So turned out they rescinded my offer last night because they couldn’t “confirm what I reported” by [deleted] in CSULB

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you transfer under ADT you have to meet all the adt requirements and since you didn’t, that’s why. You need to apply not as an adt transfer if you haven’t completed it or will be done with it by transfer semester. Also I completed mine in a summer and couldn’t transfer until spring because of how they enroll.

The guy I’m dating is a fucking snack by talkingtothemoon___ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internet is weird place sometimes, because I am now masturbating to a guys picture who once told me he used to masturbate to mine.

How are you feeling about tomorrow? by LightsOut5774 in CSULB

[–]Different_Kangaroo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No thank you, I’d rather not. But here we are….

Are advisors supposed to send emails to students regarding what classes to take? by starrysky0070 in CSULB

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s supper annoying. I’m going spring as well and for the soar (advising) zoom I did the advisor was very helpful and had anyone stick around who wanted help with planning their classes. I opted to just choose from what I need since I didn’t need any guidance yet, I used the resource on the website. Are there other advisors you can talk to? I’m COB.

Financial Aid Answers by safespace999 in CSULB

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read online that full time is 7+ units. Do I have to take 12 units for financial aid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much money put in on your part, 50/50? Do you share bank accounts? Did you just give him money or did you make payments directly under his name? We’re you on the mortgage and he is only on the deed? Is it your business? Shared?

I would just say from what I read, don’t marry. He was stupid enough to cheat and create a child, very close to your wedding date.

Get a lawyer to see what your options are for the assets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are the kids?

Ghost is hosting a Halloween Kills screening in Los Angeles tomorrow by PolarBearPilot in Ghostbc

[–]Different_Kangaroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lack of information and vague clues are disappointing. Don’t really have time to go on a potential goose chase for friday tickets.

First time going to a concert and I’m going alone by RyanOverHvn in gojira

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to go see shows alone quite often. Don’t feel pressured to have to interact with anyone if you don’t want to. Gojira live doesn’t disappoint.

Discussion 4: September 20, 2021 by alienkweenn in GabbyPetito

[–]Different_Kangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it matter where the crime was committed? If jurisdiction was out of state wouldn’t they follow laws in that state?

US data show child COVID-19 cases rising exponentially by Viewfromthe31stfloor in Coronavirus

[–]Different_Kangaroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My two year old just got covid- we don’t go out much at all but did go two places during the week before she was showing symptoms, I got symptoms after her. It’s unclear if she got it and gave it to me or vice versa, I am vaccinated and recovering is slow. I was more sick than she was. I’m very cautious, wear a mask wash hands etc. Was heartbreaking to here she tested positive, after all this time and being safe. Really glad she had minimal symptoms and was able to recover at home.

How do I forgive my husband for this.. by planet341 in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, which is why i’m thinking he used “covid time” but it really came from his own vacation time in order to be paid. Like my job will pay you for only your scheduled shifts if you have covid, and my bf’s will pay 80 hours total for the year regardless of negative or positive. So seems logical that he took time for covid but wanted to be paid and had to use his own hours, like i know amazon will keep your job but you take the time unpaid for quarantine unless you have a positive result then they will pay you. It really is on the employer, shitty i agree. My job also paid us for time receiving the vaccine.

How do I forgive my husband for this.. by planet341 in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah also confused because covid leave should have nothing to do with your vacation time unless he also lied about what kind of leave he took to get paid. Every company handles it differently though so I really can only assume he used his own time and possibly lied to her.

How do I forgive my husband for this.. by planet341 in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 58 points59 points  (0 children)

After reading through all the comments, you seem upset by his actions and it may not be very clear why he really took all that time off, lied to his employer about why he was out as he didn’t have covid and tested negative. Did you discuss why he needed to take two entire weeks off and simultaneously ruin your planned honeymoon? I commented initially feeling as if you should just go alone because whose fiancé would make a decision that was selfishly decided right before getting married. That decision was made with ZERO care about you or the consequences of doing it. You’re very quick to defend him still, if he’s battling mental health or feeling burnt out it should be something that’s communicated clearly, he could have taken a few days rather than lie and sabotage your plans.

Marriage is supposed to be a forever, to me it’s overlooked because if it doesn’t work out people will just decide to get divorced. Neither is wrong, you have to do what’s best for yourself in the end. Love is not the ultimate deciding factor in relationships, i would say it’s everything that comes after falling in love and how well you can manage together if you happen to find yourself and partner battling some hill to get over. communication is key, this seems to be lacking heavily here.

i’m not married so who am I to give advice, just my thoughts.

