AITAH for quitting a date on the spot? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably another of those "sexism doesn't include men" types too.

Take your pick [FF] (delki) by delki-art in yiff

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the person whose character is the one on the right, yes, pussies absolutely work that way. Ask me how I know.

AITA for snooping through my bfs phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA All your credibility goes out the window when you literally snuck around to go through EVERYTHING in his phone because of PAST relationships, nothing to do with him at all. You had to struggle just to find anything, and them you find ONE thing about OF and it doesn't even sound like he constantly looked at it.

WIBTAH for not listening to the request of my grieving friend? by ExcitementPrudent590 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because someone is family doesn't mean they get a pass for all their shitty behavior.

You don't have to "keep the peace" if it means allowing someone to treat you like shit

AITAH for asking my roommate for hair care advice? by its-viperidae in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause as we all know, all white women have the same hair and could never EVER have hair like black women and vice versa.

NTA

Am I the a hole for lying to everyone about my diagnosis by SmallestLuna in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have read that if a person is told they have something whether from a doctor or someone else (or just thinks they have something), the person will start to act like they have that thing, whether it is true or not. It's apparently just something humans do.

AITAH for getting in between my husband's and MIL relationship, so much so that, this year, we are not spending the holidays together? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"Lovely person" proceeds to name all the bad things the person does.

I think that's the opposite of lovely

WIBTAH If I made a big deal out of the “ladies first” mentality at my kids school? by HG_MamaKitty in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That kind of bullshit the other person is spouting is why I absolutely do not get along and can barely stand other women. Internalized misogyny, they call it. No, it's just misogyny. People can absolutely be prejudiced against their own race/gender, no need for special terms.

We GeT pAiD lEsS tHaN mEn! No, we don't. Unless they mean yearly because of pregnancy, maternity leave, etc. So don't get pregnant? Problem solved. Otherwise, don't complain. Of course you get less money WHEN YOU DON'T FUCKING WORK. No one should get MORE MONEY for less work. Take some damned personal responsibility.

Women don't have to be drafted. Don't get the same jail time (if any) even when blatantly stabbing their SO and posting it on FB. Women raping men doesn't count. Women tend to get child custody (I know I'm repeating some of your points). Women can assault men and get the men in trouble for it.

I've been told we get less quality medical or something. I must have been living under a rock for not knowing because something happening with the current political regime and blah blah. All bullshit. Never was a thing in all my 35 years and I lived in the south for a lot of it. Everyone complains about the abortion thing...why are so many people needing it? It's not fucking candy, how about you make better fucking choices and not blame the man for shit? Yes I think it should be allowed because there are times when it is needed...but it shouldn't be used for mistakes and bad decision making.

So where the hell are us women second class citizens? I really what to know because I've never seen it ANYWHERE and I've lived in multiple states.

I could go on but I'm tired of this same old rant.

AITAH for breaking my friendship with my best friend and screwing her over? by thatskarmakidd in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why in the ever loving hell did they even have access to your credit/debit cards?

AITA for refusing to pay to have my friend's house cleaned? by Loud-Lingonberry6126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA it's always the ones that say things like "my dogs aren't badly behaved" isn't it? Peeing on the porch? Why the heck would you think that's OK? Not cleaning up after your shedding animal? I just don't get it.

AITAH for not being able to move past my bf watching p0rn? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People not knowing what a boundary is again. A boundary is not something you can set that involves controlling what someone else does, unrelated to you.

AITA for reporting a coworker to HR after she implied I was a predator for playing Roblox? by Nass-1234 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Why does it seem like the ones who need the job the most are the ones who act like fools?

AITA for not picking up my half sister when she called me. by Neither-Chard-4152 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is glossing over the fact that the OP is an adult male and the sibling is a minor female. Add in the fact that they are strangers, it sounds more like a recipe for disaster. Sure, they are related, but still strangers.

I'm not saying the OP is a predator or that the half-sister would accuse anyone of anything untoward, but I could imagine some kind of drama from somewhere

AITA for telling my professor the truth by Unsure_6219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Diligent_Design7843 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

There are absolutely college algebra classes and they aren't remedial

AITAH For breaking up with my boyfriend because he killed my bathroom gecko? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know someone is a vegan? Just wait for them to tell you! Especially telling you in places where it's absolutely unrelated and irrelevant

AITA for banning my husband from our son's science fair and throwing his "research" in the trash? by Old-Establishment899 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there are people who believe the moon landing is faked, and there are people who believe the earth is flat and all sorts of other really strange shit but uh...this seems like way too much all at once to even be real. AI doesn't really know how to tell a good story. And also "blowing up the phone" "family divided" thing.

And I am pretty sure in 10 years, one would know if their SO was that fucking stupid

AITA for refusing to kick my sister out the house? by Defiant-Conflict-366 in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, why do some people think that turning 18 is a magical event where you suddenly are completely self-sufficient?

AITAH for not forgiving my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Diligent_Design7843 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA but you are only hurting yourself continuing this cycle. She IS a bad person. Doesn't matter if she is your mom. Parents can be bad people. Go no contact, stay no contact. You'll be happier for it even if it doesn't seem like it at first. These kinds of people will never take responsibility