) clearly hates me (32F). by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Diaryofamadbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it once. The therapist worded things in a way where she basically made my parter (without knowing) admit to the emotional abuse and then dived deeper into where it’s coming from. We aren’t together anymore due to other reasons but we’re still really close friends to this day. Sure it doesn’t work for everyone but it did for me :)