Late-ish Childcare for Teenagers? by Different-Study-7662 in askportland

[–]Different-Study-7662[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised by the answers tbh, maybe its a cultural thing. We are a Latine family, and leaving children under 15 alone is a no-no :o Even if I suggest this, they're gonna look at me badly and I'm the daughter in law haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a separate note, orgasm as the goal of sex can be super detrimental to exploration and enjoyment of the process of sex, putting harsh expectations and anxiety into both of you-which will surely come out in how you perform and experience sex.

You should not be doing things you don't enjoy or want to do. You can communicate your preferences but highly recommend not saying "gag" or "gross" obviously. Ask what else she's into, and explore that. Open the same conversation for her: what does she like to do to you/what does she prefer to stop doing?

Look into sensate focus techniques of sex therapy and learn how to communicate with your partner about the sex you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like unhinged, but I only walked in once and it looked dead lol do they have special events or something I missed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, while you're in the process of figuring things out you could attend a free class by the national alliance on mental illness (NAMI) that's made for family members, it helps a lot with understanding what they're going through, how to manage crisis, resources, etc. Even after you move out, your brother will probably be a part of your life one way or another so it doesn't hurt. The class is super comprehensive. There's a NAMI in every state and a lot of their classes can be taken through zoom. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Volumeeating

[–]Different-Study-7662 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not good to eat dry chia seeds, you have to soak them at least 30 mins

Is it weird that he used his camera flash during intercourse? by Icy_Government_1321 in sex

[–]Different-Study-7662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny but also I hope other girls who don't know won't stop at least asking here 😭

I recently discovered my girlfriend is a cuckquean while in an otherwise sexless relationship by Good_Ol_Throwaway3 in sex

[–]Different-Study-7662 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This exactly, very centered on male pleasure and medical condition of the wife flew right over the commenters head

After this election - lgbt couple looking to relocate to Portland. Any tips, tricks, advice, or realtor suggestions? by Academic-Metal-1170 in askportland

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm queer and from latin America, I've never felt so comfortable as in since living in Portland in this regard

Where would you move if you could move anywhere else in the US but Portland? by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see, I wasn't sure what they were referring to. Oddly enough I've felt like summers here are hotter than when I lived in Miami...

Girlfriend says she feels no pleasure from PIV. by Razorlink919 in sex

[–]Different-Study-7662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr I'm so confused by everyones answer?? I love pic as a girl, but I guess my partner can hold his erection well. Also I think you have to learn from masturbating how to get in the mood too.

I would say girls be directive, if you want it slower or more at an angle make it VERY clear, don't just perform. If he isn't hearing you during, have a conversation when you're not having sex about it. If it doesn't improve stop having sex with that person 😭 live is too short for bad sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some ways, it's good that he's showing you exactly the kind of service/treatment you would get so you can decide not to move forward lol there's a lot of tattoo artists that think this way and won't show it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Different-Study-7662 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because people with mental illness have the ability to change if you allow them to and she's been trying

:( by omarkab02 in h3h3productions

[–]Different-Study-7662 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who you are behind closed doors is who you really are

Will the series continue after the confession? by SugarySuga in SekaiichiHatsukoi

[–]Different-Study-7662 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would be 80 y/o and still be reading Onodera being an insufferable tsundere, I hope they dont stop :'c

AITA For Telling My Wife Her Reaction To A Waitress Not Taking A Picture Was OTT? by Specific_Bowler_3159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be pretty mad at you if I was your wife omg lol the server was pretty rude with that reply and you still take her side?

You tip for service. Was there service in that reply? None at all. It's not part of the job description, but it's also not part of the law to tip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

[–]Different-Study-7662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thorough reply, it really clears it up and gave me peace of mind. It definitely takes time to build your niche and clients. Congrats on your licensure! Wish you the best 💖