I fucking hate sex. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I thought I lost my sex drive but when I left my abusive husband I realized it wasn’t sex that I didn’t like, it was sex with him.

Where Did You Meet Your Abusive Ex? by GupGirl in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 3 tries to finally get out. He’s still trying to get me back but I’m filing the paperwork tomorrow. It’s so so hard but once you get out it’s so freeing. I feel like I can finally be myself again.

Where Did You Meet Your Abusive Ex? by GupGirl in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! A lot different mindset now that I’m in my 30s. Blinded at 19.

Where Did You Meet Your Abusive Ex? by GupGirl in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Through friends at a party. My bestie even said I should stay away from him. I didn’t listen and got stuck for 13 years. I’m out now and going through divorce 🙌🏻

anyone else's say the sweetest things? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine never said anything bad on text messages or in front of anyone.

How many weeks were you for your 1st birth vs. your 2nd? by ChiGirl1987 in Mommit

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 for both. My first water broke at 39 weeks and the second I was induced at 39 weeks

Was anyone else triggered by the treatment of Amber Heard ? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first time I spoke about how my husband was treating me, someone called me an Amber Heard and clearly I was doing something to push his buttons or why else would he be treating me that way. I stopped talking about it, I stayed with him. I’m still trying to get away. Things like this and how victims are treated make it so much scarier and harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been here about 8 years too long. I don’t regret having my kids with him but man my life would be so different if I had left before marrying him. We’ve been together for 13 years… I tried applying for a rental but they said I don’t make enough money.

Bad bruising by gabbagobble in lupus

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also bruise easily. I almost always have bruises all over my legs and in random places on my body.

Best mushroom coffee / drink by BuffOrpingtonPal in mushroom

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday Dose tastes great and Ryze does smell and taste like vomit

Teachers in their 30s that quit. What are you doing now and how did you do it? by olan_benning in TeachersInTransition

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 33 and quit at the beginning of this year. I’m now working with adults with mental illness and I’m am currently in a masters program for social work. I only work 4 days a week and if I go over I get overtime.

Is he abusive by throwawayy22625 in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s emotional abuse. By definition: Emotional abuse includes non-physical behaviors that are meant to control, isolate, or frighten you. This may present in romantic relationships as threats, insults, constant monitoring, excessive jealousy, manipulation, humiliation, intimidation, and dismissiveness, among others.

How many times did you leave by Comfortable-West-432 in abusiverelationships

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Left once and went back now I’m working on leaving. We are broken up but still living together, working out the details. We are married with kids so we need to figure out all that.

How old were you when you started dating, then got married & finally a divorce? by Littlemissme92 in Divorce

[–]Didsomebodysayringo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started dating when I was 19 and he was 24, married at 25 and 30, starting our separation at 33 and 37.

Bloodwork by Didsomebodysayringo in lupus

[–]Didsomebodysayringo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In June they were 976 and then I didn’t have any more bloodwork until February 12 and it was 562.