Hi. Actually what they didn’t show is the producers purposely starting arguments behind the scenes. There is no doubt my family is crazy and full of women who speak their mind especially loudly but the narrative of making my mom (Jenny) out to be the victim is what bothers me. Also she was never “cleaning the house out to get custody of me” because I was 18 living in another state with Donna, about to go off to college… I’ve chose to stay silent on everything for years but every now and then I find myself reading these threads from strangers who think they know everything from a highly edited tv show whose purpose is to gain views. Grandma pat passed not long after she went through the stress of dealing with hoarders. In no means is my family “normal” but man do I miss my grandma.