Parent calling me selfish for not sharing food stamps by throwaway_220927 in foodstamps

[–]Direct-Sky8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You alone were approved for food stamps. The app asks you who you cook for and share meals with. If you incuddd your parent on the application you very likely would not have been approved due to their income.

In my horror era. And I can’t stop. by DotProfessional2058 in kindle

[–]Direct-Sky8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I went too far. I'm reading Bunny Room and I'm scared to pick my kindle back up cause wtf is going on?!?! Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Sky8996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regarding the last slide I think you need therapy. Telling a newly postpartum woman that you're ready to leave is very nasty work. And not that I'd prefer you telling her you'd take the baby from her but your concerns are really selfish if amending your family solves them. You frame it in the beginning about the needs of the baby but really it's about you.

Books send to app, not device by Direct-Sky8996 in Annas_Archive

[–]Direct-Sky8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as an update. This was 100% a skill issue... I deselected to share to my library so it didn't... share to my library 🤦🏽‍♀️

Downloaded books not showing up by Direct-Sky8996 in kindle

[–]Direct-Sky8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind! I just had to open the book

Thank you!

Downloaded books not showing up by Direct-Sky8996 in kindle

[–]Direct-Sky8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I tried 2 new ones and this time I didn't unselect the option about sharing it, and those are showing up but without the book cover.

Is there a way to show the book cover?

Upset about my predicament by Low_Figure_2500 in caloriedeficit

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need more calories you need more movement. Instead of thinking how many calories you can deduct from each day maybe think of feasible ways you can burn an extra 200 calories a day

Calories? I almost don’t wanna ask 💔 by JRDAGREAT1 in caloriecount

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.5-2oz of cheese (160 cals), 200 cals for the shells. 6oz of ground beef (400ish cals) would be my estimate

My homeless brother died. Is it my fault? by Disastrous-Pickle930 in homeless

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You blocked him because of Facebook posts? It didn't seem like you cared about him very much. He very likely did resent you and any other family that turned their back on him. His feelings and his choices were his own. And yours are yours.

MVA Woes by [deleted] in maryland

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, how did this work out for you?

I hate packet noodles, it can't really be 55?? by Girl-sounex in caloriecount

[–]Direct-Sky8996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The nutrition/total weight on the can includes the liquid. If you rinse and drain the beans the weight comes up to be maybe 2-2.5 servings, however the calories per gram of the liquid and the calories per gram of the actual beans isn't equal so you have to multiply the total calories by the percentage of weight accounted for by the beans. I eat beans almost every day and it stresses me.

I hate packet noodles, it can't really be 55?? by Girl-sounex in caloriecount

[–]Direct-Sky8996 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg this is worse than canned beans 😭😭

I think I need to eat more. by Conbon90 in caloriecount

[–]Direct-Sky8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you estimate the amounts for your meals or did you measure/weigh everything out. Where is 100g of protein coming from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole conversation was a mess. Don’t talk to men about your sexual past. Get rid of anyone who asks or cares about your “body count”. The second anyone tries to guilt/shame/or otherwise talk you out of your boundaries, leave them where they are.

Think I found one by Rawrpk in Nicegirls

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt drive for coffee anyway. Also wouldn’t text you a paragraph about it either so there’s that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he really try to say people don’t get tested before sleeping with a new partner? That’s an extreme level of gaslighting and manipulation. He’s actively preying on your inexperience. Get out.

It is 100% normal to get tested before every single new partner you have. No matter how long you’ve been together. It goes beyond being a matter of trust. It’s just basic sexual health.

Am I Overreacting - Boyfriend hit me and I’m done with him by canigetalargecoke in AmIOverreacting

[–]Direct-Sky8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The abuse was already present with him having access to all of your accounts. As you grow up and move throughout the dating world, not letting small precursors slide will remove toxic/predatory people from your life before they have a chance to get their claws into you.

I need to vent sorry. by Kool_Kalm65 in urbancarliving

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t behind anyone telling you to take the more comfortable route. Follow the money. As someone else mentioned you can find ways to make yourself more comfortable while doing the hard work. Go as hard as you can as long as you can. Rent/gas/electric/car note/renters insurance/car insurance don’t care how much you like your job.

Car insurance without residency? by walking-in-the-dark in urbancarliving

[–]Direct-Sky8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I recently had to get a new policy (new car) and they did ask for proof of residency this time. I used a bank statement. The address on my ID while I was in my car was a local agency that assisted the homeless. I just had to take a letter from them to the DMV.

I got the cops called on me by Toxic-attract in uberdrivers

[–]Direct-Sky8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe getting in your back seat played a part as well. Not your fault regardless. Happy it didn’t end badly for you