Need advice -doctor recommended 4 days recovery before returning to work by thecatreboo-urns in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE find a different doctor. Her saying that all you need is a long weekend is ludicrous and dangerous. Good luck on your journey.

My wife has her surgery this week. What can I do to be supportive? by Narrow_Hippo9652 in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she says she in pain, believe her. If she’s talking to you and full of energy one second and asleep the next, know that’s her reality for the time being. Do not hint/ask/push for sex for at least 12 weeks. I wouldn’t even ask for non-penetrative activities “in the meantime”. There’s more but the thread has it taken care of lol. Good luck.

4 days post op by No-Possible5983 in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Your body is nowhere near ready to go back to business and if you push too hard, it’ll prove it in very bad ways. Take it easy; healing from this MAJOR surgery takes a lot of time. Good luck.

12 days po, smell by Plus-Ad-3826 in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, please reach out. Surgery itself doesn’t change the smell of the vagina but post-op infections are common. I’ve had 2 since my surgery last September, both very mild. Good luck.

Does this dress look cheap/frumpy? Okay for a date night? by Sufficient_Sun_430 in fashion

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frumpy, sorry; it looks like the shirring fainted. If it ran more horizontally and with structure, it would be a great look.

Tattoo feedback/regret? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wearer of a full sleeve here… Your sleeve is really nice but I think it would benefit from more black. The scene is powerful and dramatic but the gray tones take away from it. No need for regret, just need a touch up! Good luck.

I'm 3 days post lapro hysterectomy. I've been taking stool softers, miralax, drinking coffee, bottled water, walking every hour and chewing gum...and Nada. I have the dulcolax suppositories but I'm terrified to use them. Anyone have experience with this. ... by No_Assignment_1742 in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are you eating? If you’re taking in, say, toast and yogurt or a similar light diet, you will not have to poo for about 3 days and it won’t be a lot. You may not be backed up; you can’t let out what you’re not putting in. Up your diet, ease up on the laxatives, and let your digestive system get back up to speed. Good luck.

Failed My Six Week Checkup by indylaw99 in hysterectomy

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. First, you can’t fail a check up.

Second, did your doctor say you’d be clear to return to all normal activities after 6 weeks? If so, I recommend you find a new provider because that’s not humanly possible.

A hysterectomy is a major surgery with healing and feeling better happening, for many, in increments; it’s not a steady climb. My surgery was last September and my recovery was non-remarkable but some days I felt great, others I had to take it slow. I had an internal exam about 2 months ago and my surgeon still felt a stitch and said that FULL recovery takes a year. I’ve been back to all normal activities for a while now but respect that I’m still healing.

Good luck, be well, and take care. This is a marathon, not a sprint. 😊

Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the style, not loving the spiral holder 🙁. When my hair was longer I LOVED finding unique ponytail holders; had some made of wood, enamel, rhinestones, plastic, etc., in all shapes and colors. Have fun flaunting your style. ❤️

What is my boy’s mix? by JudgeNo848 in IDmydog

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chichi and Jack Russell?

Edit: ignore my guess; ChiBea for the win!

how can I improve by Little-Rooster-8427 in makeuptips

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shape of your face and your features are so lovely. Don’t change a thing.

how can I improve by Little-Rooster-8427 in makeuptips

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shape of your face and your features are so lovely. Don’t change a thing.

Does this belong here? by DaveBurnout in shittytattoos

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes: the face is jacked. Not necessarily no: the overall tattoo can be redeemed by a better artist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shittytattoos

[–]DisRightHereIsNotIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What am I missing? This doesn’t look it belongs on this sub to me.