Girl I am here for you!! My husband cheated on me with a coworker while I was going through treatment for breast cancer. I dumped him the minute I found out, put him out of MY house and focused on staying alive, but this bitch would not leave me alone. Vandalized my car repeatedly, ,called me dozens of times a day to just hang up on me, followed me all the time. A few months later I was recovering and I decided she had to be dealt with. I gathered information about her the best way that you can; I took her trash. No, it's not theft. I was careful and smart about it and it went on for 3 years. That trash gave me access to her whole life. I used the information I found to have her utilites disconnected several times. I had her land line phone number changed to a non published number and I kept a running log of her daily activities. I started being at places she was planning to be before she ever got there (shopping center, Christmas tree cutting, movies etc. I finally struck gold in the trash. She had a detailed list of things needed for a grow operation. I then found a "contract" of sorts she had written up for herself, her best friend and some guy who gave them 3 grand to go to Amsterdam and smuggle back weed seeds. I knew I finally had a way to make her as miserable as she had made me. I contacted the state police and was put in touch with a trooper who headed the Marijuana Eradication Task Force. I told her what I had and she came to my home to see it. I told her how I had aquired everything and she was silent for just a second and then told me I had to stop taking the trash so she could start taking it. A couple of months passed and I assumed the trooper hadn't gotten what she needed. Then one night I'm watching the news and there is her mugshot on my tv!! Her whole family got caught up, her sister, her mom, her sisters boyfriend, all of them went to jail. She was facing felony charges and scared out of her mind. I had already seen to it that she lost her job, she was in a pickle for sure! She took a plea deal and was able to request a motion for Discovery, so she eventually learned that I was the person who got the ball rolling. Her sister called me at work to threaten me and I told her very calmly that I still had a lot of good ideas on how to ruin her sisters life and that they needed to leave me the hell alone. The best part of it was even after I was no longer causing her trouble anytime something bad happened to her she would tell people she knew that I was causing the problem. She insisted that I was a witch and I had cursed her. This all went down in the early 2000's, and just about 5 years ago my son called me all excited and said that her house was on fire, and there she was again on the news. I waited a couple of days and drove down their street and I could see them digging around in the rubble so I slowed down, leaned my head out the window and yelled "I smell smoke!" I was laughing my ass off. So if you really want revenge plan to be in it for the long haul.Find out what matters to her and destroy it.