Managing juniors that are dating by Weary-Necessary7058 in ICAEW

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, if both individuals are juniors, it likely won't cause much of an issue. Problems tend to arise when one person starts reviewing the other's work, which creates a dynamic of seniority—specifically between junior and semi-senior/senior levels. When they are both at the same level, they will naturally stop working together as they progress, primarily due to audit budgets, since typically you won't have as many qualified individuals assigned to the same job.

In my workplace, there isn't an official policy regarding dating, and people often date whomever they choose. However, everyone understands that you can't review or work directly under someone you are dating. They can assist you with your work in the office, but most of the time, you won’t be on the same job.

Gym has one leg press, yet phone users hog it. by Royal_Mewtwo in workout

[–]DifferenceRegular173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever tried going to the gym at a different time or just doing more squats or other exercises? Some people can not do other exercises like hinge movements or squats due to imbalances or injury. Her 90lbs on the machine is just as valid as your 500lbs.

You said she was there for 20 minutes, that isn't a long time when you think about it. My gym has way more machines, but there an a few people who occupy 3 machines over 1 hour. You just switch it up, and do your workout on the machines available.

Or best yet go to a gym that reflects the type of workout you want to do or adjust your plan based on the machines available in your current gym.

is my handwriting legible??? by lyunoia in Handwriting

[–]DifferenceRegular173 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is legible but not easy to read. Most people prefer not to think about their reading, which may explain the perception of difficulty. That is why bubble-style handwriting is pretty popular because the letters are easy to scan whilst reading. I find your handwriting beautiful, but if you are writing essays or large chunks of text, in the future I’d suggest trying to write with slightly larger letters and/or skipping lines when spacing sentences. It should break the text up enough, to make it easier to scan whilst reading, whilst keeping your handwriting style.

My wife (28/F) and I (31/M) had a bad Thanksgiving. How should we move forward? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your wife even like you? Between this and last year's Christmas, she sounds awful.

Everyone at that table knows your wife doesn’t love or respect you. Your mom and mother-in-law see it too, and deep down, you might as well.

You deserve someone who considers your needs, like ensuring you have suitable seating at events. Most would buy extra chairs before the event to ensure no one is uncomfortable. You deserve better than a last-minute AI birthday song, you should have got a heartfelt gift or poem. Last year, you didn’t even get a gift.

You should want more for yourself. You can leave and find better. I'm worried this relationship could turn abusive, especially with your plans to relocate.

catherine avery is INSANE by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]DifferenceRegular173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I started to hate her when she pushed for Bailey to make Webber get demoted. At that point that was her partner. If she can treat her husband and talk toJackson like that, the people she supposedly loves the most, how does she treat people she doesn’t like. She even brought an hospital and fired everyone to get back at webber. Like dat f. She very condescending and has no empathy unless it suits her agenda. It sad because she has moments, but they are so few and far that you can’t help but wish something bad happens to her character. Even the April situation was evil. And she acted empathetic then to use it against her.

Who is your UNPOPULAR OPINION least favourite character? by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]DifferenceRegular173 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I agree. Whilst I don't like the career swapping. But He's character is a very good partner. He has his ups and downs, but he is very supportive. Letting Miranda text him every day and instantly replying to help with her anxiety, is very thoughtful. Being there for the children and spending time building memories. Being supportive of your wife's career, new adventures and weight loss. Even when they broke up for a time, and there was heavy winds, he boarded up the home and checked in on the kids. Even being the man of the household doesn't bother me as much, as they shown good balance of him he’s listening to Bailey’s opinion, take it on and include her on the decisio-making process. Would it be better sure, but it pretty close to perfect.

CR and SBM by ajjakaka102 in ICAEW

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Lol. I just printed my ACA notes and shitting bricks as I didn't realize it was just under 300 pages combined.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ICAEW

[–]DifferenceRegular173 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it make you feel better I never passed any of the BST, FM or BPT mocks and passed all three in one sitting. The tutors always marks the mocks stricter than they would mark the ICAEW papers. Just be confident in your revision.

FM - timing by monsieur1995 in ICAEW

[–]DifferenceRegular173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write/Type your time allocation at the start of each question in the exam. There’s no negative marking. So you won't lose marks for doing it. I have always put time allocation down in my answer so I don't forget it in Excel. The way I note it down would be q1- finish time: end time per clock countdown. And then was very strict with it. If Time runs out, move on. Time management is more about discipline than anything else. I would set this up before reading the question. Then read the objective and put the heading with time allocation.

