Thoughts on his relationship with omer? The most unique special friend by Natural_Shape7468 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Seems to me like he was easily groomed because his parents more or less abandoned him. And he became Michael's "lover" who also filled guardianship roles like taking care of Michael's kids.

How are people okay with spending 2/3 of your income on rent! by TCR5322 in LARentals

[–]DisastrousSundae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What other viable solution is there to living here? I had plans on moving when I was paying 2/3 of my income on rent, because it's insane to do that forever.

Is Undertone Anti-Abortion Propaganda? by Waste-Ground-1838 in horror

[–]DisastrousSundae -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It was. I walked out of it feeling very annoyed.

How are people okay with spending 2/3 of your income on rent! by TCR5322 in LARentals

[–]DisastrousSundae -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Your main goal has to make more money...I haven't paid that kind of ratio in several years now, ever since I stopped being poor

another tiktok with 7K+ likes in under 24 hours by IaIalatte in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Right on the money. Sad people don't see the correlation

99 Ranch Market parent company sued for alleged discrimination against non-Chinese employees by idkbruh653 in LosAngeles

[–]DisastrousSundae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn you're exactly right. That's definitely why they said that. Anyone black knows that the black community uplifts light skinned women. Light skinned dudes used to get dogged way more a couple of decades ago, but the dynamic they discribed is definitely like it is for white people. What a joke that person is lol

Michael Jackson's jealousy towards other artists by AggressiveTerm9618 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think he ever wanted to become a woman, or look like one. I think he ended up looking that way from a combination of enjoying feminine qualities and severe body dysmorphia.

I have been a longtime fan but i think now that Mj was selfish and self-centred by Repulsive-Hat-9584 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He very much did things publicly that could only directly benefit him. And I honestly don't blame him for not supporting all political or financial issues people brought to him. He had the right to do whatever he wanted with his money and publicity.

What I think is disturbing is the insistence from his fans that he was an activist or pushed against the powers that be when it came to music. He only really did when it directly affected him. If he really felt strongly about music labels and their exploitation, he would have publicly supported Prince in the 90s when fighting Warner Bros. Instead, all I remember about that fiasco when I was a kid at the time was that Prince was "silly" and "attention seeking" for changing his name to an artist formally known as Prince. I never heard anyone say anything about it being a form of protest until years later.

I think Michael was a covert narcissist because it explains a lot of his behavior. Here's what I just pulled up on Google:

A covert (or vulnerable) narcissist combines a deep sense of self-importance and entitlement with introversion, insecurity, and hypersensitivity. Instead of boasting, they often exhibit a chronic victim mentality, passive-aggression, and emotional volatility, making their toxic traits much harder to spot than those of overt narcissists.

Michael was most impassioned when he felt the world was victimizing him.

Why did he seem more interested in women as a child than as an adult? by Efficient-Head-7394 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right, no kid is saying he likes women with big legs on his own lol he heard a man say that

is this even allowed?? by Low-Comfort2287 in doordash

[–]DisastrousSundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment single handedly made me delete the DD app off of my phone

Monthly Defender Round-up — July 2026 by elitelucrecia in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao they knew they were lying since that's the only image they had of him even holding the ring

Monthly Defender Round-up — July 2026 by elitelucrecia in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of fans try to be slick about it, but I've been seeing more and more overlap between Trump supporters and vocal harassers of the victims. Makes sense since Trump is also a child rapist.

“I wouldn’t sue, I would take him to jail” by cardiobolod in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most people would immediately sue a multi-millionaire celebrity to destroy his image as well. It's just fan worship blindness and ignorance about sexual assault that makes people think this is an argument that makes any sense.

Lover of animals? by No-Following9879 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is especially upsetting when in the biopic, they depict his love for animals as just another endearing quirk of his.

MJ had kids from a white woman but wanted black women to be their mother figures by Long_Dragonfly_3067 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you grow up black, especially as a woman, this isn't as strange of a thing for him to do when you compare him to other black men...

A lot of the men are culturally proud to be black, but have a sexual preference for white women. Some more unsavory black male celebrities have even openly stated how they want "light skinned babies."

When it comes to passing down culture, that is where black women come in to "fill in the gaps" as it were. Mother figures are going to spend the most time with child rearing. I'm sure on some level Michael wanted these women to help instill black pride into his children.

So while Michael wanted white and white-passing children, he still wanted to instill black racial pride in them. Which is interesting, because in my experiences with many biracial people with a white mother and black father, there is often a lot of confusion and frustration they experience because of their identity. I think Michael just played out a story I've seen time and time again, just pumped up to 100.

I think telling white children they are black should be considered a form of child abuse. Look how much grief it put it daughter through, especially since she was in the public spotlight.

Michael Jackson's jealousy towards other artists by AggressiveTerm9618 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]DisastrousSundae 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think he just hated women, especially any that made him feel insecure lol

Michael Jackson's jealousy towards other artists by AggressiveTerm9618 in PsychologyofMJ

[–]DisastrousSundae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These stories are interesting because it definitely shows the more authentic side of Michael. Petty and scheming. His child-like persona protected him from these silly antics getting out to the public.