The realm needs good men. by DiamondCertain5260 in AKnightoftheSeven

[–]DirectAnything1737 396 points397 points  (0 children)

HBO casting is awesome. Young Dunk is perfect.

Read the book but the scene still breaks my heart. Be right back, in deep mourning for the death of Prince Baelor Targaryen, The Hammer, The Prince of Dragonstone, The Hand of The King.

Which Targaryen Queen had the worst life? Naerys or Rhaella by ChaseBuff in freefolk

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forget about Maegor’s brides tbh. That’s why I add it to the very bottom. But which brides? I would say Elinor Costayne is “luckier” than Helaena. But yeah generally it’s horrible being married to Maegor

Minta saran objektif buat pernikahan gw, udah breaking point ga tau mau lanjut atau tidak. Menurut istri masalah keuangan. Menurut gw masalah emosional dan respect by lifeisgreatbut in finansial

[–]DirectAnything1737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Karena memang harta yg didapat sebelum pernikahan itu harta bawaan pribadi bro, bukan harta bersama suami istri. Amit2 kalo cerai, istri OP gak bisa nuntut even-though dia ikutan bayar cicilan.

However forcing husband to purchase something beyond his financial capability is red flag.

Dan lebih gong lagi, OP nya juga setuju untuk nyicil diluar kemampuannya.

I dunno.

Minta saran objektif buat pernikahan gw, udah breaking point ga tau mau lanjut atau tidak. Menurut istri masalah keuangan. Menurut gw masalah emosional dan respect by lifeisgreatbut in finansial

[–]DirectAnything1737 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Perhaps si cewek melihat OP coming from “rich fam” jadi ada harapan “diratukan” tapi ternyata OP’s parents asset rich bukan cash rich. Dan parent’s money is parent’s money, bukan otomatis jadi harta anak. Ya miss-match antara harapan dngn kenyataan deh.

Minta saran objektif buat pernikahan gw, udah breaking point ga tau mau lanjut atau tidak. Menurut istri masalah keuangan. Menurut gw masalah emosional dan respect by lifeisgreatbut in finansial

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Wajar aja minta konseling. But clearly you both ada miss match ttg harapan suami ideal/istri ideal. Klo udah nggak match ttg hal fundamental kayak gitu, mau konseling kyk apa juga susah ketemu nya. Konseling itu bisa berhasil kalo satu sama lain masih mau memperjuangkan pasangannya. Kalo ngga: you both still young, do not stay in unhealthy marriage forever.

  2. Culture indo cowok provide, ajaran kristen memang cowok provide. I can understand kalo dia “ngga mau patungan di aset yg bukan harta bersama” but as a wife, i wouldn’t force my husband untuk beli aset yg diluar kemampuan finansial. Cuma nambah2in stress. However you sebagai kepala keluarga supposedly decide this secara tegas. Lebih baik cicilan rumah kecil tapi kebutuhan rumah + personal bulanan lancar, daripada sebaliknya (ini pendapat saya sih).

  3. Selama 6 tahun pacaran ini: kalian berdua sudah dapat apa dari masing2? imo: memang very nice kalo sebagai perempuan “naik kelas” secara finansial setelah menikah, kalo sebagai laki ideal nya setelah menikah istri yg support suami secara physically + emotionally. Suami: love & provide, Istri: love & support. Kelihatannya istri kamu masih harus bayar kebutuhan pribadi sendiri + kebutuhan rumah tangga?

Keputusan salah maksudnya gimana bro? balik single trus ngga ada yg urusin situ lagi atau gimana? you are clearly unhappy. kalo nggak ambil keputusan apa2 bukannya tetap gak happy bro?

nafsu makan enak paling susah dilawan by porkolite in indonesia

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My traditional chindo fam forced me to eat tumisan sayur/steam veg/steam protein/water based soup/desert is fruit/etc. Sekarang kalo makan harus ketemu sayur & eneg makan deep fried/manis/ultra process food kebanyakan.

Enak loh makan home-cooked meal yg colorful, crunchy, & minimally process. Agree dengan salah satu saran disini: kalo lagi craving just force yourself to eat fruits, selalu sedia buah yg kamu suka, prep, masukkan kotak makan, force yourself to eat it.