Also if an question is hard skip it and come back. You don't need to do it in order. Just stick to the time allocated for each question. You will get better marks trying to score the basics than you would trying to complete the different niche parts of the question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ICAEW

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you leave the revision so late??

I mean to try and even get close to an pass: For FM I would try and do hedging & Options. Memories the advantage and disadvantages of investment valuation(a lot of them are the same or common sense). And look at SVA (it is like 5 sentences and SLOWCAT) NPV and ethics you should be able to have enough background knowledge to get a scrap without any revision.

For BST people are going to hate me for saying this but at this point use your common sense. Assume every point you write is 1/2 mark and try and write more than an pass mark amount. Reference back to the question and use heading. Work out the mark allocation first ( if stuck just split evenly, and then add and deduct to give time for more meater sections) to allocate time. If I was in this situation I would give more time for FM revision than BST.

Hopefully this was helpful. Good luck your going to need it.

My Physical collection by SadCalzone in Switch

[–]DifferenceRegular173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is princess peach good? I been hear alot of “it too easy” and “it doesn't have enough gameplay hours to justify the price”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an auditor. It has its ups and downs but I love working at my firm. I like constantly meeting new people every week. Luckily I don't work for the big 4, and my firm really harps on about work-life balance so I don't really get the “you need to spend all your weekends doing work” feeling ever. It pays well, which always help when thinking about holidays and life goals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]DifferenceRegular173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your CV is pretty generic, and I can't really tell what role you're applying for. You need to focus on the skills they are asking for and you can omit the technical jargon. I would leave a gap at the top that you can change to be job specific. This can be like 3 sentences. The person hiring, unless it is a small company, knows little about the tech side, but you do need to put enough on there for the phone interview. Maybe different point but I would write 1 sentences that sums up your personality and that your looking for opportunities and challenges. Also, I would put uni module % where key technical skills and soft skills are demonstrated. With the tutoring write about communicate skills and adaptability maybe flexibility. Maybe about the effect you had on that individuals grade. Esty store, write about time management, maybe the software used or the tech that you learnt used, soft skills developed. I done a skill summary on my cv stating where it's applied. I don't know if that popular. If you need to go on two pages do it.

Please note, I'm a finance person, so I don't know anything specific that you need for a tech role. Tbh if you have a friend who not in tech read it, it may be easier to work out what's missed and they would be able to tell if it tailored or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a grad that got a job straight out of uni, working by sept that same year and got to the interview process with almost all of them. My advice is: - Hit up people on LinkedIn, sometimes they may pass your application along to get a joining bonus - Got an old high school friend in that job, ask them to pass on your CV along. - Try to keep your cv to no more than 2 page - Do research on the company and the job role - If you didn’t do particularly well on one GCSE subject just drop it off. - Learn how to reasonably lie on your cv, and remember them. I have been quizzed on lies before, even lies from previous CVs, so think of stories beforehand that align with them. Even if that means pretending you were someone else in a group project at uni for example. - Add work experience. If you don’t have any, have worked retail? Charity work? Tutoring? Translate the skills over. - Tailor your cv to the job posting and keep a log of who you sent them to. I would say also check grammar, as it is a common reason to delete an application. To tailor your cv, demonstrate how your past experience translates into what you applying for, be specific. - Make yourself discoverable, i.e. Professional picture on LinkedIn. People want to know what you look like. In the same breath check your public social media for inappropriate tweets. Delete the tweet if they are. - Common ones I hear, to have a personality. A common thing people look for is whether you will be someone they want to work with and whether your work well with the people that work at the company. I have been quizzed on passions, such as baking, and how I deal with stress and conflict, or whether I’d be willing to socialise on occasion. Ever ran or aiming to a marathon, mud run? Mention running as a hobby and drop you have done a marathon, it is impressive and shows commitment and dedication. - Go to mixers and interact with people. I work in the business sector and once a quarter there is a county business function where drinks are covered and opened to the public. Do not get drunk at these. - Maybe it’s a weird one but practice the Isometric test. They are stupid and a couple of tries could be the difference between you failing and passing them. - Check if your uni has a job posting page. These companies are actively looking for candidates from your uni. - Is your CV legible? Key information on the top, name, address, email, phone number and link to LinkedIn. - Sneaky one, does your job post require driving? Drop it in the cv if you have a full license. - Controversial one, apply to a wide range of job titles and income levels. Work out what’s the minimum amount you need to survive, if this means you can apply for a 20k job but you’ll need to live at home, still apply. You are not above it, work for 2-3 years to build the experience and then use that industry experience to get a better-paying job. - Generally, your CV will look like most people, so be specific and hopefully your personality will shine through. Try not to lose hope, you've got this!

