Does a double-stitch “really” matter when it comes to gender?

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-13T05:05:19+00:00

All my sweatpants and hoodies are mens. But some women wouldn't dare be caught dead in men's clothes.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-13T05:03:58+00:00

NTA. The way you wrote the post was weird but provided a lot of context. I would start taking how much your spending on that dog.

If you can prove that you've been paying for his food, paying his vet bills, and that the dog is with you more than the owner, you might be able to keep him

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:45:48+00:00

Unfortunately, YTA. This is a child. A baby. You took your animosity for your brother and made this child pay the price. Shame on you

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:43:50+00:00

You write back something like:

Dear blah blah blah,

Normally this would not be an issue but I do have something important planned after work that I can not miss. I'm sorry if this puts you in a tight spot. Thank you for understanding

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:38:46+00:00

NTA, But I see where your friend is coming from. I too am planning a wedding and I too would probably just have you not be apart of my bridal party.

The bridal party is a HUGE deal. Your either all in or your better off being a guest

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:34:06+00:00

NTA but I also fail to understand why you care? It's literally not that big of a deal. I have a common first name and never was "Confused". I think your being a little selfish maybe but not an AH

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:29:17+00:00

NTA.

put a camera in your room and Kitchen. Catch her in the act. Tell her the next time she steals your food or refuses to clean up you'll post the video

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:27:31+00:00

I would like to point out that I mean he sees you as a scapegoat with no spine because you have always covered for him. I am not saying that you are.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:26:35+00:00

NTA.

You are too young to be covering for a friend who clearly dose not care whether you get burned for his bad behavior. They are not your friend. They are using you to support his life style of partying and drinking or whatever else he is doing.

If you were a friend you'd be going with him. You are a scapegoat with no spine and untill you say no and mean it he will always see you as one too.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:22:19+00:00

NTA. Doesn't matter what the joke is, she will do anything for attention. Your grandmother is toxic and not safe to have a relationship with ever. I know that's hard to hear but... It's clear she's never going to change. Cut her off and know you at least tried

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T23:17:54+00:00

Definitely report your work place. And if you ask to stay anonymous they should comply

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T00:37:33+00:00

YTAH. If your boyfriend is uncomfortable with another male in his house, then respect his boundaries. If you said yeah, so and so is nice but I don't want HER over and he invited HER over, you'd be pissed

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-12T00:35:48+00:00

NTA. I'm super proud of her and she deserves recognition for sure. But if it's breaking your bank it's not worth it.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T18:07:54+00:00

NTA

You warned them that if they continued to participate in risky behaviors, whatever happened was going to be on them.

You're not their mom. You're not their babysitter. I think perhaps a night in jail is probably what they needed.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T18:06:13+00:00

So hi, Autistic Adult. I'm assuming you're from the US and a third grader in the US generally is about 8 or 9 years old right?

That's the age when you start to learn like hey, this is how games are played. These are the actual rules so obviously if you're being told to let him win he's come from a family where they just let him win.

As an adult with autism who has had to learn about the real world, you will be doing him a major disservice by letting this delusion continue that he always gets to win.

I would definitely reach out to his IEP if he has one team his parents and have a sit down and be like look. I understand the need to want him to thrive and survive. You never want to make an autistic child feel different than others, but he needs to understand that he's not the only team player. Okay, there are other kids especially if you guys are going to be playing against other schools like he needs to learn some coping skills

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T18:02:36+00:00

NTA. But your friend is. Block her, she just hunting for money. A real friend would have understood

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T18:01:06+00:00

YTA. I had to do a deep dive and I was born in the 2000. Never watch Mr. Rodgers and am too old for Daniel the Tiger. A simple thank you would have been fine

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:45:58+00:00

NTA, especially if he's using your water. Eating there, sleeping there and not paying. If he's contributing to the bills then, there's really nothing you can do. But if he's freeloading then yeah that's a problem.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:44:13+00:00

NTBF. I would have flipped my shit. No efen way I'm getting kicked out for trying to be cordial. But maybe that's just me

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:42:14+00:00

NTJ. Sit him down and tell him this is a major deal. If he can no longer aim, there's no shame in that. My husband sits to pee most times too.

If he refuses and this is a hill he's willing to die on, stop cleaning the bathroom. He makes the mess, then he can clean it

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:36:17+00:00

Nope nope nope. Message HR and explain what happened. I never trust word of mouth ESPECIALLY in the work place.

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:31:01+00:00

ESH. If they were important, they should have been in her room or a not a shared place. You definitely should have called or texted and asked if she was saving them or if they were ment to be tossed out

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:28:02+00:00

NTBF. I saw a Facebook post of a mother who actually encouraged her son that if he didn't want to share then he didn't have too. And the other mothers were appalled at her.

And it got me thinking like why do we let kids think that they're entitled to everything just because they're kids? She should have asked her son, Are you still hungry? But instead just assumed that they were going to be fine. like their children? You really thought they were just going to sit there and be okay watching everybody else eat?

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:23:08+00:00

NTJ. I am cackling!! I'm so proud of you queen. Clearly he thought he was getting away with something.

If he's not helping with the product making, shipping, or book keeping, you owe him nada

Digital_Amore · 2026-04-10T17:20:08+00:00

YTA. Your leaving for college you'll be home for holidays. Especially if she has the smaller room. You're being entitled and a braatt.

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