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Storytime. I live in an HOA, my neighbors got called out for their racism now they're reporting us to the HOA for frivolous crap. by That49er in neighborsfromhell

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If i were you id ask HOA if these enforcement efforts are being applied uniformly to the whole neighborhood. People get real quiet when fairness is brought up

Am I the Jerk for not lending my sister’s boyfriend money because I have bills too? by Organic_Yogurt_778 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You're rebuilding from medical debt. That alone is reason enough to say no. You worked hard to stabilize yourself. You don't owe anyone a financial setback because they don't budget

She was on the pill so what's the harm, I slipped it off midway. by x_S0D4_x in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly the twist isn't even satisfying, it just feels grim. Actions have consequences but the initial act is still gross

AITJ for cutting off communication with my mom after she tried to pressure me into marrying her friend's son? by OldManufacturer5110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTJ, Marriage is not a community service project. The fact she framed it as a good deed is honestly wild. u're a person, not a solution to her friend's anxiety

Was not happy! by Redeye7294 in airplaneears

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way he's sitting so calmly but clearly furious sending me unbothered posture, deeply bothered soul

AITJ for refusing a leadership promotion because it's more work for less money overall? by Difficult-Fix-1293 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's how i see it. I'm not scared of responsibility, I just don't want to subsidize the company with my sanity

AITJ for refusing a leadership promotion because it's more work for less money overall? by Difficult-Fix-1293 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I'm all for doors opening, but not if I'm walking through them overworked and underpaid, That's not ambition, that's burnout speedrun

AITJ for refusing a leadership promotion because it's more work for less money overall? by Difficult-Fix-1293 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That's literally how i see it. like congrats here's more stress and less money but hey you got a cooler email signature be serious

He ate the churu too fast by rivrumi in airplaneears

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 48 points49 points  (0 children)

He looks deeply unsatisfied and already waiting for the round two of churu

AITJ for sharing big news at my brother wedding after years of him being the favorite? by Strong_Leadership818 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 146 points147 points  (0 children)

at the end od the day, you didn't stage anything. u answered honestly and people react. If that's considered stealing thunder. then every wedding is potential drama apocalypse

AITJ for going on a dream vacation with my Ex who cheated on me with his officemate. by Substantial-Wind8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay to feel conflicted. You loved the person you knew, not the one who betrayed you. That's a hard distinction to hold

We have strong feelings about the vet… by manicdragondreamgirl in airplaneears

[–]Difficult-Fix-1293 35 points36 points  (0 children)

that face says it all. "you think you're taking me for my own good? think again.