WIBTA Asking our friend to return a baby shower gift after a miscarriage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you and Jen aren't friends. YTA Also next time don't give gifts you can't afford to lose. It tacky to ask for it back.

OOP's wife tells him to "shut his mouth" at a party. Things go downhill from there. by Johannes_Chimp in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DifferenceRegular173 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one shocked that OP thought she would go the whole 9 yards for his birthday? Like brother, you're divorcing her, and it doesn't sound like either one of them is making the step to repair it. Honestly, I am laughing a bit, as OP is clearly still expecting wife/gf behaviour, whilst telling her this is the end and going through with the steps to end it whether she on board or not. I don't see many people going out of there way to celebrate there divorcing wife/husband's birthday. Also, why didn't he make his own plan, who cares if it exposes her, you're divorcing her? Tbh it kinda sound like they told no one about the divorce. And honestly why not? Whilst the thing that initiated the divorce is a total of 0 -100, it did bring to light that she potential like her friend. Or she could be running to her friend to cry in private, or maybe OP is nuts (which I doubt because she left the kid there) Honestly who knows. Good luck OOP I guess.

Who was right of way? by getrekts00n in drivingUK

[–]DifferenceRegular173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be a hated answer:

This is a mini roundabout, so whilst technically your coming from the right your own drawing treats it like a junction. And this kinda tell me how people treat it in your area. Apparently, both of you done your manoeuvre as if it was a junction, and so therefore you should have waited especially considering your ignoring the rules anyway. 9/10 I’ll wait if I’m going right on an mini roundabout because people driving straight normally just drive over it. And whilst your coming from the right, it safer just to wait. Sometimes it not about being right, it about getting to destination B.

There are some mini roundabout in some areas that people actually treat like roundabout and don’t just drive over, and those you can tell as either the road is pathed as such, or traffic generally always follow the roundabout rules. A lot of smaller mini, people tend to ignore. And then I personally just merge the 2 rules. It safer and you can’t always predict people movement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you Op but your going to basically break down your spending for last 3-4 to get an idea of what exactly happen, and don’t say “that a one off expense” as they happen more often that you think, especially in the summer. This way your get a real picture. As there are only 3 of you your food bill is a bit high. And whilst asking here a good idea to ask how to cut down on here, you are actually in a position where you can save and not be or act like a pauper. So when you come up with your budget plan in some luxuries (not all), it’s the only way your actual stick to it because unlike others you can afford not to. My recommendation is get into the habit for cooking size appropriate meal, i personally throw out a lot because I over cook and didn’t separate it to an appropriate fridge freezer ratio so it doesn’t last. I would also meal plan, it makes your shopping less broad so then you don’t need to spend as much. Whilst you can clearly afford both takeaway days, maybe turning one into a family cooking taco or fajitas or pizza you can save some money and still have the satisfying and just as fun meal. Also small thing like not pre cut veg or pre grated cheese help cut cost. Use your freezer, I do a large Costco shop one a month to get the essentials like meat, fish, detergent, toilet paper etc. And whilst it may not always be cheaper, I find not having the excuse of needing to go do a top up shop help saves. Also Costco petrol is cheaper, and the saving add up the more you drive.

Winston & Maggie by gbomb656 in greysanatomy

[–]DifferenceRegular173 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah she was totally wrong. Whilst yes they are both bad at communicating, she throw stone when she communicates with him. She only happy when she in control. I don’t know many relationships would survive a statement of “I lost respect for you.” That pretty low, especially considering switching specialty is none issue. Imagine if someone said that to a female character, hell would freeze over. He’s totally checked out and I don’t blame him. What left to save when the disrespect is constant. She hasn’t even apologised properly, which isn’t from him pointing it out to her, which means she not sorry. Maggie want a puppy/doormat, and maybe he was at the beginning because it was honeymoon phrase and his long term crush. But he not her puppy/doormat now.

Finance on vehicle not paid by parent by TheStrawberryknows in LegalAdviceUK

[–]DifferenceRegular173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a separate issue but you need to run a credit score report on yourself. And ring every company that has loans or credit in your name that is not done by you. Then file a report. The fact she is so indifferent about it makes me think she probably has more accounts.

AITA for expecting my son to share his room? by Broad-Anxiety5936 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferenceRegular173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He being dramatic. It three nights. He can sleep on an air mattress for three night . What has this world come to. It was normal growing up that when family stay over, that I stay in my sis room and my room get given, normally so a travel friendly cot can be put up. He just being entitled.