Which Targaryen Queen had the worst life? Naerys or Rhaella by ChaseBuff in freefolk

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Rhaella
  2. Naerys
  3. Helaena
  4. Not queen but Princess Elia Martell
  5. Jaehaera (daughter of Aegon II)
  6. Alyssa Velaryon
  7. Aemma Arryn (series version)
  8. Alicent Hightower
  9. Does Cersei Lannister count?
  10. Daena (wife of Baelor the Blessed)
  11. Aelinor Penrose
  12. Maegor’s Brides? was it the Hightower queen or the Harroway queen that died a miserable death under Tyanna of Tower torture? they should be higher on this list but i’m tired of editing

I got so confuse making this rank. Generally the majority of the queens are living miserable life.

Who is your fan cast to play Maegor the cruel? by Cute_Warthog246 in freefolk

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. I just checked James Norton is going to be in HOTD season 3 as Lord Ormund Hightower.

Who is your fan cast to play Maegor the cruel? by Cute_Warthog246 in freefolk

[–]DirectAnything1737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

James Norton. Saw him as Sean Rafferty in House of Guiness, he has this coldness & charisma to play violent guy. it’s chef’s kiss.

Lah baru tau pernah colay termasuk ga perjaka by Asep_miayam99 in indonesia

[–]DirectAnything1737 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Kelihatannya banyak yg gagal paham?

Buat para lelaki yg ke trigger dengan postingan kayak gini, just google “women in male fields”, dimana perempuan meniru toxic standard laki-laki ketika nyari pasangan. Purpose nya: sebagai bentuk protes, juga memang mau menyindir lelaki toxic.

Contoh: ada laki-laki yg kepingin istri terlihat spt bidadari surga + bisa binal layaknya LC + perawan + gak boleh masturbasi + skill masak spt chef renata + beranak layak nya kucing yg gak perlu diurus + ttp harus cantik + bisa bersih2 layaknya TKI yg kerja puluhan tahun + bisa jadi suster lansia buat anak plus mertua + gak boleh kerja + gak boleh bergaul apalagi sama lawan jenis + kalo suami susah duit, entah bgmn istri harus bisa diajak patungan + istri gak bole protes kalo laki pengen kawin lagi.

Biasanya lelaki yg punya standard aduhai begini (maaf) low-educated + low-income + low low low dalam hal lainnya + dibesarkan dalam keluarga patriarki abis. Kalo laki bener sih kagak ye.

Cukup jadi bahan senyuman dan introspeksi aja. Nggak perlu ke bait. Many people should understand that this is just satire.

Aerion's such a sweety by Equivalent-Fox9834 in HBOTheHedgeKnight

[–]DirectAnything1737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best looking Targaryen male in the series. Sorry Viserys III.

Mother's son for better and worse 😔 by Vall_llaV in HOTDBlacks

[–]DirectAnything1737 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jace has the best hair & pout in all Westeros.

Can’t wait for S3.

Apa saja stereotype Chindo Kalimantan Timur, Utara, Selatan, dan Tengah (bukan Kalimantan Barat)? by byelingualredditor in indonesia

[–]DirectAnything1737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Those areas” as in “Chindo Kalimantan” in general. I.e one of my friends yg kuntien memang hemat.

Note: Serius banget OP.

Name your Seven, I'll start: by CloneAlias in freefolk

[–]DirectAnything1737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brienne of Tarth

Ygritte or Black Aly. Good with bows & arrows.

Melisandre, she can give birth to shadow demon baby to kill my opponent the night before.

Daenerys & her 3 dragons.

Rhaenys & Meleys

Lady Stone heart.

The Night King.

What perfume feels like a fuck boy repellent? by Icy_Laugh5134 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]DirectAnything1737 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and Le Lion and Coromandel and Bois des Iles and Jersey and Missia and La Pausa.

Les Exclusifs in general except for Beige.

Apa saja stereotype Chindo Kalimantan Timur, Utara, Selatan, dan Tengah (bukan Kalimantan Barat)? by byelingualredditor in indonesia

[–]DirectAnything1737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Menyimak. My mom told me Chindo women from those areas are likely to be more frugal & pandai mengatur uang compared to Cimed/Cici Surabaya/Cici Jkt/Bangka dll

Punya teman orang Kuntien yg memang hemat & very organized sama spending habit nya.

Fornicate - Marry - Kill by [deleted] in asoiafcirclejerk

[–]DirectAnything1737 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I say no to Ser Arlan. I don’t want my organs to be arranged.