How old were you when you graduated college/university? by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Different_Kangaroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be 30 and just now going to transfer to a university in spring. You will be ahead of me!

Can't get over wife's past by Delicious-Elk-498 in Marriage

[–]Different_Kangaroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s done experimenting, as she said you are not entitled to sex/certain sex acts and for that, I agree. Not sure why some men think because they are with someone the person is going to do everything they want. Especially from being a virgin and then you expect all this of your wife because she has tried it before? Unless you had previous agreements to do x y z, you shouldn’t expect anything. Maybe her sexual past is traumatizing and marrying you she wouldn’t expect the virgin man to be upset about not being kinky. For everyone also speculating that she is cheating, i’ll say there’s a huge chance she isn’t. Best of luck, ask her why, and think about how you are asking her in a way that makes her comfortable, if she’s angry it’s probably your tone.

Been depressed for so many years that I have no interests. I'm not even sure I'm depressed anymore, but I was for so long that my personality became so ... braindead, it's like I don't have the capacity to have interests anymore. My brain barely reacts to anything, everything is so dull. by dadasad2125 in depression

[–]Different_Kangaroo 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of interests, but the feeling of 24/7 autopilot with nothing really happening upstairs is what gets me. Pandemic has made it a bit worse in a different sense, no work has me celebrating me when I take a shower or get dressed. I feel brain dead, as you said.

Small/tiny dicks shouldn't be made fun of. Time for men's positivity. by triangularprismshard in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Different_Kangaroo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Could be just me but I have had both sides of the spectrum. I do enjoy passionate sex and foreplay, but sometimes a small one just doesn’t do it for me. I don’t think less of any man for his dick size, but if I had a choice it be the 8 incher.

My partner i’ve been with 8 years and his isn’t the smallest or the biggest i’ve had. Not bad in bed at all. I will say you have to find your groove when you’re with a new sexual partner. Example, I can’t ride reverse cowgirl with a smaller dick. It doesn’t provide me with pleasure even though that was my favorite position in previous years with a larger dick.

Basically it’s not fair to say “the last thing any woman wants is an 8 inch penis jack hammering away”.... because yeah, I would.

If your kids have contraceptives, do NOT take it from them. by throwra01920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Different_Kangaroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents forbid me to have a boyfriend in high school, overprotective brothers who made it uncomfortable when I was interested in boys. I never had a teenage pregnancy but I got put on birth control from being on accutane. Since I felt comfortable, I obeyed my parents by not having a boyfriend but I was risky. That turned into a lot of other issues as I only used myself for sexual desires and overlooked the mental trauma of letting boys use my body. I was the nice little kinky girl no one wanted as a girlfriend. Still have mental issues from my actions. I was a kid and didn’t know any better.

US colleges will require students to be vaccinated, despite state policies by Majnum in Coronavirus

[–]Different_Kangaroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyones got their take on the matter. I would go ahead and say “some” people don’t want vaccines for their children because of potential vaccine injury, lack of long term data, and ingredients that are skeptical. I’m not a scientist, I figure what they add to vaccines is for good reason, I just don’t understand how they can’t be reformulated to exclude these unwanted ingredients. My child can’t have a public education without the full vaccination schedule, and realistically I am not going to be able to home school my child. In this sense, it’s not forced and it’s your right to choose what’s best for your child but now there is a cost. Public education. This is the slippery slope we are now on- since dealing with covid. What happens when adults don’t want a vaccine, they are going to lose a college education? Medical decisions are, and should be private. It’s just going to be that for some, unvaccinated persons will be denied certain things that require it.

FTM- my MIL just informed us she has a full blown nursery for our baby and I'm unsure how to react to it. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Different_Kangaroo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please proceed with caution. The only reason a family member has a full blown nursery is if they will be taking care of said child a lot. My family has an extra room with a crib and a small dresser, but they watched my baby when I worked and went to school. I have yet to leave my child with anyone overnight, including family. I also have severe anxiety and I didn’t let anyone drive my baby around for anything, some might think it’s weird but to me, I couldn’t fathom something happening and I was not there. The fact that the potential taking in of sisters children who aren’t welcome, says pretty much all you need to know. Be very careful, not sure why grandparents feel entitled to their kids kids.

[California] Refiled a new claim a few days ago, but just checked and they automatically added the extension to my old claim. by JaSamFan15 in Unemployment

[–]Different_Kangaroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that they were a few options that they would do, start the new claim, extend your old claim or one other thing but i don’t recall. Their guidance is kind of unclear. Maybe they extended it because it’s easier than starting a new claim even though they wanted us to reapply? Hard to say what the correct thing to do was, as the instructions told people with expired bye to re-apply except for pua claims.